Just a Vent

flirtycuddle wrote: I'm still staying with my ex till I either save enough money to move or he moves to Ky for school and such. Well now he's having his new gf from Ky fly up here to see him and she's of course staying here with us. He has never met this girl in person just talked to her online and on the phone for the last 3 months. I don't have a problem with her coming just the fact that she is going to be around the kids when he's never met her. I put off the kids meeting the guy I'm dating for a few more months just because I'm not ready for that and their dad isn't ready for it. Yet he can have some random girl come stay here and be around the kids the whole week while I am working and he's taking off the week when we have bills that need paid. I just need to save more money and get the heck out of here wheather or not he's moving out of state.

moped replied: Yikes that is a touchy situation - and will be odd for her I am sure......I don't know what to tell you

lisar replied: OMG girl I am so sorry. It must be hard to be dealing with this and if it was my dh then I would be flipping my lid on him. I hope all is well and goes okay.

Calimama replied: I agree. If I were her I would wait until he lived on his own. Good luck.

Mommy2Isabella replied: Sorry about the situation. I would tell him to wait until he lived on his own and atleast until the kids weren't with him!

flirtycuddle replied: He baught the ticket for her to fly here without even telling me first. I got off work and his mom told me what he was doing. She knows about me still being here and apperantly doesnt care. Oh yea shes 16 and hes 21 almost 22. I still don't belive that this girls parents are letting her fly 3000 miles to see some guy like this.

lovemy2 replied: Your a better person than I my friend - NO WAY would I be involved in that....hang in there and keep working hard - the harder you work the quicker you can get out and get your life as you want it

ZandersMama replied: I would be saying #$%& no. good luck with that one.

gr33n3y3z replied:
Who should care what he wants he made his bed let him sleep in it
and da*n if I would let some net person sleep in my house while I'm in it and my children Its B.S. kick his butt to a rat infested motel with her.

Kaitlin'smom replied: I am sorry but he is flying a 16 yr old to come stay with him in a house where you live with kids.........ummm I have a BIG BIG issue with this. However its not my place to tell you what to do. Good luck

lovemykiddies replied:
I totally, completely agree! 16 is still a child!

flirtycuddle replied: I just found out my dad is coming up that week to see my son since his bday is shorlty after that week and he's getting and extra hotel room for me and the kids and watching the kids while I am at work. I told him to go to hotel and he said he didn't have to since he pays half the bills and I told him fine I'm going to one and not paying a cent for this month to the bills since hes being an inconsiderate a hole. I don't see how I should have to pay for this place when I have no say in what is going on. I am going Monday after I get off work to see what help I can get to move out of here and with day care and such. I'm just sick of his crap and willing to do what ever it takes to get out. I'm even looking into renting rooms if I have to for me and the kids now. They don't need this crap in their lives.

PrairieMom replied:
yeeahhhh...that sounds a little fishy. I wonder if her parents know or if she is just going to go missing and scare the S*** out of them. i may be doing some digging to find out who she is and letting some authorities know.

lets just say she IS going to run away, if you are in the same home as your x- could you be implicated as an accessory if her parents file charges? sorry, I am a worst case scenario type gal.

msoulz replied:
OMG, that is the same thought that I had. He could find himself in a heap of trouble.

Mommyof3 replied:
That's weird. She's not of legal age to even be in a situation like that...much less put you in one like that!

lovemykiddies replied: The 16 year old might not be old enough to know better, but a 22 year old does.

I'm glad you're staying in a hotel. I wouldn't want to be anywhere near a situation like this.

flirtycuddle replied: According to him her parents are letting her and she told them and all. Yet he says all the time her parents are conservative and won't even let her date so something some here don't add up. My dad comes in on the night of the 19th and will pcik me and the kids up right after that then I wont be home for a wihle

PrairieMom replied: well, of course "her parents know" Man, I hope this isn't the start of something bad.

lovemykiddies replied: I don't understand how any parent would allow this--a 16 year old should be having fun with friends, going to school, enjoying childhood...if she wants to date maybe someone her own age! And just for fun at that. I think it is absolutely ridiculous for her to fly out and stay with a 22 year old man who has kids of his own.

I mean...isn't this the sort of thing you see on "To catch a Predator??" She is 16!!!

I hope everything works out.

flirtycuddle replied: Thats excatly what i said to him to. And the reason I am getting a hotel before she gets here and not coming back till after she leaves. I'm having no part of it what so ever.

MyBabeMaddie replied: Wow... I would be totally flipping out right now if I were you. Why do you have to leave YOUR place with the kids even if your dad is paying for it - He's the jerkoff but yet he has the week to himself with this underage whore- hmm... I think he and Adam need to find eachother they would be best of friends...

gr33n3y3z replied:
that is a good idea

luvmykids replied: I'd be livid

And the whole situation tells you a lot about both of them...she's young, stupid and immature, and he's a dumba**. Neither one of them knows how to respect anybody either. Good riddance to him, I hope you're able to get out of there ASAP