I AM SOOOOOO MAD - my turn to vent and cry...

Kaitlin'smom wrote: I am so mad at my oldest sister and her jerk of a husband I can even think streight and now I am cring. Okay as some of you know my sister De got married this weekend, well as one of my gifts to her I did a slide show of pictures of her growing up, him growing up and them together, even some cute credits, now I am the one who spent my time and energy and my heart into this production. So it was shown that night EVERYONE loved and and complimented me on it. Well what I did not know was while it was being played it was also being video taped by oldest sisters DH (and soooo not dear). So he got the edit done of her wedding, and well thats another story its on the tape the whole thing! It was so not his place to first of all tape it with out my knowlage nor was it his right to put the intire thing on there, that should have been mine and the bride and grooms decision on who gets copys, and honslty not like I am tring ot make money but paied for as well (the cost of the media). I am so darn mad I could spit. I dunno what to do, why does she have to do this? I fell like all my hard work and love just got flushed down the toilet. It is so clear ot me that they dont have any respect for me or my family, and that hurts.

I am sorry to lay this out on you all but I just needed to get some of my feelings out and hope some hugs come my way

kit_kats_mom replied: What a jerk

After my short foray into movie making, I know how much work it is to do a video montage. That really is horrid that he didn't even give you credit.

Sorry hon.

kimberley replied: lots of coming your way! that was VERY inconsiderate of your sis and her DH (D= dumb)! they obviously have no consideration for anyone but themselves and are not worth your tears sweetie. some people are just rude!

jen replied: WHAT A JERK!!!!!! I am so sorry! (((((((((((HUGS))))))))))

MommyToAshley replied: I am sorry they did that. What a jerk.

But, I am sure that your sis still appreciated all of the love, thoughtfullness, and hard work you put into it. I bet it was great!

How did the rest of the wedding go?

Mom2Boyz replied: That isn't nice!!!!! What a JERK!!
BiG BiG comming your way.

paradisemommy replied: very inconsiderate and a big jerk...lots of to you..

pinka_star replied: I'm sorry *BIG HUGS!!!*

MomToMany replied: Lots of hugs to you Di!!!! What a jerk!! I'm so sorry that happened to you. I bet yours turned out great, though !!

jem0622 replied: It doesn't sound like anyone took credit. Unless I'm misunderstanding. I am sure that they appreciate what you did and are very happy to have it on tape so that they can watch it more than once...which would just make them appreciate it all the more. Sorry you are frustrated.

HUGS

Kirstenmumof3 replied: OMG that is just terrible! I'm so sorry he did that to you! I would vent your anger at your sister and her husband, once you have cooled down and are able to talk about it without getting to upset! They definately need to know how you feel!

Elle replied: Hyper jerk
I'm sorry

Kaitlin'smom replied: Thanks everyone, I really appricaite all the kind words and hugs.

The bride and groom was also unhappy it was on there, since they knew the work and love I put into it, and to have it taped and disturbited without my knowlage or permission was wrong. I am going to let them know how mad/upset/hurt/dissapointed I was, I just have to sort things out.

One other thing that was so unprofessional of them is the mother of the groom got a copy before the bride and groom! Oh she was mad, but I think she played it way to cool with her I would have gone off they had no right giving that out with out them knowing and getting to se it first!

Thanks again everyone. I am so done with this sister, I dont have the time or energy anymore to keep giving just to get dumped on like this.

coasterqueen replied: Sorry they did that to you.

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Di, I know you didn't even want her there to begin with and now she pulls this!! I am so sorry. You are smart to just move on and not let her bring you down any longer. I bet the video was awesome, though. Kudos to you for working so hard on it!