Lord give me the strangth .. - to not KILL my bridal party!!! soo long.
luvbug00 wrote: Enter stress... 
oh where to start. ahh the dresses.
Well my "BF" had issue with the dresses i picked for them from day 1! day one! dia uno! she complained they were too expencive. $275 a piece. HELLO they are J-Crew of course they aren't gonna be cheap. then Kim being pregnant is becomming a bigger problem then i thought. She's HUDGE! like nadia 5 months preg. with mya hudge! and not even like 10 weeks yet . who knows what she'll be like in a month or two! soo now to find somthing to fit her and bean. the original dresses are now off the J-crew site which is the ONLY place to get them. I still have no idea what the girls are wearing.
next the bridal shower.
so my "BF" is in charge of the bridal shower and her ideas were ok but one was just horrid! she wanted a dude who is a chef likes me and HATES Brad to teach us how to cook a fancy dessart. how baout NO! I don't want anyone who hates my Fh to do anything for me. I convinced everyone to vote crabfeast so i saved myself on that one! 
general stuff...
thease girls whine more then my 6 year old. seriously. my "BF" is mad I blocked a song from "greese" ( she was convinced i should play at my wedding) that last one from the movie. and I told the DJ if he plays it I will cry and he won't get paid. She has also felt the need to tell me my dress isn't fancy enough I should have Mya throw peddals ( she is carrying a boquet there will be enough peddals on the floor!) and she hates the ties. Then there is kim, my sweet friend kim..she says I'm being cheep with make-up and hair and just all arround cheep. I'm sorry but my dad is dropping a coupple cars to make this thing the best it can be for his little girl and I want to help him out and not be sentancing him to 10 more years until retirement. I am proud to be "cheep" I know the value of money and i already feel awful with all my dad is spending on me. Anyway I feel better now thanks for the vent!
love,
Nadi
ps. what would I do without you all!!! 
My3LilMonkeys replied:  Sorry you're having such a stressful time!
1lilpeanut2love replied: Darn girl you have a lot going on. I would just tell them that this is YOUR wedding and YOUR day, you can and will do what you want to do. If they don't like it then OH WELL!  Sorry you are SO stressed!
MomToJade&Jordan replied: Okay Nadia why is your wedding party acting like a Bridezilla?  I'm sorry that they are causing you problems. You have enough on your plate right now without people being difficult.
luvmykids replied: I'm sorry I thought it was understood that when someone honors you by asking you to participate in their wedding you went along with their wishes
MoonMama replied: First off big ol' huggle! Hang in there. And by all means girl be proud to be "cheep"!  I know what you mean I felt the same way with all the cash my daddy was dropping. I seriously dollar stored and found awesome candle holders, candles, fovor bags, etc. all kinds of other pretty things for my wedding. And everyone kept saying we must have spent a ton on everything.  *I'll never tell* 
C&K*s Mommie replied: 
Geesh! Talk about nerve of someone who should be honored to be a part of your day.
Don't let them stress you out. There is more than enough on your plate right now.
TheOaf66 replied: very sorry to hear all that
arent weddings fun 
I hope it all gets better...just remember, all of these people complaining...it is not their wedding and they are not paying for it so they have no room to complain, tell them to be friends and supportive and they can do whatever they want for "their own" wedding
skinkybaby replied: I can understand them complaining about the cost of the dress. That is a lot of money to spend on a dress they'll only wear once when they also have a shower to pay for and other expenses.
But as for everything else they should just get with it.
gr33n3y3z replied: Whos wedding is this any way???????????
Your BF should shut up or put up
It sounds like its going to be a beautiful wedding Nadi
sweetie
luvbug00 replied:
Well I can't. my "BF " is marriying a koren dude and they want to use traditional SILK costumes. Shipped from korea at $600 a piece. This is the dress I'm asking her to get and she can wear it like a million times over. I can't do that with a traditional kamono thing.
holley79 replied: Honey my first response to reading this was, Who's getting married? This is yours and Brad's special day. You can tell all of them to BYA. 
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