I was afraid of this - The twin's mom

loveydad wrote: Well, I got a call from my ex (carter and Clara's mom) apparently she snapped out of it long enough to realize it was her children's birthday on Monday.

She called to ask me what I was doing for their birthday and I told her we were having a party on saturday. Of course if she listened at all she would know this, because I called her mom who called her sisters, who called most of her family including her to tell them they were all invited. Not that I was thrilled about this but I think if i lied to her she'd weasle me out of it and I'd be in more trouble.

Anyway she says she's coming and I thought maybe this would be the best time to have her sign the custody papers. So hopefully we're going to do that while she's here. It would be nice to make sure the kids are fully mine!

I just would rather she didn't come and start a huge fight. For one thing, my new wife absoultly HATES Her guts. I'm not fond of her either. *Sigh*

This is gonna be one hell of a party. I think I'll buy a couple kegs...lol

MomToMany replied: I hope she signs the papers! Good luck, Vig. You sure are going to need it!

A&A'smommy replied: UGH well at least you are making them yours.... I hope all goes well and that she doesn't piss anyone off too much!

loveydad replied: At least Tav can't get up and fight LoL.

She better not piss me off though!

DVFlyer replied: Good luck with that one. Just pray the planets align or whatever it takes for her to be in a good mood and sign those papers.

moped replied: Oh dear - that sounds like it could get interesting - UGH........I really hope she signes the papers~

loveydad replied: Well she wanted to come on Wensday and stay with US until Monday which is the kid's actually birthday. I laughed on the phone for several minutes before I could contain myself enough to say "no, I'm sorry my wife would kill me."

I've also heard the trip of "you married someone with my name and someone who looks like me." to which I retorted "No, actually she's a lot hotter than you.".

Woops. That didn't go over well. LOL ANyway she's coming Thursday and will stay at the motel in town LMAO.

gr33n3y3z replied: Good luck Vig your going to need it.
I think a motel in the next town is too close for this LOL
But I'm sure she will conduct herself with her family there.

kit_kats_mom replied: just remind her that the party is for the kids. If she must create a scene, tell her to take it outside. Sounds like an uncomfortable situation. good luck

mommy2owen replied: Good Luck!

iluvmysweetiepies replied: Good luck this weekend!!

texasp3 replied:
BWAAAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAA! WHOOOO - HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA!!! OH BOY... HAH! AAHAH! Heee. Heheheheheh. *wipes eyes* Oh, that's a good one. Heheh.

My ex and I have a GOOD relationship and I only made the mistake of letting him crash at our place ONCE. &*%$#@, was that a HUGE mistake! We actually sent him to a motel after the second night.

loveydad replied: Oh man. I don't know. She called tonight right. I was really busy, Nicky had just woke up, Tracy was asking for drinks, the twins are being little brats, and I'm going out of my mind.

So she's apparently missing me a bit I guess. She sounded rather nicer than she has on the phone. I was trying to get off the phone and I said "wlel I'll probably see you thursday then" (which was our last agreed date) she corrects me. "wensday." then like this:

Me: WHAT!?
Her: Well I'm going to come early. I don't watn to be really tired out for the kid's birthdays.
Me: You'll be fine their birthday ain't until Saturday. (party)
Her: Well no I'll just hang out in Council and maybe go up to Mccall.
Me: (incredolous) but you hate it here. You were bored when we were engaged!
Her: Oh it'll be fine Vig....
(long drawn out pause while I try to get nicky's diaper on him and clean him up)
Her: you know ...Vig...
Me: (in a dark tone) yes?
Her: I wish you'd rethink letting me stay with you. I can't really afford to pay money for the hotel room.
Me: I'll pay for you.
Her: Well I'd really like to stay there with the twins.
Me: I'll let the twins stay with you.
Her: Vig! Why do you have to be such a pain in the (donkey)
me: YOU ARE NOT STAYING WITH ME! MY WIFE WILL KILL ME!! Come whenever you want, stay at your parents, stay in a hotel, stay with Sean for all I care BUT YOU ARE NOT FREAKING STAYING WITH ME EVER NOT EVEN IF CALIFORNIA FALLS INTO THE OCEAN, YOUR PARENTS AND FAMILY HERE ALL DIE, AND THE MOTEL IS FULL! GOODBYE!

A little harsh but geez!!! Get a hint! So I'll probably see her Wensday. Thursday I hvae to be in Boise and I think I'll take the kids LOL.

MomToMany replied: Oh man, sorry to laugh Vig! What is she possibly thinking??? That you'll take her back?? I'm sure Tavia will welcome her with open arms, LMAOPIMP!!!

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I hope all goes well for you Vig! She sounds very jealous!