I need to vent!! - WTF is worng with some people!
Lollie wrote: Ok...Im MAD!! 
Where do people get off with rude comments about my belly?? I've gotten used to people giving me some comments about my belly and stuff and I laugh it off but when they say it in a rude way....oh no...you don't go there!!!!!
So,I had my ante-natal class today and there was one of the other mom-to-be's mother there.She was attending just to give her daughter support.Support...my ASS!!!! After the class while I was sitting and chatting to some of the mommies there,she was sitting next to me..just my luck! She asked me how far along I am and when I told her you said.."Good grief!!!Please tell me you joking!How on earth do you get around with THAT in the way!!" Then her daughter who I get along quite well with decided to add..."And mom,its her second!" And nnnnoooo..that wasn't enough,she went ahead and said how old Bri is and how close my babies will be in age!
That just spiced things up! Her Mom turns to me and has the nerve to say..."You crazy!I don't think I would have kept it!!!Are they from one man??The she still says to me...."You so young to have 2 small kids,there goes your life!" Oh that pissed me off! Don't get me wrong,I have respect for my elders but this woman really crossed the line! I looked at her and told her that I'm proud of my belly cos it signifies the precious life I have growing inside me and that how big I am has got shit all to do with her! So how I get around with my belly is none of her business..unless she's willing to hire someone to carry me around whole day! I also told her that I don't give bee's knee whether she would have kep her baby or not had she had a close pregnancy and that whatever events have happened in my life has happened for a reason.
Ok..I think I crossed the line a bit when I told her that the father of my babies should be of no concern to her...HER HUSBAND COULD VERY WELL BE THE FATHER! Uuuuggg...I wasn't serious!!
Don't worry,I didn't cause a scene..well,not a big one anyway.I did this in a very....tasteful manner.She won't say shitty things to me again!!! Her daughter called me earlier and apologised for her mum. 
Once again my question...WHAT THE F*CK IS WRONG WITH SOME DUMB A$$ PEOPLE!!!!
favre4fan replied: OMG!! I would have been as furious as you!! it was completely NONE or her business!! Some people just don't know when to shut up!!
AshleyRose replied: oh gosh! I am glad that wasn't me, Lollie because I would have caused a scene for sure! I get so upset when people are rude like that! I am glad YOU could handle it in a well mannered fashion...  I would have had a hard time not cleaning her clock  !
A&A'smommy replied: OMG that is SO WRONG!!! She should really watch what she says and to whom she says it too!!
My2Beauties replied:  I sware you are a firecracker girl! I love the way you tell people off, I wish I could come off with some of the same comments you do when people are rude! LOL LOL! You go girl I'm lovin' it, that woman deserved every remark you made to her 
redchief replied: So... How DO you get around with that all day? 
MomToMany replied: I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. I hate those people who think they are all high-and-mighty, and their opinion is law. How friggin' RUDE!!!
Sunflower04 replied: Wow I can't believe how rude that lady was! 
Lollie replied:
Hehehehehe....
I get around...wobble her,wobble there.I can't say I bounce everywhere..couldn't even if I tried!!!! 
Ive always just had a knack for having come backs to put ppl in their place...at least it comes into good use...well,for me anyway!! As Devlin says...He fears nothing more that an angry,hormonal and preggo woman!!!
Maddie&EthansMom replied: I can't believe she would talk to you like that!!!!! I probably would have hit the woman. Where do people get off talking to others that way??? People think b/c you are pg they can say anything to you, I guess. I'm glad you put her in her place.
Kaitlin'smom replied: some people are just dumb. My sister and I are 18 months appart......and we are close. It was almost like having a twin when we were little.
I just dont get some people 
Mommy2BAK replied: Oh my gosh!!! I cannot believe that lady, she was way out of line! I would kill my mom if she ever said something like that! (which she never would). Once when I was about 32 weeks preg. my mother and I were in a furniture store and a lady asked me how much longer until my baby was due, and I told her about 2 months longer and she was like "what??? 2 months??? it looks to me like 2 weeks!!! are you sure you aren't farther along than that?" I cannot believe some people! UHH!
3xsthefun replied: I can't believe that woman was so rude!
Alice replied: She is stupid. She is rude. Her daughter is embarassed by her.
In a few months, you won't have to wobble around all day, yet she'll still be stupid and rude and an embarassment to her children.
Your kids will be close in age-- they'll be there for each other as kids and as adults. They'll share memories and toys and friends. You're giving them each the gift of a sibling.
Ignore the idiots who can't understand.
loveydad replied: Ugh I HATE that (the close together thing) I was in walmart with all the kids and henry's kids as well (henry was at school though) and someone was like "oh are all of these yours!?" and I go "most of them, the two in the stroller are my sons) and shes like "Wow I don't envy you! Two sets of twins! Why doesn't your wife get on birth control?" I told her "I don't have a wife." then she went nuts. oh my life is ruined and blah blah. I don't buy it. I'm happy! 
ediep replied: wow! What a rude lady!!! I completely think thats ome people don't think before they speak!!! They just let words fly right out!!! That was very horrible for someone to say to you!!!
Linda211 replied: I agree WTF is wrong with her.
I had a big belly with my second child. One time someone asked me how much longer until the baby was due and I said about 3 months. And they said "OMG are you having twins?" I said "Nope I'm just fat. But thanks for pointing that out." That shut her right up.lol
Josie83 replied: Ugh that is so rude, where do ppl get off talking to you like that?! I know what its like, because I have had i a lot since having Cassie, rude comments about me being v young to eb her mum etc. I'm really sorry yopu had to go through it but good for you for sticking up fr yourself! xx
moped replied: Well you just never mind what other people have to say - I think you look gorgeous and obviously love your kids..........piss on her!!!!!!!!!!!!
PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!
Everyone has a million opinions when your pregnant, I remember one lady telling me that I was FOR SURE having a girl....I already knew he was boy, and she was yelling it at me and telling me that my DH and I waited too long to have kids cause we are too old now - I am 33, he is 45.......UGH
WHATEVER
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