DH and I just got into a HUGE fight!

MoonMama wrote: DH called me a little bit ago...and first thing out f his month "Ally WTH are you doing? You are spending WAAAAY to much money!" He went on and on yelling at me for another 35 minutes leaving me in tears and ME apologizing profusely! He has NEVER done that to me before I am really hurt. And truth be told I hardly ever spend "his money" and when I do its only $10-40 on something we need. I usually spend from my savings (been saving since I was a young teen JIC) or from the bit of money I get monthly from a trust set up by my grandparents. What the heck is his issue! I'm sorry I am just REALLY upset and hurt. And no we are not hurting financially so that isn't it. And I NEVER and I mean NEVER get anything for myself, or blow it on junk! I'm sorry I just really needed to vent.

luvmykids replied: I'm so sorry! I'm sure that isn't the real issue and you got dumped on. Are there other things he's stressed about? Maybe with another baby on the way he's wanting to be extra careful about spending? I'm sure he'll apologize and you can find out what he's really upset about

MoonMama replied:
He's away for work for a month so I'm sure that isn't helping, but I don't know. He doesn't know about the baby yet. I plan to tell him when Brae and I go visit him next weekend.

Crystalina replied: Oh man, I'm so sorry you guys had a problem. Maybe, like Luvmykids said, he'll apologize and you'll get to the root of the problem. Things like this will happen and you just have to find out what's up. Either way I know it isn't easy. Sorry.

Danalana replied: I'm sorry, Ally *HUG*

gr33n3y3z replied: sorry hun

paradisemommy replied: being away from your family really does stress you out..dh last year went away and ended up punching a guy (was well deserved) but i think he was just on edge from being gone for so long without us.. he probably didn't mean it..

sparkys2boys replied: Im sorry hun. Maybe when you guys get a few quiet minutes together next weekend, have a talk about it. Im sure its not the money issue but it cant hurt to voice that you were hurt and upset and ask why he thinks you are spending to much. It may clear up everything

punkeemunkee'smom replied: OH Ally I am sorry! It is hard when you are only communicating on the phone! So many other issues can come into play when you are not face to face. I am sure he is over tired and stressed and missing you and the baby I bet things clear up when you see eachother again

MoonMama replied: Thanks girls, I really hope so.

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I hope you can resolve the problem!

A&A'smommy replied: I hate fighting, I hope he calls and apologizes soon!!

Maddie&EthansMom replied: I'm sorry, Ally. You didn't deserve that. I agree w/the other ladies, I bet he's just stressed out.

Let us know what you find out.

Kaitlin'smom replied: have to ask was there a mistake and he is blaming you before finding out the info? Seems like he is stressed but thats no excuse to go off for speing what $40? Sounds like there is way more to this story than we know.

holley79 replied: Maybe DH was just having a bad day.

MoonMama replied:
A bad day it seems to have been...

He apologized and admitted he was just looking for something to vent about ANYTHING. And when his paycheck was $500 less then what it should have been he panicked and found it. They have since fixed the issue and the $500 was deposited into our account today.

Danalana replied: I'm glad it was worked out and that he apologized.