Going crazy! HELP!!!
Halo42101 wrote: Okay, now I am having thoughts of dying... the pain is so bad. I am freezing and can't stop shivering. My husband thinks I should wait until the morning to call my doctor because there is probably not much the doctor can do. I hope I don't have something like PID. God, I am scared and feel so alone.
Jessi
luvmykids replied: Do you have a fever? Could it be possible you've gotten an infection somewhere? Have you taken anything at all? I know you said you couldn't find the prescription, but have you tried anything else?
Halo42101 replied: I don't think I have a fever. I am just really cold and scared. I took 3 Tylenol at a time for the pain but it didn't even touch it. After a while, I gave up on it. A miscarriage shouldn't be this painful should it? I don't remember my first one being this painful.
luvmykids replied: I'm sorry I'm not much help, when did you see the doctor last? Did they do a D&C? Do you have a nurse hotline or something like that you can call?
mommymonster replied: I am so sorry, I will pray for you, I truly, truly hope you are able to feel better soon I am currently awake because I just can't sleep right now, so if you just need an ear to listen feel free to pm me, I may be up a while.
Halo42101 replied: Thank you both, luvmykids and Jessica for being here for me. It is helping to keep me sane... just knowing you're there. I haven't been to see my obgyn since Thursday. She asked if I wanted to be scraped but I was scared of more pain. I know, stupd, huh? I didn't know what could happen if you don't get one. She said she would check me in another ultra sound in a couple of weeks. I don't know who else I can talk to at this time of morning other than my husband. I hate to keep anyone up. Thank you for your prayers and hugs.
Hugs from,
Jessi
mommymonster replied: The only one I have ever personally know to miscarry was my mom and that was years ago, many years. The only part I can relate to is when she decribed her pain, she really only recalls the emotional side. she had said to me, that part is even to this day the hardest to let go of. The one thing that she was able to make piece with is that it was not her fault and she has had to quit blaming herself. She believes that at that point in time her body was just not ready to carry. I feel that I am offering useless info to you, and I know how sensitive the subjesct is, so please forgive me for feeling like I am walking on glass, I can just relate to some of the feelings you may be having, only because of my own mom's story. But I am here if you need me. 
~Roo'sMama~ replied: If you are in that much pain, I think you should go to the ER, just to be safe. I wouldn't wait until morning - tomorrow's sunday anyways so it's not going to make much of a difference if you wait. Let us know how you're doing!
Halo42101 replied: I already tried waking up my husband but he thinks I am worrying too much and that I read too much on the Internet. I think I will just try to sleep it away for now until later this morning. I don't know what else to do and I don't want to keep you guys up.
Jessi
luvmykids replied: You're not keeping me up, I'm like mommymonster and don't want to give you useless info. The amount of pain you're in doesn't sound right to me though, just based on other experiences I've read about on PC. The shivering/freezing thing is why I asked if you have a fever, if you've got an infection of some kind you're not going to be able to sleep it off.
Sorry I'm not more help. Prayers and hugs to you, let us know.
~Roo'sMama~ replied:
If you can't go to the ER, you could at least call them and talk to a nurse. They might just tell you to go in, but at least then maybe you'd be able to convince you're hubby.  If you're able to sleep then maybe it's not so bad and you can wait, but it's better to be safe than sorry. 
Halo42101 replied: This is crazy! I am going to call my Doctor and if I have to... I will drive myself to the Hospital.
luvmykids replied: I'm glad you're calling, let us know.
~Roo'sMama~ replied: I'm glad you're calling, too. I hope everything turns out ok. I have to go to bed cuz I have to be up early, but I will be praying for you!!!
mommymonster replied: Roo's mamma is right, you should at least call an e.r. nurse. They will be more able to suggest the right thing to do. Please, please be careful if you have to drive yourself and let someone know you are going, and let us know how things turn out, I am sure hubby loves you unconditionally, but no body knows your body better then you. Just be safe driving.
Halo42101 replied: I finally woke up my husband enough to tell him what's going on. I know he heard me because he responded fairly well. He said he would take me to the ER if I need to go. The thing with him is that he can sleep through a hurricane. He is such a sound sleeper. I am waiting for an obgyn to call me back now. It is taking some time but I have waited this long. I can wait a little longer. Thank you all so much for being here for me. I wish I could give you all a hug in person. It means so much that you were here for me.
Hugs always from,
Jessi
mommymonster replied: I am relieved that have called! I will still keep you in my prayers  I am having a little battle with insomnia right now, so I will probably make myself fall asleep somehow within the hour, hopefully, but I will check in with you! 
Halo42101 replied: The Doctor called back just now and said I am probably just passing the last of everything. I told him I have mild pain now but that it is still uncomfortable. He said to take more Tylenol and try to go to sleep. He said if the pain is worse in the morning to call them back and go to the ER. Jessica, if you want I can stay up with you a little longer. It is the least I can do. I am sorry you are battling with insomnia.
Hugs from,
Jessi
Halo42101 replied: Thank you all who posted here tonight and helped me through the night. You all helped me more than you know. I am thankful that our angel in Heaven helped us find such wonderful angels on earth.
Hugs & love from,
Jessi
PrairieMom replied: How are things going this morning? I hope you are doing better.
amymom replied: I hope all is gettng better this morning.
Halo42101 replied: I went to the ER yesterday morning because the pain got worse. I waited for 3 hours in the waiting room in agony from the pain, only to be seen by a Doctor there who was anxious to get us out as fast as he could because the rooms were all filled. He did another pelvic exam, this is my 3rd one by now, ran more blood tests, scared me at the possibility of having endometriosis, then left me hanging for another hour. His assistant finally comes in and asks if the Doctor told us we have to go to the Springfield Hospital. My husband Theron, Mom and I were stunned. We all said, no! How nice of him to tell us. Then she said, I will most likely have to have a D&C done there. I was so mad from all the pain, exhaustion and waiting by then that I asked her in a stern voice, do I have to go or don't I? Because I don't want to go all the way to Springfield then have them tell me that I don't need one done. She carefully replied, let me get the Doctor so that if you don't need one done, I won't get in trouble. On top of the Doctor being a jerk, he acts wise about it and says, you will probably 99% need to get one done. Then he leaves. So we go to Springfield Hospital after and they tell us that the reason why I am in so much pain still is because it took me 4 days to pass the baby. They decide that I don't need a D&C. The best they can do for me after was prescribe Motrin and send me home. I am so mad at the way the Doctors have been treating me, tossing me around to different facilities because they are too lazy to do their job, scaring me with false possibilities and making me wait in pain the whole time. That is basically how the rest of the weekend went. Today is my husband's birthday but he doesn't even care. He is mad too. I really don't know what else to say, I am just so mad.
Hugs from,
Jessi
BAC'sMom replied:
~Roo'sMama~ replied: Jessi I'm sorry you got treated that way. You'd think that the doctors would be a bit more sensitive when they obviously know what you're already going through. I hope the motrin helps.
luvmykids replied: I'm glad you went but I'm so sorry they treated you badly. Hope you're feeling better. People can be insensitive jerks.
PrairieMom replied: Even IF there isn't anything they can do for you, a little sensitivity goes a long way.  I'm sorry you have to go through all this. I hope you feel better soon.
Halo42101 replied: Thank you all. It really means so much that you are here for me. Just talking about it sometimes helps.
Hugs from,
Jessi
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