I haven't told you guys - but...

mysweetpeasWil&Wes wrote: DH got let go from his job last week. I got on to tell you a few days ago, but just didn't know how to put it into words. DH kept telling me that he expected it to come, but I just never believed it would. It wasn't anything he did - he is in real estate development and with the market being down, the investors have stopped production and are cutting back. I've told you before how much DH hates this job, so it actually comes with a lot of relief. They paid him a nice salary, but his bosses were so high maintenance, such extreme micro-management types, belittling him to the point of harassment...that I truly feel he is better off. It's just hard to swallow when we just moved back to our hometown only 6 months ago. We live in one of the most expensive areas of California, but we went in knowing that DH's salary would support us here. Now that's gone. Everyone is scrambling to make money to live here. You get a lot of creative people this way, but many are working two, maybe more, jobs. I am not complaining, because I truly can't ask for a better place to live, but being without a job here is really scary stuff. I am still interviewing for p/t work and haven't had much luck. Two interviews last week, but no word back yet. That would be 4 interviews total so far. I just can't believe we are basically a jobless family. I know we will be ok. Fortunately we now have family close, plus we have a good savings and not too much debt. We also still own a home in Colorado which we are renting, so we have that income. But it still scares us both. DH has a couple leads and has a list of other goals such as getting his real estate license, contractors license, starting a bar & grill (possibly together), consulting company. Everyday he has a new idea, which can get a little frustrating, but I am trying to remain positive so that his motivation and confidence stay strong. There is a part of me that realizes that everything happens for a reason, and in some sense, maybe this is a turning point for both DH and I - he being able to start his own business, which has always been his dream, but he just never had time to pursue it. And maybe I will go into business with him. Who knows, but in the meantime, please send out a little prayer for us. I do have to tell you that I feel that my husband is back finally!! The weight has lifted and although he only has 30 more paid days of work, he is the happiest I've seen him in a LONG time. Just goes to show that money truly can't buy you happiness.

ETA: I meant to add that I'm SO SORRY I haven't been around to catch up with everyone or respond to posts. I know that a lot of you are going through tough times as we are, so I apologize to not be a good PC friend right now. I miss it here and think about you guys often, but I'm just so caught up with trying to get my ducks in a row...and make money!

ZandersMama replied: im so sorry, im sure it will all come together for you

MoonMama replied: Oh Rae, I'm so sorry. I agree things will work out and be ok. But I know its a hard time, and so stressful. Prayers being said, if you need to talk I'm here.

CantWait replied: Rae, what can I say? In one way I'm sorry, but also not, sounds like dh will be much happier. Prayers being said you guys find something soon though.

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I'm so sorry to hear this! Keeping my fingers crossed that your DH will find something that he will truly enjoy! My thoughts and prayers are with you!

gr33n3y3z replied: Things will be just fine

MommyToAshley replied: I agree with Marie, I'm sorry in a way, but then on the other side this seems like a good thing. It may be the opportunity your DH needs to start his own business. I know it can be a little scary, but it will all work out... you will see.

mom21kid2dogs replied:
Sorry to hear things are trying but it does sound as though, in the long run, it will all be best for your family. Sounds like you are more ahead of the game since you have savings and little debt. Here's hoping something comes your way soon!

lovemy2 replied: There are reasons why things like this happen Rae - DH and I went through it and he ended up in the Sheriff's Dept and happier, more secure and making more money than he ever did before - it is something he never would have done if it hadn't have been for his job loss - hang in there - remember to take CARE of each other

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lisar replied: It will all work out for you

luvmykids replied: I'm sorry, I know it's a scary thought but things will work out We've been in the same boat with DH, nobody is building houses right now but we've managed to stay afloat and you guys will too. I agree that this may be just the thing for him to get moving on some of the other things he wants to do. I'm sure you guys will end up doing something great

My2Beauties replied: I know it's scary but it sounds like you two were very smart with your money and have saved up for a rainy day. Sometimes a blessing can be disguised it'll all work out in the end hon.

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Kaitlin'smom replied: sucks huh? glad he feels better not to have to go to the job he hates but scary that he does not have a job to go to. I dunno if you know my DH was let go nearly 1 month ago, so I know how you feel. Thanksfully I have a very secure job but its a struggle to watch all spending on even litttle things. I hope you both do/find what your looking for.

punkeemunkee'smom replied: Oh Rae! I am sorry that you are dealing with this! Lots of prayers that he finds/does what will really be best for your family! Sometimes it takes a tiny shove in the right direction to get us where we are really supposed to be!

mummy2girls replied: (((HUGS))) i will be sending prayers your way:)

Maddie&EthansMom replied: I'm so sorry Rae. We've been there a couple of times and it's so scary not knowing the future. But it all works out. I'm glad you got your husband back and he is motivated to find something. That really is awesome!!!

Keep us posted, hun.

A&A'smommy replied: I'm sorry to hear that but I'm SOOO glad you got your husband back. What a relief You aren't a bad pc friend

jem0622 replied: I am so sorry that DH lost his job. But, given what you explained...it is for the best. I do hope that something comes through. Lots of P&PT.

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msoulz replied: So sorry . . . hopefully the proverbial window will open for you soon!

jcc64 replied: I'm sorry things are so uncertain for you guys right now. But the fact that you feel that you've gotten your dh back is very revealing. Things happen for a reason, and try to look at this as an opportunity rather than a loss. I know that sounds like a hollow platitude, but dh wasn't happy where he was, and this way, he's forced to really figure out what will make him happy professionally. You may come to look at this as a blessing in the long run. I know I do now that I'm working toward a major career change at mid-life.

AlexsPajamaMama replied: The same sort of thing happened to us...when I was 9mons pregnant with Alex. DH lost his job and it was trully a blessing in disguise.
Everything does happen for a reason. Only good things can come of this, even though the situation looks awful at the moment.

jacobsmama replied: I was excited to hear from you. I know exactly what you are going through. My husband lost his job in September and he hated it, so it was a relief but at same time frustrating he doesn't know what he wants to do.

I will give you big


Keep your chin up and I will think positive for your family.

moped replied: Ah Rae, I am sorry, but it does sound like this is just what needed to happen, now things can be even better soon!!!!!!!!!!!