Drama drama drama - bring it on brad!!

luvbug00 wrote: I don't have the time or the sanity but long story short tonight brad threated my boyfriends life, took my daughter and refused to give her back and threated to go for sole coustody. My laywer (former judge ) Dad went over there and tore him a new A.. and then we told him to give me mya or face the cops. he gave her and then finally i am done and I plan on taking his stiuped immiture bum to cort. this all because i was out with lars last night for an hour..AN HOUR.

Calimama replied: What an a-hole. Why his he taking is jealousy out on Mya? Dont let him get to you.. you arent doing anything wrong.

mom2my2cuties replied: I think you need to file a restraining order NOW! He can not take your child like that....NO WAY! I don't care if he is her father or not!

cameragirl21 replied: OMG, Nadia, i'm so sorry to hear that...poor Mya...i can't believe her own dad would put her in the middle of this.
thank God for your dad though.
hang in there, it will get better.

mom2my2cuties replied: Nadia - I have a proposal for you - We can do the whole "Strangers On A Train" thing (Minus the one of us murdering the other thing at the end) and solve both our problems!!!!

lisar replied: Sorry you are having to go thru this Nadia. I hope it gets better. I would take him to court and get sole custody if you can.

CantWait replied: Wow Nadia, he's going to far putting Mya in the middle, and gone completely psycho. Time take action, playing nice girl time is over as far as I'm concerned.

A&A'smommy replied: I'm SOOO sorry honey!!!

amymom replied: Sorry to hear that

C&K*s Mommie replied:

gr33n3y3z replied: What has gotten in to him
You have been all but nice to him and this is what he does in return
How stinking rude.
I agree you need a paper trail of some sort Nad bc you and Mya and Lars cant live like this.
Please keep us posted hun

sparkys2boys replied: I am sooo sorry that he acted that way. What was he thinking..

luvbug00 replied: OK I'll fill you in on the story.
Basicaly since Mya has been diagnoised with asmah and allergies my parents have been trying to understand all of it. becaue this is all new to them. Brads mom is "well versed" because both brad and pam had these problems. to them it's all overdramatic life threatening.

so anyway i went out late night shopping with lars the other night. to khols. I had intentions to get mya socks...kinda forgot.. anyway so I was telling brads mom about it. who promised to keep it a secret. ( because i have major adultry blackmail against her.) anyway she told brad who said i put Lars in frount of mya!! I'm sorry but that is hilarious. I go out once a week. if i'm lucky 2 times. ( for anything from going to the store alone to going out with lars.) then he said i'm risking her health by being arround the cat and she could die from it. ( his dad told me he'd have me arrested for manslaughter if she died at this house. the thought he would even seggest that was hilarious as well because it's soo overdramatic) At any rate brad said he would have her allergiest testify on his part. to which i laughed again becuase
who takes mya to all her shots? me
who takes mya to all her appointments? me
who gives her meds every day? me
not to mention I'm getting rid of leo and the cat but his parents still have a dog. so which house is then a hazerd to her health??
He has a horrid temper, he drinks like a fish and when he got his teeth pulled popped his percaset and then his mom gave him hers too. The list goes on. so I'm meeting an attory tomarrow . oh and his girlfriend told him to call child protective services.

jem0622 replied: Some people do things with their heads up their rears and do not understand the legal implications that will follow.

I am so sorry that he did this, and put your daughter in the middle of the whole thing. How absolutely SELFISH! You go fight him with all you've got!





I have to say...be very careful about how they are monitoring you too. They can use your frequent date nights as ammo. Have your SO come for a movie or something instead. You just need to lay low for the sake of your daughter.

luvbug00 replied: Yeah I'm not to worried about my nights out as he should be about some of the things he has does which could land him in jail for ohhh 20 years. not to mention all the back child support he'd owe me.

MommyToAshley replied: I am sorry... I have been away too long. I didn't realize Brad was doing all this. It is incredibly selfish to put Mya in the middle of it all. To take your child and threaten someone's life ... that is serious stuff. I am glad you are seeking legal counsel.

J-rod replied: im so disgusted i dont even know what to say.

i bet lars is happy about all this.... if i were him id probably go nuts and beat the poop (ha i said poop) out of someone to threatan a little girl and her mommy. he is going too far and has no right to put little mya in the middle..


time to woop some butt nadia. keep the paper trail. make copies and nail his butt to the wall. lol

NikkiM replied: Huge hugs to you and Mya.

MyLuvBugs replied: WOW! What an A$$!! I hope you get a restraining order against him and file for back child support and sole custody. Mya doesn'tneed to be subjected to that crap. KUP!!! You're in my thoughts and prayers.

DansMom replied: A lawyer is absolutely necessary at this point, and as soon as possible. He or she will advise you to get a Personal Protection Order, I'm guessing, since Brad was threatening someone's life. And if he follows through with a call to CPS, the PPO will look good for you. Don't worry about CPS (and it sounds like you're not worried)---in divorces and custody battles, they are very familiar with the fact that they are probably being used and will investigate fairly.

I'm so sorry you have to deal with this.

grapfruit replied: I feel bad for you How ironic that he accuses YOU of not putting Mya first, when HE'S putting her in the middle. You're the one thinking of her and caring for her, obviously not him. Good luck honey!

Crystalina replied: Sorry Nadia. He's being really immature that's for sure. Just be the bigger person and like J-Rod said, keep a paper trail.

OOh, and you went out for an hour? And sometimes twice a week? Let's put you in front of the firing squad why don't we. Just wear your panties! (sorry, a little Brittany Spears humor )

holley79 replied: Sorry sweetie.

luvbug00 replied: Thanks for all the support everyone I'm gonna need ya'll more then ever. I am keeping a paper trail and in fact i went into the apartment today and went a noseying arround. ( after all my name is still on the lease so it's my right to go into MY apartment.
J-rod Lars is well furious but he wants to support, not hurt me so he is refraining from kicking booty. BTW I neglected to mention that brad was holding mya when he made that threat and my dad was right there too. he tried to appologize today and it's not gonna work.