Do You Believe In Love @ First Site? - Do You Believe In Love @ First Site?
Crystalina wrote: This is more about spouses and other adults. I know we have all loved our kids from the moment we laid eyes on them if not before. 
C&K*s Mommie replied: I do not.
stella6979 replied: Nope, not a believer.
msoulz replied: No but I do believe in lust at first sight. I think some folks get the two confused. 
mom2my2cuties replied: I do. When I met Andrew it had nothing to do with sex, lust or anything else like that. We just clicked, and while we get out of step here and there, it is never for very long, and we find our groove again. I truly believe I found my soulmate. Also, I believe it was a true act of fate that brought Andrew and I together, and that it was so random that it was destiny.
and perhaps, I could just be a hopeless romantic.
moped replied: I don't think I do. I believe in something at first sight but not love.
hopefulmomtobe replied: I used to not believe in that at all...anyone that even said that I thought was crazy. Until I met my husband. He was at work (part time resturant/bar gig) and he accidently broke a cabinet door, I laughed and the minute our eyes met, that was it. We were both done! We had fallen in love and didnt even know it. I left without even talking to him, but of course went back and we have never been away from each other sense. 
mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: 100% YES!!! I fell in love the minute I laid eyes on DH. We were 19. I met him at his dad's health food store. A friend introduced us. I had never felt that strong for someone, where I seriously fell super hard super fast. My mom can tell you! I have dated a lot of guys, but my mom only remembers how hard I had (have) it for DH. 
A&A'smommy replied: No I truly do not believe you can love someone you don't know. I believe in lust at first site, I believe in knowing there will not be in end for two people when you first meet but you cannot really love someone until you have gotten to know them and who they are. JMO
Calimama replied: Yes, I do. But I don't think it happens very often. 
luvmykids replied: I believe in "knowing" at first sight but I think love is something deeper that grows with time. You can know the odds are that you'll fall in love with someone, but I think thats as far as I can go with it.
Crystalina replied: Would have been nice of me to answer my own question. 
I do not. I (like some of you) believe there is "something" and I can tell the difference in love and lust meaning that a lustful feeling at first sight is differant then the "something else" feeling.
DH and I have been married 15 yrs (we seperated for 6 mos) and we met on a blind date. We hated each other and it was just so awful that towards the end of the evening we weren't even hiding the fact that we didn't like one another. I remember him dropping me off and I stormed out of the car, slammed the door and never looked back. He did yell, "Back at ya!" to me as I was walking up my porch. 
Fast foward a year. We moved to a small town (I still lived at home) and one morning in our new house I go and sit on the porch. I look up and who should be sitting on the porch at the next house? HIM! Needless to say over time we warmed up to each other.
ETA- I didn't mention it but he was on the porch next door because we moved right next door to his house. 
jcc64 replied: Lust- yes, love, definitely not. To me, love is a complex emotional attachment- I don't see how it's possible to accomplish that in an instant.
A&A'smommy replied:
ITA!! 
A&A'smommy replied:
Thats a GREAT story totally cracked me up too!! I'm glad it worked out so wonderfully for you two!!
Boo&BugsMom replied: I was going to say something like Monica said. Example, when I first met Troy something told me that this guy was special, but I couldn't have told you in that moment that it as love.
MomToJade&Jordan replied:
Uh-huh
You know I used to and thought I had that love at first thing with my ex. At this moment I don't believe in it.
Nina J replied: I surely do
3xsthefun replied: No I do not.
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