I have an anouncment to make - and no i'm not pregnat.
SOUTHERN MOMMY wrote: Me and my ex have desided to get back together. He is not moving back in just yet (i am not ready for that) although he would love that. We have been in councling for sometime now and seem to be making steady progress. This is something we will both have to work very hard on to make it work so please bear with me when i post something crazy as i am sure i will do on many occasions.
I am so thankfull for all the prayers and great insite everyone here had shown me over the past few months you all have been a great shoulder to lean on and for that i am so greatful to you all. You truley are the most wonderful people in the world, and PC is the best place in the world.
I know this will be a long bumpy road but i am ready. I really know we are ment for eachother and will let nothing stand in my way.
I will ask once again that all of you here please keep us in your prayer as we start the process to mend our family and be whole again.
I love you all so much and thanks again from the bottom of my heart,
Tiffany
MyBrownEyedBoy replied: Congratulations, Tiffany. It is a long road, but if you know in your heart it is best thing for you, then, put the work in and go for it. My prayers will be for you.
CAMSMOM1 replied:
Tiffany,
I think you have a really good attitude and outlook on this. No one tells you how hard marriage can really be, but when you know you are with the man you are meant to be with, it's worth all the hard work, counseling and effort. I'm so glad you have a DH that is willing to meet you half way, and work on this with you. Like you said, don't let anything stand in your way. You may not have all the support from family and friends, but you know in your heart this is the right choice....so give it your all! Don't let minor set backs stand in your way. You are a strong woman, with a good head on your shoulders. You deserve to be happy. And I am so happy for you!
And I'm here for you if you ever need to talk. I will be praying for you. May you and your DH be blessed in your relationship, and have many happy years ahead of you!
Ann
CantWait replied: Congrats to you guys for sticking it out, and trying to make it work. I wish you both all the best.
luvmykids replied: I'm so proud of you both for going to counseling; it takes real committment to truly get to the root of the problem instead of putting bandaids on it. If theres any chance for a family to be together, I say go for it!
Best wishes to all of you!
ions_momma replied: I am so happy for you! I hope things work out for you both! I will keep you in my prayers!!
ammommy replied: Congratulations! My P&PT's will be with you guys through this long journey
SOUTHERN MOMMY replied: Thank you all so much for the positive thoughts and for the prayers. I honestly am very excited to do this i just know with time and hard work anything is possible. I really have to work hard on the trust issue i have cause that is the biggest hurdle yet. In a few weeks him and i are going away for a few days and get some much needed alone time to just find ourselves again and i really am looking faward to that. although i feel like a little giggly girl again around him It will be a change to say the least but a welcomed change. Thanks again.
Tiffany
C&K*s Mommie replied: Wishing the two of you the very, very best in continuing on together and making a new life. I hope that you all have a great time together when you go on your well-deserved vaca. I hope above all that the the new connection that you guys will make, will not be a new one but a reconnection that just had a glitch in it. Hope that makes sense!
BEST WISHES!!!!
TeagansMom609 replied: Thats wonderful! Im so happy for you! I hope everything works out!
Freckled Momma replied: As part of a couple that has come through some very bad times in marriage...we are still here and together. It was so worth the fight to save it. Is it perfect now, all rainbows and sunshine? Heck no... But at least we talk things out now instead of just playing the blame game and ignoring stuff until it builds up so much resentment you can't see anything but your own anger and hurt. We do have more good days than bad now, though We still argue and yell every so often, but it's not deal breaking, if ya KWIM?
I wish you lots of understanding, forgiveness, hope, joy and love to get you all through this. Your marriage will be all the more stronger for it You both should feel good about yourselves for trying to work together to fight for your marriage.
jacobsmama replied: Oh tiffany...I'm so happy for you you know that you can email me or call me anytime..I know this was a big step for you and you thought about this for a long hard time and I know you let your heart help you and I hope that you only get happiness in return. Kristi
SOUTHERN MOMMY replied: Thank you so much Kristi i just might be ringing your phone soon Hopefully to talk good not bad but non the less it is good to know i have your number.
amymom replied: Oh Tiffani, I am very happy for you. I know that last year was a tough one, so Here is to better years ahead. Great news!
fashionmumofboys replied: I hope everything works out for you and will keep you and DH in my thoughts and prayers.
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