I think I'm gonna have to go to the doctor

Danalana wrote: For 2 reasons. One is that I think I have a stitch that didn't dissolve and is causing me pain still. The other is for the emotional stuff. I figured it would be tough because I have clinical depression already, though I still manage to function pretty well with it. I just never imagined it would be this hard. And I don't know if it's something that will pass once the hormones settle down. I'm just a mess. Still crying a lot, especially if I have nowhere to go or nothing to do that involves seeing other people.
And, on top of it all, my mother called and told me that her doctor's office called. She had a lung CT done the other daay because she has some lesions in her right one. She has had them for a year or more, but one of them (or maybe even more than one) has grown and they are concerned. She is going to have to have a biopsy done, and she does so bad with anesthesia. She has had cancer twice...she had her uterus removed, as well as one of her kidneys. It's so upsetting, you know?
Anyway, I'm thinking of calling my family doctor and seeing what they say.

holley79 replied: Sweetie I will get you both in my thoughts and prayers. It doesn't hurt to talk to your doctor.

Celestrina replied: Don't hesitate to call. Please keep us updated on how both you and your mom are doing.

mckayleesmom replied: Good for you Dana.....Im sorry you are going through all this, but I am very proud of you for recognizing that something might be wrong and its ok to ask someone for some help.

Sorry about the stitch...hope you get it taken care of.

Maddie&EthansMom replied: I'm sorry you are having a difficult time, hun. But you are doing the right thing by speaking to your dr. I know after I had Ethan I had to keep busy or I would dissolve into a puddle of tears. I'm praying for you sweetie.

I hope they figure out why you are in pain as well. That doesn't make things any easier.

lovemy2 replied: Go with your gut like you have been Dana - call your OB though - they may have a better handle on it for you IMO - good luck and many prayers to your Mom

My2Beauties replied: Sweetie, definitely call your doctor and KUP on what he/she says. I'm so sorry to hear about your mother, thoughts and prayers for her!!

MoonMama replied: I agree hun give your doctor a call. And please KUP. I am so sorry about your mom. Many P&PTs. Let me know if you need anything.

sparkys2boys replied: I have to agree here, call and speak to your doctor, it can't hurt right

I am sorry to hear about your mom I will be saying a prayer for you all.
And remember being a mom is hard stuff and asking for help is not being defeated, it is accepting the fact that we don't know it all and that you are wise enough to be able to see that and ask

My3LilMonkeys replied: Good luck with everything.

~Roo'sMama~ replied:
ITA. KUP on what your doctor says!! I'm sorry about your mom too hun - I hope everything's ok.

TrulyBlessed replied: (((((Big Hugs and Many Prayers))))))

luvmykids replied: KUP, and don't be upset with yourself for thinking you might need some help. Totally normal and very common and it says nothing about you as a person or a mom

Lots of prayers for your mom too, please KUP on her

A&A'smommy replied: I think thats a good idea. I'm SO sorry about your mom!!!

Bamamom replied: I'm so sorry you're feeling out of whack but I think calling your dr is the best decision. PLEASE let me know if there is anything I can do

Nina J replied: It is the right choice to talk to your doctor. If you continue, things might just get a whole lot worse. Good luck, let us know! I am sure that things will be sorted out for you.

bawoodsmall replied:
Your right. It doesnt hurt to check it out. KUP girl. Hugs and prayers for you and your mom. I hope she is ok. That siggy is so cute. He is just adorable!!!!

ZandersMama replied: sorry you aren't feeling well, kup we are all here for you.

Mommy2Isabella replied: I hope you get the help you need!! It doesn't mean anything bad on you either, just keep that in mind. It is COMPLETELY NORMAL to feel the way you feel after having a baby. It is a big life change!!

Danalana replied: I've picked up the phone a few times, but I haven't called yet. I don't know what to say, plus I HATE asking for help...or admitting something isn't right.
I know right now is not the time to let pride get in the way. I've just been trying to think of what to say.

A&A'smommy replied:
I would call the ob and tell them your having some really bad ppd They understand they hear it everyday!!!

Calimama replied:
Picture Kade everytime you go to call. That should help you be able to make the call. He needs you.

bawoodsmall replied: Can dh call for you or a friend? You are doing the right thing, everyone needs help sometimes, we all just dont admit it.

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TrulyBlessed replied: ((((((Big Hugs))))))))

Jackie012007 replied: awww Dana - I have SO been there It was really hard for me to admit I needed my antidepressants back, after I survived my whole pregnancy without them (and it was really hard). It's hard to make that call because you feel defeated, but don't! You have to do what is best for you and especially for your son. Unfortunately for me, that meant not BFing but if I hadn't gone back on the antidepressants, I shudder to think what would have happened.

Don't feel bad, just pick up the phone and let your Dr. know you aren't feeling right. S/he can go from there.