Good news... - :)

Insanemomof3 wrote: James and I decided to give it one more shot. We have talked and talked. I am staying put. I need to do some changing, but it will be good. I am so excited. I am not miserable anymore.

We just need to remember to keep our communication open and be good to each other. My problem is I get cranky and take it all out on him. And I have not been keeping the house clean OR make the kids listen to me. So I am working on that. I am so happy guys.

I will need your support. If I have a bad day, I am coming here to tell you guys about it. As well as all the good. I need you guys more than ever. I also need you guys to keep me motivated. I lose track of time and get nothing done.

Just wanted you guys to know the update. Thanks for listening to me. And for putting up with me. I love you guys!!!

moped replied: Great news - communication is so important and it is work keep the lines open - I know!!!!!

Good luck!

Bee_Kay replied: OMG! I am SOooooooooooo Happy for you!!!

Good luck and you can pm me ANYTIME!!!!!!

Edward's Mommy replied: I hope everything works out the way you want it to!

mckayleesmom replied: Glad to hear it....We will be here if you need us and you know you can always pm me. I think alot of your frustration right now might be coming from the fact that your ex isn't ready to let your daughter visit you yet. Once she is able to come visit things will probably feel alot better...kwim? Right now I think you are just torn.

BAC'sMom replied: Good Luck

3xsthefun replied: That is good to hear! We will be right here for you!

luvmykids replied: Yay! I'm so glad to hear that, I know (from experience, like a lot of us!) that the bad can so easily seem to outweigh the good, and for me anyway it takes a conscious decision to find the good again, and build on it, KWIM?

GOOD NEWS! Best wishes, we are always here for you!

eta: It's not always easy to admit to what our role in the downside of the relationship is, I'm so proud of you.

kayla's mama replied: I'm soooo glad you guys are going to try to stay together. As said above, communication is key in every relationship. We are always here for you.

My3LilMonkeys replied: I'm glad you've decided to give it another try. We'll always be here when you need us.

Maddie&EthansMom replied: I'm so thrilled for all of you!!

aspenblue1 replied: That's great news!

~~*Missi*~~ replied: Glad that you are feeling better and if you need anything call on us we are all here for you to listen and help you thru it NOT judge you

I am so glad that you guys are giving it another try. Good luck

Chris and I ran thru a patch were our communication wasn't the greatest so it helps to be able to talk to each other about everything.
I hate dr phil's show but his relationship book is good. It has some great tips and quizzes

~Roo'sMama~ replied: I'm so happy for you! I hope it works out ~ come and vent, cry or whatever you need to us anytime!

A&A'smommy replied: awww that is wonderful honey I'm happy for you!!! I hope it works out a lot better this time just remember communication is EXTREMELY important in a marriage!!

coasterqueen replied: Ah Denise I'm so happy for you. I can tell from your post that you are happy!

We are here for you 24/7.

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: I am so glad to hear that!!! Good Luck and we are here for you whenever you need us!!!!

amymom replied: I hope everything goes well for you.

fashionmumofboys replied: Best of luck and so glad you are giving it another chance.

Kaitlin'smom replied: thats wonderful, were hear for you