Allison and I are Separating....

guertin31 wrote:

Too many things to list on why... On the outside, I act like I have this perfect family. On the inside, I feel like I'm dying. We are going to the medeator on the 19th.

Don't ever lie to your spouce, even if it is something small. I feel so betrayed and lost. When you find someone you think that loves you spending more time "covering up stories" than telling the truth, there is a problem.

Its not just raining outside...

gr33n3y3z replied: Oh no
I'm so sorry to hear that
Maybe things will work out just wait and see maybe a little time away is all you both need

If you need an ear I'm around

mckayleesmom replied: Im sorry to hear that...I hope that you guys can work through this...Good luck to you guys.

guertin31 replied: I feel like such a *#!.. This has been a long time coming.. I just have to accept it i guess..

paradisemommy replied: been there done that..here if ya need a *cyber* shoulder

mckayleesmom replied:
Im sorry....I don't know the details, but I hope this is something that is fixable.

kimberley replied: i'm sorry. i can comiserate on the lies unfortunately. i always have an ear if you need one.

MamaJAM replied: I'm so sorry.

mommymonster replied: Follow your heart, and listen to your head, you will find a comprimise between love and logic and the best will work out for you. Prayers for you!

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: I am so sorry.

kayla's mama replied: I'm so sorry Good luck to you guys. We are always here for you

Momof3inMe replied: I hope things turn out for the best.

ashtonsmama replied:
I'm so so sorry to hear that...I know you must be feeling alot of different things right now, and if you're the one who "screwed up", then I'm sure you're feeling guilty...it's just not fun for anyone to go through. I really hope you can work it out (I know it may seem impossible, but it's good that you're trying a mediator, try couple's therapy if at all possible), but my prayers and thoughts are definitely with you.

Please know that we're all here for you during this hard time...I know it won't be easy, but good luck trying to figure things out...keep us updated, and please know that I'm always up for listening if you ever need to PM me.


We don't think any less of you. You may have made a major mistake, but please remember that doesn't make us not think as highly of you or not want to help you through this.

We're here.

Mom2BNTN replied: I'm sorry to hear you are separating! Maybe after you both have some time apart you will be able to communicate better how each of you feel about where your relationship went wrong and how you might could go about correcting the problem. I wish you both the best!!

guertin31 replied:
I was the one that was lied too and decieved. For the first time in my life I gave my heart openly and honestly, and I got shafted...

Thanks for the Prayers... I could use em right now..

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: Yuck, I hate hearing things like this...especially when it happens to good people! I'm so sorry...

Edward's Mommy replied: I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you guys get thing worked out. I'm praying for you and your situation!

3_call_me_mama replied: HUGS! THinking of you in this tough time!! HAng in there. Lies are only good for one thing.... HURT! More HUGS! !

MyBrownEyedBoy replied:
This is the god's honest truth. I am sorry you got the shaft. You didn't do anything to deserve it. I speak from experience. I got a big shock in my own marriage, about 1 year into it and it had been going on for 10 months. I am so sorry, I hope you can find some peace in music and here.

A&A'smommy replied: I'm so sorry to hear that!!! Marriage is not easy and you don't always do the right things.. but I'm sure there are things you can do to heal from this if your and the other person are willing to forgive and move on. My thoughts are with you during this rough time, I know your heart must be hurting

BAC'sMom replied: I am so sorry

jem0622 replied: So very sorry to hear this, but very glad to hear that you are seeking mediation.

My2Beauties replied: I'm really sorry to hear that!

Jamison'smama replied: So very sorry...I hope things work out as they should...however that may be. Many of us have been on the receiving end of a betrayal.

Hang in there. Prayers and Hugs.

zdk753 replied: I'm sorry to hear this. You will be in my thoughts. Hopefully things will work out the way you want.

ashtonsmama replied:

I thought that was maybe the case but wasn't sure...I'm so sorry. You know you don't deserve that at all, you seem like a wonderful man and father (even how little I know you), and you deserve to be treated with respect and everyone needs to have trust in their partner...so I'm so sorry that you haven't been. I hope for your sake and the kid's, that it all works out.

You are going to be in my prayers and heart.

CantWait replied: I'm so sorry Hopefully things will work out, whether it's for good, or you guys decide to try again.

My dh are in the try again for the billioneth time spot, so I know what it's like. Best of luck.

Renee'smom replied: I'm sorry ur going through all this, hope you guys can maybe start over again and make it work good........
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Maddie&EthansMom replied: I'm so sorry to hear this, Frankie. I hope things work out.

My3LilMonkeys replied: I'm sorry to hear that.

JAYMESMOM replied: Prayers for you during this time. I have been there before but we were able to work things out after several months. Hang in there and know that you will make it thru.

Hear if you need to talk.

C&K*s Mommie replied: I, like some of the other members here have been on the back end of being lied to. But I can speak from experience that prayers work. I wish you all the very best, and I hope her heart is into this marriage as much as yours is. I also hope that she is willing to give up whatever is drawing her away, for you & the commitment that you made, and Frankie's sake.

Please keep us posted, we are always here to listen. Many prayers for you & for her.

MommyToAshley replied: I'm so sorry.

More prayers and hugs.

redchief replied: Here for you, man. Keep your head up.

amymom replied: Lots of prayers. Take care.

MM'sMama replied: Oh man I am so sorry to hear about this. I had been wondering about you and how you were doing. Hang in there I want to wish you lots of luck and give you lots of . Your in my thoughts and prayers.

Crystalina replied: There is still hope...Right? My hubby and I were married for 9 yrs and one day...splitsville. We were seperated for 6 months and those six months saved our marriage and maybe that's all the two of you need. Time apart. Seperation makes the heart grow fonder. This year we will celebrate our 14th wedding anniversary.

Don't burn all your bridges at once. I wish you the best.

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I'm so sorry to hear this! I understand your pain, when my DH and I seperated last April I felt like my whole word was falling apart. We're all here for you if you need to vent, cry or just talk!

aspenblue1 replied: I am so sorry.

ions_momma replied: I am so sorry to hear this! I hope things turn out for the best!

luvbug00 replied: OMG!!! I'm sorry you are going threw this. I truely hope you guys can work this out! keep you head up and I hope that counseling can bring you understanding and more hope for your families future..