Im freaking out - NO NO NO

mckayleesmom wrote: Ok Im freaking out. Me and Dh resumed our sex life about 2 weeks after Mckaylee was born and we used protection since Im not on the pill yet. Well on one accasion our protection mechanism broke, well now Im getting little natious spells and really tired and my dh mentioned that maybe Im pregnant. My baby isn't even 2 months old, but I know it can happen cause my little sister is proof of it,,my brother was only 3 months old when my mom got pregnant. So needless to say Im really freaking out. Not that I wouldn't love my baby and be happy to have another one, but Im just getting use to having my body back. Im not sure if I am or not, Im don't want to take a test yet cause as long as I don't, I can think Im not. And Im going to feel like a dork. I can't even imagine telling my doctor that I think I might be pregnant already when my follow up exam with him isn't until tuesday..lol...my mom will laugh her @## off at me....I hope I am just being paranoid,,but I could tell I was pregnant when I was only 3 weeks along with Mckaylee.....errrrr.....My husband thinks that this is hillarious,,and I guess it kind of is.....but he will still suffer if I am....this is all his fault...

CantWait replied: I don't know what to say, whether to laugh or or give my support....I hope whatever the case it turns out for the best.
Marie

amynicole21 replied: OH BOY! You might just want to go ahead and take that test... I took one last week and wouldn't you know it, AF showed up a few hours later. Here's hoping it all works out the way you want it to!!

Kaitlin'smom replied: I would take a test just to put your mind at ease to know one way or another.

we are hear for ya! hugs!

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I would definately take a Pregnancy test! It might put your mind at ease!

MommyToAshley replied: I agree ...take the test... I can't stand the suspense any longer! LOL

Sometimes the best things in life are surprises.

booey2 replied: I agree with all the ladies here, the only sure fire way to know for sure right now is to test or if you have the patience to wait, then wait. Huggs and sending ~~~~~~~~~~~~~calming vibes to you. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Mommieto2Girls replied: Awwwe , I wish I was in your shoes. I agree with everyone else, go take a test. it's better to know than not know. We have been trying since 2 weeks after having Maddie, she is 9 1/2 months now and still no baby. So it could be a blessing, and you'll get your 2 kids within a year apart.

Hillbilly Housewife replied: ROFL!!! (couldn't resist!!!)

I was in that position a while ago. Good luck, and LET US KNOW!!!!!

Mom2_my3boys replied: Awww just take the test! I understand you completely, Zachary was only 3 mos old when I got pregnant again! Ohhh what a surprise. At least if you take the test you will know either way. No more worrying and suspense. Let us know ASAP!!!!

Jacqueline_n_Alyssas_Mom replied: adding in my anticipation PLEASE take the test! we are ALL here for you!


good luck!

Schnoogly replied: Adding that you could be getting nauseous because you aren't getting any sleep! I remember feeling like absolute crap when iain was sleeping like your little one.

Take the test! You'll feel better and then you won't have to feel dumb at the dr! Also since you are BFing it is unlikely that you have ovulated just yet--but it is possible! You probably haven't gotten a period yet right?

Steph

mckayleesmom replied: I will probably buy one tonight. Im going shopping with a girlfriend today and Im not so sure I want to buy one in front of her,,she has a big mouth. But I will let you know when I do. The problem really isn't being pregnant,,just that I had a tough pregnancy with Mckaylee and with no family around it will be hard if Im by myself. BUt if I am,,we will manage.

supermom replied: Well, here's a great big no matter how things turn out- I do agree, if you are you'll be able to start taking care of yourself better, and if you aren't you will put your mind at ease. Let us know - hugs!!

MamaMartie replied: I agree that you should take the test. I can't tell you how many times I've taken a pg test and right after AF showed up (sometimes within 15 mins of taking the test). Pg test tests often bring on AF. It is some weird thing that I've heard other people say too.

It could be the bc pills making you feel neauseous. I remember when I went on them after having our first. I felt neauseous.

If you are pg, you'll get through it. It really isn't that bad. Look at it this way, you can still nap b/c your baby naps, she isn't mobile, etc. Babies are much easier than mobile toddlers when your pg. I got pg with Joey when Meggie was 9 months old. She has easier to handle while pg than her 2 year old brother. It seems hard to give up your newly re-found body, but it isn't that bad. Plus your children will be close in age and I think it is a nice thing.

As for buying a pg test, go to a dollar store. Their tests are very sensitive..and well they only cost a dollor. I got a + sign with Hannah on a dollar tree test 2 days before AF was due. Plus if you're out with a friend you and hide it in a basket of stuff and she'll never notice you're buying one.

Trust me it is better to know than fret about it. Good luck!

~CrazieMama~ replied: It's late, did you take the test? If so what are the results? Let us know!!!! Good luck!!!

mckayleesmom replied: I was going to get one today, I asked my friend if she could run by walmart so I could get Mac some tylonol, and I told her I would just run in real fast,,but she ended up coming in with me and I don't want her to know cause her husband is a recruiter with mine and she will tell him and it will be all over the station in a flash,,,then I thought that I could go when she dropped me off at home,,but that wasn't till late cause that girl can shop. She just took out an 11, 000 dollar loan without her husband knowing (hes away at school) if that gives you any clue on how long we were at the mall. My husband would kill if I did that, he said it would be different if I asked, but she went behind her husbands back. She claims its money for school, but I go shopping with her all the time and if she would stop spending money she could have paid for school outright. Oh and did I mention that she doesn't have any kids and refuses to get a job? I don't know how they even make it...her husband makes the same as mine and even before mckaylee I never spent money like her,,and they have an extra car payment and credit cards...we don't have that and we still don't have money to blow like that....yikes

Kaitlin'smom replied: so did you get one over the weekend and take it????????????

~CrazieMama~ replied: Did you take a test yet?

supermom replied: yeah, yeah, yeah - we all wanna know!!

Hillbilly Housewife replied: Come ON!!!!!!!!!

+ or - ??????

ashade75 replied: Well did you take the test?

We want to know! Life's lessons, always let someone else do the taxes! Lol

mckayleesmom replied: lol,,,,It came out negative........I was really relieved and kind of disapointed too suprisingly, but its good cause I would really like Mckaylee to be about 2 or 3 before i have another one,,,but at the rate we are going and if I am as fertile as my mom then it probably wont even be that long,,Im going to get the mini pill from my doc tomorow, he wanted me to get the IUD, but I read up and asked you all for your input and I don't think its right for me. I would rather the pill not work and get pregnant then not be able to get pregnant if that thing does some damage or have miscarraiges which are common with people who have had an IUD.. Thanks for your support ladies.

booey2 replied: Glad to hear you got the answer you wanted. AF can be scary when she doesn't want to play on her proper day.

Hillbilly Housewife replied: Good for you!

Glad things worked out...and do what you feel is right for you.

After this one, I'm not planning on having anymore for a few years. But DH and I were talking about you last night (yes, I talk about you guys as if you're my real friends...lol) and I was telling him that what if we had an unplanned baby later on? I'm only 21 right now, and DH is 23.

What if we have a baby at like...36? (which is more or less the average to having babies nowadays)

That means we'd be having a baby at the *normal* time to have a baby...except our other babies will be 16 and 14 1/2!!!!!

Sheesh.

mckayleesmom replied: ya, Im 22 and my hubby will be 25 in July. We want 2 kids and if the next one is a girl then we want to try one more time for a boy,,dh says after having her he doesn't care if they all come out girls, but I would like to try a third time for a boy, and if its a girl, then dh is going to be outnumbered. But I would like to have them about 2 or 3 years apart cause I want each to have one on one time until they are almost ready for school, I figure by the time Mckaylee starts kindergarten then the next one will be ready for her one on one time and be at the age where they are really learning things and so on with the (maybe) third baby.