"baby itch"

mummy2girls wrote: Ok this is just getting wierd! For a while now aron has been bugging me to have another baby with him. i told him to put a wedding ring on my finger and i will. and he says NO! IM NEVER GETTING MARRIED!!!!!!!!! what a freak! i told him that i did not want to be a single mom to 2 kids. Because financially i could not do it. and i dont want to have another baby that he doesnt want to help with. he then says he will then find sopmeone else that will! I said go ahead , let me know what happens ( i guess he was hoping for a jealous responce)

Does he honestly think i am that stupid???He must! He would bug me for a day and then not for a couple days and then out of the blue bugs me again! he wants to try for a boy!

OK OK i do want another baby but i want to be married. My mom said that even if i decided to have another baby out of wedlock that having it with aron would be stupid. because he doesnt act like a dad to jenna and be there for her like he should and for me too.

Josie83 replied: I have to say Shelly I agree with your mum! It sounds to me as though he only sees Jenna when its convenient for him, and he doesn't seem particularly interested in looking after her like a proper dad does. If you ask me I would avoid him like an iceberg in the Atlantic! Maybe if things go well with the other Aron, you could reassess? xx

MomToMany replied: I agree with Josie. You need a different man first! Get rid of him! He's not doing you or Jenna any good. He's not a Daddy, just a father. There's a big difference there.

Kirstenmumof3 replied: OMG what was he thinking? I really hope he doesn't run off and get someone else pregnant! GOOD FOR YOU for sticking to your guns!

Boys r us replied: Uhhm!!! I think this makes him certifiable!
Is the man CRAAAAAAZZZZZZZZZZYYYYYYYYY??

Why would he think for one milisecond that you would want to have another baby when you have no help from him with the one you have? Apparently making babies with him is some sort of game..maybe he just enjoys seeing what his offspring will look like? If I were you, I'd have to reply with a simple, but oh so sweet answer," Aron, are you hitting the crack pipe?"

coasterqueen replied: It strikes me as funny that he wants another baby. WEIRD??? Why would he want one when he doesn't even want to parent Jenna.

Men!

I agree with your mom too .

My2Beauties replied: WT (excuse my french) F!!!!!!!!??? That man needs some seirous help! Good for you for nto acting jealous, I hope if he does get someone else preggo it's some lunatic woman that won't leave him alone and takes him for everything he has! How dare he ask you that after he doesn't even care for Jenna properly??

I'm just confused as to why he would ask that of you??

kimberley replied: Aron is nuts. he doesn't even take care of the baby he's got, why would anyone want another with him?? glad you didn't play into his hand and act jealous or give in. he is so not worthy of you. you deserve WAYYYYYYY better!

A&A'smommy replied: I have already told you my response to this I think he needs to grow up, start acting like a dad AND be resposible to Jenna and then THINK about having another baby. He is crazy!! (((((BIG HUGS)))))) to you!!!!

Kaitlin'smom replied: okay that man so needs s swift kick in the behind....how incredibaly insensitive of him, he has a beautiful daughter that her has (IMO) no real intrest in being a dad to why he wants another is beond me......please sick your ground with him acting more like a dad, urgg I hate irrisponsible people

MommyToAshley replied: He is nuts!

I agree with the others, he is not even a good father to Jenna. It's crazy to think that he would be any different with two children!

But, even if he was a better father to Jenna, what makes him think that you would have another kid with him anyways? From what I understand, you are not in any sort of relationship with him and he has made it clear that he does not want to get married. I probably would have laughed in his face and asked him why he thinks I would want to do that.... well, with him at least!!!

mummy2girls replied: ITA with everyone. Even if for out of the blue become this awesome dad i still wouldnt have another with him. I looked at him one time he brought it up and said...i can not afford having 2 kids when it comes to everything a child needs....he said to me....well i pay for all the bills anywayso you can do it! I almost passed out. I laughed in his face and said what 200 bucks covers my rent etc etc etc? NICE!!!!!! I told him that he needs to realioze that the money thing is not the main reason i cant do it the big reason is because you are not acting like a father. you dont even change a diaper. And watching her is like torture for you. and plus you dont get out of bed until 3 in the faternoon every day. Having one child is hard work but when you add another and you have no help at all is even harder.

but he is still trying!

My2Beauties replied: If you don't mind my asking...how old is Aron? He sounds like he's 16!!! He has no business having more kids!

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