Have you ever been dumped?

mckayleesmom wrote: If so..what reason did they give?

Ive never really been dumped, but I did have a boyfriend that asked another girl to our homecoming and my friend overheard him and called me. We all worked together and my house was next door to the place we worked for. He had a huge duffle bag of clothes at my house becuase he use to leave it there and change in and out of clothes after work.....Me and my friend took that duffle bag...which included his favorite Tommy Hilfiger pants inside and poured every condiment we could find in the hamburger place we worked for on his clothes.....We cut some holes in some too....No crotches left on his pants....bwahahaha. Then we drove by when he was hanging out with a friend (who later became boyfriend mistake #2....dang small towns)....and threw the bag at him.

BTW...I got a new date for homecomming and his new sweetie told him that she wasn't feeling good and couldn't go.......so he worked that night instead of going. She must have recovered fast, because she was at the dance with someone else. My sister was at the place we worked at that night and he was telling her that he couldn't believe I was already out with someone else..bla bla bla.....Then after the dance I got to tell him who I saw at the dance......Sweet!

Calimama replied: Yes. He called and did it over the phone on my birthday. He said it because I wasnt passionate enough about our relationship.

MyBrownEyedBoy replied: Yep, by a guy my senior year of high school. Because I said I wasn't ready to sleep with him yet. Turns out he had already slept with someone else. Jerk. Ended up I didn't lose my virginity until I was 20. I still kind of hope he got chlamydia.

Ooh, and again when I was 20 I got a letter from my boyfriend telling me he didn't want to be serious long distance. Then he called and wondered why I wasn't more broken up about it.

coasterqueen replied: Yes. Why? Because I cheated on him with his best friend. Long story. My boyfriend ended up having his best friend "babysit" me a lot when he was busy with his band and schoolwork so we got close.

Another guy was because I wouldn't sleep with him so he decided to go back to his ex.

I could go on. I never liked to be the dumper so I always gave my boyfriends valid reasons to make me the dumpee.

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Yes I've been dumped Twice. The first time from my high school sweetheart. It was kind of a mutual thing, but he's the one that broke the news and called it off (so to speak). I was going to college, he was in his sr year of high school and he had a full schedule (as did I). We just went our separate ways.

Scotty dumped me, too. We dated for 7 mos and he broke it off. We had already talked about marriage, even though there was no ring. His reasoning? I have no idea. I think he thought I was still in love with my ex (mentioned above). Or maybe he thought I was too young? Maybe he just wasn't ready to be that serious? I have no clue. We didn't speak for 7 mos and one day he called and told me he couldn't live without me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. We've been together since.

mckayleesmom replied:
Thats funny Karen....I never wanted to be the dumpee....but when I wanted out of the relationship, I would purposely sabatosche it and wait for them to do something that would be cause for the breakup....That way we could break up and they would think it was there fault....How bad is that?

By the time I broke up with them....they would think that they seriously deserved it, and really I had been planning it for months......



Gosh .......Im horrible...

TANNER'S MOM replied: Oh man I have the worst break up story ever. I mean ever. I won a Cd on the radio once cause this is so bad.

After I got divorced I was dating this guy named Curt. Curt was a good looking guy and he was my first real boyfriend after my divorce. He didn't per say live with me.. but he came and stayed the nights lots. If the kids were at their dads he was there, or he might stay and go before the got up in the morning. He had clothes at my house and lots of other stuff..

One day I thought we were going on a date. He was driving my truck.. and I was riding. He said he wanted to run by his Mom's house and grab his boots.. he didnt have them with him. I said Ok.. never thought anything about it. We pull up to his Mom's house..and my phone rings. I am talking on the phone and he says it's okay he will be just a second. Turns the truck off .. puts the keys in his pocket and runs inside.

I am waiting a while outside.. talking on the phone thinking how long does it take.

When I look over here comes CURT's MOM.. with my keys in her hands. She said Curt wanted me to bring this to you. He doesn't want to see you anymore he is done. I was so dumbfounded. I said are you serious..she said yup!

So, thats my story.. he didn't dump me he sent his Mom to do it.

Come to find out later.. he had been sleeping with a friend of mine and even in my truck and apartment while I was at work..so good riddence. But still his MOMMA...thats bad!

Only time I was dumped.. and it sucked

Kaitlin'smom replied: yes he was to scared of how close and perfect we were together. He had become my best friend and he tried to comeback a couple times and got scared each time. I knew it was comming to.

mckayleesmom replied:
OMG...MEL...what a chicken Sh(*

coasterqueen replied:
If you are horrible, what am I?

I never went about the best way of making sure a guy dumped me.

I'm not proud of those things but they are in the past. I know one of them is doing very well, happily married, etc, so I don't think I affected him too terribly.

One of them was too old for me anyways. Another, well I think he was cheating on me too so the feeling was mutual. He was seriously bad news. He broke my heart in the end, though for another reason, but looking back on it was best that he did.

Kaitlin'smom replied:
How LAME.

moped replied: I think everyone has been dumped....I sure have.

I was 28 or so and really liking this guy, and after about 6-8 months he just came out and said he didn't love me and didn't ever see himself loving me - ummmmm, that was heartbreaking.

Back in high school, my bf Blair left me at the prom and was there with another girl - that hurt, so I guess I was dumped there.

I have dumped lots too

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: I was dumped by my bf of 2 1/2 years. He said that he wanted to date other people. Well come to find out he was crushing on this girl where he worked. He asked her out and she turned him down flat. Meanwhile I had met Bart and when he found out he started calling me at all hours, writing me notes, sending me flowers, and driving past my house all the time. Finally one day it just stopped!! So he dumps me then "stalks" me. Shouldn't that be the other way around?

Our Lil' Family replied: Yeah, Tim dumped me too, after 2 years. He said it was either break up or get married and he wasn't ready to get married. 4 months later he's crawling back proposing!!! AFTER I had moved on naturally! But I couldn't see myself marrying the guy I was dating so I dumped him to get engaged! That guy actually called my house on my DUE DATE for Thomas and left a message on our machine. Thankfully DH did not hear the message! He was in town and wanted to see how I was!

CantWait replied: Don't think I've ever been dumped because Ron is my second actual bf, I have been stood up before and that sucked.

~Roo'sMama~ replied: Nope - Dh was my first boyfriend ~ he was my first date, first kiss, first everything.

Cece00 replied:
I'm the same way.

With one BF, the relationship sucked but I didnt want to dump him so I just kind of was disinterested & he eventually did it.

Another- well, I did cheat on him, so that was a valid reason, I dont blame him.

Another one- I wasnt ready to be as "settled down" as he was, I was 17, of course I wasnt!!! He was 21, in college, not really into partying, more of a homebody, and I was 17, going out, partying, drinking, having fun, spending a lot of time with friends...he couldnt handle it, I guess.

My last ex- my older 2 boys dad- we were off and on a bunch...sometimes I'd break up with him, because he was a PIA & cared more about himself than me & the kids & wanted to spend his $$ on stupid stuff...and then I found out he had cheated...I gave him a shot after that (STUPID ME, I'll never do that with ANYONE again...) and the relationship was, of course, too messed up to fix. He broke up with me b/c I basically wouldnt tolerate his cheating & I had put my foot down & told him he had to grow up & abide by MY rules and I said "This is the way things are going to be, take it or leave it" and he left it.

Fine for me, I was free to date the guy who is now my husband, who is a prince. I shouldve dumped my kids dad a long time ago for him...what was I thinking???

luvbug00 replied: I got dumped before!!!

Boo&BugsMom replied: Yes. I can't remember the reason but I found out that he wanted to go out with someone who was "hotter" (his words). Now he's big, fat, bald, and still single! Serves him right! HA HA! All the others I have done the dumping.

Oh wait, no one other one dumped me. He just was over me I guess. That's ok...he's still single too...HA HA!

holley79 replied: Yep Been There Got the Tshirt. That's all I'll say.

hawkshoe replied: I got dumped by dh (before we were married). We had been dating 7 years and were each others first. He gave some lame excuse about needing to see other people. I think he didn't believe that his first could be the one. After 7 months apart, he came crawling back and we have been together ever since.

MyLuvBugs replied: Yes.....well.....sorta.....He was an alcoholic and decided to go into AA rehab without telling me. So he just sorta stopped talking to me for a month. DIdn't return my calls or anything, so I just got PO'd and figured it was over....then he called and told me like a month an a half later. I felt bad until he said "I did it for you", and I was done then.

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: My DH (Rich) dumped me twice! First time it was because I was immature as far as relationships go, and I was sooooooooo nervous around him, that it made him uncomfortable. I had never really even kissed a guy, so he would touch me and I would literally shake. Cute now, but not cute then! LOL! The second time was our first engagement...not necessarily "dumped", but he cancelled our wedding a month or so before the big day! It's a long story, but I was going through some health issues, and he was going through some commitment/entitlement issues. We got through it and just celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary last week! I still remind him on occasion about him dumping me though...my mom does too!

I was dumped a couple times from other guys, but it was never to my face...they just stopped calling and I would typically just see them with other girls. Typical college relationships!

C&K*s Mommie replied: The one that did not come to mind until just now was with the only other person I really cared for ( *cough* *cough* thought I loved ). Feb of 95 we started dating, he became an a jerk and a half shortly thereafter, we never should have continued to date after the first few months, but we did. It was my first so called "love" , after little more than 1yr of dating he went to Army bootcamp. Well me and my wild ways had plenty of fun while he was gone, so getting dumped was just the culmination of something that should have occured a long time before.

Fast forward to Sept of 97, I was proud of myself, when I was a "good" g/f when a friend and I went to North Carolina one weekend. That Monday he calls from South Korea where he was stationed at the time. Because of the long distance I could barely hear him, but I made something out to the effect of "well my wife would not like that" when I made a comment to him. Long story short, come to find out he got married while over there, his parents did not approve, and . We talked a few times thereafter when he came back to the US. His parents who lived around the corner from me until earlier this year, were cool but reluctantly planned a wedding for him when they got back to the States. It all worked out for the better without a doubt I met Chris in Jan of '98. I saw his sister not too long after we moved back here, I never asked specifically about him, rather I asked about everyone in his family but him. Come to find out through the a neighbor he was no longer married, and was looking to go get a job somewhere in Iraq or something.

punkeemunkee'smom replied: Got dumped (kinda) we were pretty much going seperate ways already by the guy I dated in highschool...He said he wasn't attracted to me anymore. Really NOT a big loss! I was sad for a minute But as most things like that go it was the best thing that had ever happened to me up til then- because I started dating Bill about a month later That was 11 years ago

PrairieMom replied: I got dumped on my 16th birthday. He came to my party the weekend before and everything was cool, then I got a letter in the mail a few days later. No reason, he was just done. Coward. Thank goodness he dumped me becuase I was so "in love" with him, I was determoned he was going to be my "first" what a waste that would have been.