D&C scheduled
SOUTHERN MOMMY wrote: O.K. well i went in today and niether baby had a heart beat so they scheduled the d & c for friday at 9am so please keep us in your prayers. I have no idea what happened nor does the doctor he just said that unfortanly this happens sometimes But, i just can't understand why right now the only thing i know is everything happens for a reason.
The boys dad came and got them last night and is going to keep them for a few days and my mom will keep them tomorrow so he can come with me. They are both sick with strep so i feel horrible for leaving them while they are sick.I am such a bad mommy
Thanks everyone for the kind words and prayers they are so appreciated I love you all so much
zdk753 replied: I am so sorry to hear this. I know exactly what you are going through. I went through the same thing before I had Kailynn. My prayers are w/ you.
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Hillbilly Housewife replied: You seem so calm about it all.... I'd be wayyy emotional!
jacobsmama replied: I can see that you are a strong woman...My prayers are with you I know it will work out because you are right things happen for a reason.. You are not a bad mommy!!! You are the best... Prayers
mummy2girls replied: I agree.. i was having so much nightmares! I still have them:(
SOUTHERN MOMMY replied: look to be honest i am numb. i can't find the words to say how i feel and as far as nightmares i think i am living one. I honestly feel like i will wake up and all this be gone but, thats not going to happen.
mummy2girls replied: i dont meant o be mean... im a little upset this time of year and little things set me off:(
CantWait replied: I'm so sorry, I'll be thinking of you guys tomorrow.
jacobsmama replied: It is only natural for you to feel numb at first it is all part of the healing process and you talking about it is the best think you can do..Everyone is different and you are handling this just fine..I'm very proud of you...
Maddie&EthansMom replied:
SOUTHERN MOMMY replied: I'm not emotionless i just can't explain how i feel right now.
Mom2Boyz replied: I am so sorry it turned out this way I'll be thinking of you and praying for you tomorrow.
amymom replied: Oh I am so sorry. I have been and will continue to pray for you and your angels. Please take care of yourself. I understand what it is like to leave your boys when they are ill. IF they are on antibiotics they will be feeling better by this afternoon or tomorrow, You need to care for you right now. There is NO way you are a bad mommy (I understand feeling that way, but you are NOT.
booey2 replied: May you recover soon.
Sarah&Mackenzie replied: I am so sorry. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
jem0622 replied: I am so very sorry and will keep you in my prayers. How far along were you? If your twins shared an amniotic sac then that is a super high risk and that could have been the cause. If your progesterone was not high enough to support the pregnancy then that may have been a problem also. In addition, there is a condition called TTTS (twin to twin transfusion syndrome). I would urge you to ask your doctor about these things (ask them to check for the tell tale signs). The TTTS foundation website is a great place for support! We were a high risk for TTTS until I hit 26 wks with the girls.
Again, many prayers. Feel free to PM me. I have more info to share with you.
HUGS
ammommy replied: I"m sorry.
Hillbilly Housewife replied: I wasn't trying to be sarcastic... I was impressed that you were able to not be freaking...
I hope you'll have someone around when the shock sets in... for your sake!!
Emeraldsmom replied: I am so so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
~~*Missi*~~ replied: i jsut wrote back in your previous post. I am new but also jsut lost twins. if you want to talk vent whatever feel free to pm, msn, mail me anytime.
I am so sorry for your lose.
Good luck and best wishes. My thoughts and prayers are with you
luvmykids replied: Oh, I am so so sorry to hear this. You'll be in my prayers and thoughts tomorrow.
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