Alright, please could someone help me out

Josie83 wrote: Right, I need some help you lot. I go out for ONE NIGHT and when I come back it seems some strange goings on are happening on these boards?! I am so confused because I had a load of PMs when I checked this morning and one of them was from somoene called Abbie apologising for offending me and then accusing me of reporting her to moderators WHAT?! I wasn't on here last night and have no clue what she's on about . . . so then I look at some posts and see that there seems to be an awful lot of conversation about me yesterday. Can someone please fill me in on what's happening (PM if you want). Have I done something wrong or ofended anyone? I would hate to think so. Please help someone, very confused! xx

MomToMany replied: I wish I could help you Josie. I've been MIA and don't know what's going on either.

Alice replied: I don't have a clue either.

gr33n3y3z replied: I dont have a clue either
sorry

ammommy replied: Josie, it was just a mini drama that was stopped rather quickly by the mods. Abbie is a new member who, well, pretty much insulted all of the young moms on board, especially you "Jodie". She didn't even get your name right. I don't know if the post is still here, but it's by Abbie and is an intro post. I searched her posts last night, and have a feeling that she's just a bit mean spirited or extremely blunt, I'm not sure.
Anywhoo, just ignore it and don't worry. you didn't do anything

akbutterfly83 replied: Well said Lisa.....

She was being rather rud last night to everyone... so please don't pay an attention to her.... we all love ya..... you didn't do anything wrong @ all......

kit_kats_mom replied: LOL. Actually, I reported her to the mods yesterday.

After seeing one post that was directed towards you, I checked for her other posts. Besides her inital post about being a mom to a 4 year old, all of the others were pretty negative. It could be that they were just worded oddly and I was taking them wrong but they seemed pretty rude and some of the posts were pretty personal. I suspect she's either a troll or she's just new to message boards and doesn't know the ettiquitte. Of course she could have been a member of another message board that tolerates that kind of behavior but I'm not a big fan of it...hence the fact that I've been here forever. LOL

Hugs Josie. We know you are a great mom. Even if you are young. Kudos to you

tanner'smom replied: I also reported!

texasp3 replied:
Haha! It was all a plot... we were just waiting for you to take a night off.

Seriously - I was gone too and didn't have a clue what you were talking about so read the replies, and then went and read Abbie's posts. Eeek... I'm glad I missed the mini-drama.

Glad it's all sorted out now. Yay for moderators!

Boys r us replied: Whew! I was being made to believe I was the only one who took issue with her posts and that I must have had some other problem with her(which isn't the case at all), it's nice to know I'm not the only one who thought most of her replies were in bad taste. I will apologize for being hateful back to her yesterday afternoon, I ignored it all morning, not that she'd made any remarks that affected me directly, but when they were made regarding people I consider my friends, then it offended me. Anyhow, Josie you know you're a wonderful mom..and we all know it doesn't matter if you're 35 or 18 when you have a baby, as long as there is love!

coasterqueen replied: I think everything is pretty much covered so I just wanted to offer you Josie. I hope you had a great evening .

A&A'smommy replied: OMG why the heck did she pick Josie out of the bunch she is a great mom! I'm glad it got sorted out!!

Josie83 replied: Wow thanks you lot for all the support! It realy means a lot I was just so confused and thought I must have done something wrong. Lol @ Marie . .. all a big plan eh . . . well! cary I think you're right she's just a troll. She sent me a pretty rude PM that left me totaly confuse,d and I just wanted to clear it with everyone it was okay. I REALLY didn't need that sort of stress this monring, it hasn't been the easiest of weeks and I don't really appreciate the fact that I was 18 when I had Cassie being used as a springboard to start a tirade against young mothers. Looks like it has all simmered down now so I am going back in my cage . . .
Love your favourite teenage mum, Jodie xx

MomToMany replied: Sorry she picked on you Josie. It probably would've been me if she knew I had Logan when I was 16!

Lollie replied: Josie hun..

We all know what a great mum you are and what a little happy sweetie Cassie is!

I also got a PM from her where she was supposed to be trying to apologise and instead she went on about me being young and having 2 babies so close in age!! Then I got attacked for standing up for you!!

I personally hope she crawls back under the rock she crawled out of!

Luv ya girl!

ammommy replied: Yeah, Lollie. My favorite was her asking "how did that happen?" I wanted to reply, "well, when a man and woman really love each other, sometimes they share a special hug that gives the mommy a baby" but I didn't think she'd appreciate the humor

Abbie replied: I THOUGHT MY EARS WERE BURNING. I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS! I HAVE APOLOGISED TO JOSIE AND HAVE TRIED TO APOLOGISE TO HER FRIENDS, BUT THEY ARE NOT HAVING IT . . . MENTIONING NO NAMES. JOSIE, READ YOUR PM AND GET OVER IT!

Abbie replied: AND I COULD HAVE GUSSED WHO HAD REPORTED ME

Sunflower04 replied: Wow Abbie- It is a shame that you have to attack people. Would you be this rude to people face to face? If so you must be a very lonely person.

Why do you even post on this board? Looks like not your not really welcomed.

kimberley replied: Abbie, i know this has been brought to your attention numerous times, but i will say it again... typing in all capitals means "shouting" and is considered rude on message boards. maybe that is why people are taking the tone of your posts wrong. also, try not to be so defensive. it is not tolerated here. everyone is entitled to their opinions so long as they DO NOT attack someone else.

again, i am going to ask everyone to forgive and forget and play nice please.

Josie83 replied:
Okay . . . I have got over it! Just welcomed you in the other post. I hope you settle down here and enjoy being part of the group xx

loveydad replied: I pmed you everything she said to me! You're our favorite little teenage mom LMAO. I was pretty upset since my son has two kids and is a LOT younger than you, I don't consider him a bad dad and don't consider you a bad mum, love!

Emeraldsmom replied: I missed the drama too. I just wanted to say Josie, that I agree that it doesn't matter how old you are as long as you love your child, and it is totally obvious that you love Cassie, and you seem like a very nice person. Even though I don't go on here every day, I feel like many of you are my friends and you have given me some great advice. I just wanted to give you my support.

Josie83 replied: Thanks . . . I have a feeling this is all getting a bit out of hand. Just going to stay out of it in future! xx

Abbie replied: it just makes me want to cry!