Im FURIOUS
mckayleesmom wrote: They are making dh go to Wisconsin....This is @rap. He just got back after being gone for 3 weeks....Im so mad. Im so sick of taking care of the kids by myself and never having any help, never having friends, and always being broke so I can't even shop my time away.  Im just sitting here bawling because Im so mad. I seriously need to see about getting prozak.
MyLuvBugs replied: Oh. I'm sorry Sweetie!!  Aren't there any other momma's on base that you can hang out with and do stuff with?
holley79 replied: To you. If I were there I would help you. I'm sorry they are sending him out again.
mckayleesmom replied:
Ya...but its not the same...kwim? Its like you are friends because you are here....not because you would be best friends under other circumstances.....It just doesn't feel the same. Im just mad....I have just been feeling really angry lately and I can't get ahold of it...Im starting to take it out on the kids and I hate myself for that. Not only does he have to leave for a week, but he leaves again on the 27th and doesn't come back till the 17th of December....its just not fair.
CanadianMom2005 replied: hang in there. you got your kiddos too dont forget. and im sure hubby gets frustrated just like you about it too at times. 
mckayleesmom replied: I usually do pretty good...and I know he can't control it, but Ive just been really mad this month for some reason.
MyLuvBugs replied: Well, I don't think prozak is the answer, but I do think you should really sit down with your DH and explain how you're feeling. And the other moms on the base (although not "true" friends) do know what you're going through.
I wish I could be there to help you out. It does suck to feel like you're actually a single parent that's chained to your home. With my dh's old job, I felt like that A LOT. I found that going for long walks with the baby in the stroller helped a little. Also, just going and talking to those ladies around our apartment complex helped a little. I spent many a night though, crying myself to sleep b/c DH was still at work and I'd been the one to feed the kid, put her to bed, clean the house, etc. It sucks. If you ever need to talk though, we're all here to help.
MomToJade&Jordan replied:
It takes a special kind of person to be a military spouse. It's not an easy job and we are often times left to take care of things while our DH's are sent all over creation. I completely understand hun. We are here for you when you need us as always.
Sarah&Mackenzie replied: I just want to give you a !!!!
mckayleesmom replied: Thanks guys...Im feeling a little better now that the steam is tapering off.....I really want to go to the mall and spends lots of money right now to make me feel better.....anyone want to loan me lots of money... 
MomToJade&Jordan replied:
I would if I could, but you know along with being a military spouse comes the always being broke.
CanadianMom2005 replied: me too hun
JAYMESMOM replied: I'm sorry - if I had it I would give it to you. We could go together and just shop till they kicked us out.
I know how you feel about being alone and taking care of the kids. Now that he has been home I would like to ship him off. LOL.
We women are just so picky
mckayleesmom replied:
isn't that the truth
Insanemomof3 replied:
A&A'smommy replied: Oh hun that is incredibly stressful I don't think I could do that for 3wks at a time I'm shocked at how well you handle yourself!! I totally think you have a right to be P.Oed is there ANY way that you could go with him? I wish I could come help you!!!
amymom replied: I am so sorry. I wish I lived closer.
mummy2girls replied:
welcome to my world:(
can he refuse or is he forced to go?
mammag replied: I'm so sorry Brianne! That really sucks!
3xsthefun replied: I'm so sorry.
My2Beauties replied: Well I'm not too far away so we should plan on doing something to take your mind off of it! I'm so sorry, I know it sucks, because Brian is pulled away at a moment's notice too now with his new job  We can sulk together!
coasterqueen replied: Brianne. I only know your pain short term since I'm going through the same thing right now with DH away. I could only imagine how it would be long term. I think I'd definitely be running for the prozac if it was long term.
punkeemunkee'smom replied: Brianne- I am sorry I just saw this post! Yuck-I know how you feel and the anger just builds until it is unreasonable -try to stop it now girlie! You are a single parent for 3 weeks at a time but you have to remember(and this is the hard part for me sometimes too!) He is working for you guys-He loves you and he misses you too! I tend to get really lonley this time of year, when it is 'family' time around the world...lol! Don't ruin the time you spend together by being angry about the time you spend apart! Message me when you need to-I can relate! I also know from the way you talk about him there is alot of love in your home and marriage-hold tight to that and remember you are both working towards something more for your family in the long run!!!
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