Discouraged - and in tears....

5littleladies wrote: I was all excited (if a person can be excited) about my induction on Monday because my dr. seems so optimistic that it will work well and quickly, and then I started telling people and getting the "Oh well that didn't work for me" comments. Now I'm afraid that this induction is going to take forever, which I guess isn't the end of the world but not a very encouraging thought, especially since I've been thinking this whole pregnancy that it would probably go relatively fast like my last two.

Then, I woke up this morning at about 5 a.m. having contractions-not very close together, maybe 8-10 minutes, but fairly regular for a couple of hours and I was getting excited thinking that maybe this was it-all those worries about induction for nothing-but now they have tapered off and almost completely stopped. Why can't it just start and get itself over with?

Kaitlin'smom replied: oh hon just cause it did not work for them does nto mean it wont work for you. Labor might start again for you, maybe she is just telling you to get ready she is comming soon. I want into labor the moring of the 27th they were timable about 5-8 minutes appart so we went to get checked and they stoped, so we were sent home DHa nd I took an nap and when I woke up around 4pm my water broke, she was born the next moring!

~~~come out little one~~~~

amynicole21 replied: Sorry if I bummed you out! It wasn't my intention. Things work differently on different people - you never know until you try! Your body is gearing up for the big event - this morning is evidence of that. Just keep moving and don't let the contx settle down... only a matter of time now!

Mommy2BAK replied: Aww, hun! I remember that feeling all too well. I don't think you have anything to worry about. Just try to relax these last few days, make sure to spend quality time with your girls, and have fun being pregnant and eating whatever you want Alyssa will be here in no time. My induction went rather smoothly and quickly. Good luck!!!!

amymom replied: Good Luck to you. I understand. Please try not to worry, everything will go well. Try all those things (that you can) they recommend to 'naturally' bring on labor. I can't remember them all but I am sure we could gather suggestions on here.

5littleladies replied:
No, No-Please don't feel bad! Your post wasn't negative at all. I'm just an emotional basket case right now and I get worked up wayyy too easily.

coasterqueen replied: You can do this! You really can! Just try to calm down. You've been through this 3 times now, and this one will be a piece of cake. Just try to relax.

MomToMany replied: Hugs Jennifer! I'm sorry nature is playing tricks on you.

5littleladies replied:
*Sigh* The worlds best advice, and the hardest to actually put into action. I'll try though.

coasterqueen replied:
I know it's easier to say than it is to do. My DH is always telling me to calm down but it's hard.

When Kylie needs to calm down I tell her to slow down and BREATH.

BTW, I just have to tell you that every time I see a post from you your avatar has me ROLLING!!!!!!!!!!!!! He's hilarious but at the same time he's a cutie!

5littleladies replied:
Lol!! It cracks me up too! I need to print it out and carry it around with me-it lightens my mood everytime I see it.

Hillbilly Housewife replied:

my 'induction' started off naturally - my water had broken in the morning.

At 3:30pm (or around there) - no contractions, nothing - so my doc put me on pitocin, and by like 7:30pm or so Emilie was born. It wasn`t all that bad - no drugs until near the end, it was gas.

~Roo'sMama~ replied: I'm praying for you for peace about Lissie's birth, whether you get induced or she comes on her own. Remember God knows what He is doing and you don't have to worry. I know easier said than done.

5littleladies replied:
Thanks Sara! That's what I've been trying to tell myself all morning, but it is often more helpful hearing it from someone else.

A&A'smommy replied:
ITA I know that you have been worried about this for a while but just remember what Sara said if you have to go spend a LOT of time in prayer than do it because God is there with you and he knows how upset you are. I'm praying for your comfort and peace!!

kimberley replied: big hugs hon! i know as the day gets closer, the more anxiety you feel. i went thru the same feelings waiting for Jade but you have to trust your judgement and the doctors. the goal is to get Lissie here safely and if that means induction or not, it doesn't matter. cervidil has worked successfully for MANY women, especially in subsequent pg's. and once they broke my water, Jade was here in an hour or less. *try* to have faith that things will be just fine.

Maddie&EthansMom replied:
This is exactly what I was going to say. Sara is so right, hun. Just hang in there. God has a plan and Lissie will be here when He feels you are ready for her. God is never late.

My2Beauties replied: Honey it will all be ok and miss Alyssa will be here before you know it I guess I am a dumb blonde and I've known for a while that her name was Alyssa but it just hit me - honey you're gonna have 4 girls Whoo - you are such a brave woman J/k I love little girls, but I know my DH would be going nuts with all that estrogen in one household!

TANNER'S MOM replied: AWW I am so sorry. It will happen and soon. Every labor is different. I was induced with my 3rd.. and he was born 2 hrs.. pushed twice.

I have always heard when you want something so bad, you have to NAME IT AND CLAIM IT. Tell God, what you want and claim it to be true. It will happen for you. Postive thougths coming your way.

5littleladies replied: Thanks everyone. I feel so much better now! I'm trying to not think about it and trust in God's timing. (a bit hard to do when I just spent 20 minutes sobbing because I don't have any pants that fit me ) But as far as the delivery-I'm just going to take it as it comes and try and relax.

I love you guys!!!!




Yeah I would say that DH is much braver than I am. At least I have some idea how to handle the upcoming years-he's going to turn into a nutcase!!

jdkjd replied: On a positive note, I had both of mine as inductions and both went great...Kiera was three pushes and out.

~~~~~~~~~~Baby Come Out EASY Vibes~~~~~~~~~~~

Hillbilly Housewife replied:
Heh heh.... I htink you and I are kindred souls in that department.

MommyToAshley replied:
I totally agree, Sarah said it best.

I understand the struggle you are going through, I had the same reservations. But, I listened to my doc and ended up having and inducation. They thought Ashley was past due, but it turns out she was right on time. However, given all the circumstances at her birth, I honestly believe that the induction was the best thing for us.

I was so scared... and the best thing I could have done was to relax. I wasn't progressing very well, and then I had the epi. The epi seemed to have calmed me down and I went from being dialated at 6 to having Ashley 20 minutes later. It was because the epi helped to relax me and allowed my body to do what it needed to do. So, while it may be difficult, and I know first hand that it is easier said then done, the best thing you can do is try to relax.

Just think, very very soon, you will be holding your sweet Lissie in your arms. And, I can't wait to hear all about her.

I'll keep you in my prayers, please keep us updated!