I am so mad.... - I don't know why-NOTHING new!!!!!
punkeemunkee'smom wrote: We have to say the least issues with my inlaws We have tried over and over and over again to get them to come see Taylor in our home away from the drama that my sister in law causes-but all to no avail. March of 2005 was an incident that was the last straw and we cut contact with them....earlier this year we ran into MIL in the store and she held Taylor and wept and swore to call her and wanted to see her SOOOOOO BADDDDDD I called and tried to set a visit up because Tay was so excited,she promised Tay she would be here the next day-told her she needed to buy her a birthday present and more ...we did not hear from her again....Well I just got a call on my cell phone and a message that says 'Abbie,please call me-I have something that you need to know' So I am thinking 'OH NO-somebody is hurt or sick-etc' So I call her back and she says I don't know how to tell you this but Josh ___________ died today.... I am like WHO??? Turns out it is a guy who bill and his sister knew (kinda sorta) back in their home town...I mean it is really sad and I feel horrid for his family and all that But she was acting like it was a family member Anyway she chatted about all the gory details for a few minutes-I mentioned Bill and Taylor several times but she never even asked about either one of them It is her SON and GRANDAUGHTER!!! She raises his sister's kids and does/buys everything for them and can't even spend an afternoon with Tay Then she says that Sava is soooo excited about Christmas and she keeps trying to find her gifts (she is SIL's daughter same age as Tay) I say Tay is too....Still nothing So I said well I have to go-Sorry about Josh-Merry Christmas and I hung up....It doesn't surprise me but it ticks me off that she doesn't even care enough to ask how Taylor is...It breaks my heart Tay still says Mommy-Grandma never did come see my new princess bed.....
Our Lil' Family replied: I'm sorry Abbie! I know as mothers it hurts us twice as bad when someone hurts our children! Big 's
TheOaf66 replied: so sad when someone deliberately closes off part of the family, I feel so bad for Taylor. I really don't know how I would deal with such a situation.
C&K*s Mommie replied: It is heartbreaking to hear that Taylor is still so wide eyed and excited about seeing her Gma, when you know the truth about her (the Gma) not wanting to see her in return.
I am so sorry Abbie. My heart breaks for Taylor.
3xsthefun replied: I'm so sorry. I feel so bad for Taylor.
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luvmykids replied: I'm sorry, poor Taylor. I can't imagine that feeling as a kid Sounds like gma has her head up her rear and can't get it out enough to realize what she is missing out on by basically ignoring Tay.
luvbug00 replied: Poor Tay
Calimama replied: I bet she'll regret that when Taylor is grown up and doesnt want to come see her.
holley79 replied: That is horrible. I have a feeling DH's mother is going to be like that for Annika when Annika is old enough to realize. I'm sorry you are having issues. People cease to amaze me when it comes to family.
BAC'sMom replied: I am so sorry Abbie. Poor Taylor
sparkys2boys replied: I sooo agree with this. It will all catch up with her one day and she will regret every second maybe she will see the light beofre feelings are hurt anymore
CantWait replied: I'm so sorry. NO advice as I can't imagine what you would say to a little one when grandma doesn't WANT to see them. It's just really sad.
My2Beauties replied: I feel awful for you guys, I don't understand how a g-ma would not want to see her grandbaby!
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