Need some more prayers for Timmy - If you can spare them

mckayleesmom wrote: My brother went to go stay with his dad apparently. He gave my mom 2 months temporary custody of Timmy...at least in writing. So far Timmy hasn't asked about his dad, but his nightmares that had gone away a while back...are back, hes been shaking in his sleep, breaking out in hives again and he has diarhea...His nerves are shot. No three year old should have to be so nervous he makes himself sick.

I talked to my sister tonight and she informed me that they found out that the 4 months my brother was in rehab....was actually only a week...he hid out the rest of the time at his ex wifes (the mother of his other 3 kids). Nice huh? You let your 3 year old break out in hives for 4 months wondering where you went and you weren't even where you were suppose to be.

I also found out that he wasn't much of a father in the last couple weeks that he was at my moms and "out of rehab". All he did was play computer poker and ignore his son. But his son loved him anyways because hes 3.

I hope hes really proud of himself. My mom and sister can't leave the house without Timmy asking if they are comming back to him and asking them to make sure that they don't forget about him. Sometimes he even trys to stay up as late as he can to make sure my mom came back from work. A 3 year old shouldn't have to be so uncertain of the people that love and care about him. Its not right.

I hate to say this, but I really hope that beer was worth it to him. I hope that his barely functioning liver starts to make him sick and wake up. I hope it makes him sick enough for him to sign over his rights permanently. He wasted his life, but he is not going to take a 3 year old out with him.

My mom is going to try to petition to get full custody.

Personally I think the suicide thing was a cop out. Come to find out, he called the cops on himself. This "suicidal tendency" is his way of leaving Timmy and not having to feel guilty or pressured to come back for him. I hope he doesn't come back for him....I hope he just disapears and leaves that baby alone.

kayla's mama replied: Oh man, poor Timmy You're right no 3 y/o should have to experience that. Reading your post just made my heart break thinking of an innocent young boy looking up to his father and his father not having anything to do with him. Ugh...I really hope you guys can get full custody of little Timmy. KUP

mckayleesmom replied:
I think he is going to stay with my mom....Of course I would love him for a visit. Not that I wouldn't want full custody of him if that option was available, but right now my mom is the constant in his life....I think it would be more devestating for him to lose her right now then do anything positive. Even with my mom there for 4 months reassuring him...he had hives and nightmares the whole time my brother was gone.

kayla's mama replied:

That is just sad

1lilpeanut2love replied: I just wanted to cry after hearing that part of the story. That poor boy. I just want to take him and give him a big hug. He definitely doesn't deserve any of this crap. I hope things can get better for this boy. If things get worse for this poor boy it will be no good for him. More prayers and pt's coming to your family. This baby needs to be around people who love him and people he can count on. I hope your mom gets custody of him. He may need to go talk to someone if these symptoms keep happening. Poor, poor boy!!

luvmykids replied: It makes me so sick to my stomach to imagine what that poor child has felt and feared over the course of his little tiny life. I don't wish anything ill towards your brother but sure hope he can get his head straight enough to do whats best for this child. Many prayers to Timmy.

mckayleesmom replied:
To be honest....Im having some ill wishes of my own going on right about now.....Castration is one of them....He should have been snipped at birth...He has no right whatsoever to have children.

Little backround..

My brother got married and had 2 sons (with the ex wife I mentioned). Left her when there kids were babies....the oldest wasn't even 2 yet. He didn't see them again till they were 5 and 6...by this time him and some other idiot decided to have a child....the mom abandons the baby (Timmy) with my brother. Dustin goes back to his ex wife.....and they get pregnant and now there is a baby girl in the picture too....although his ex had a boyfriend about the same time Joclynn was born...so they aren't even sure if my brother is her bio father.....Nice huh? A bunch of idiots in the world and they all manage to find each other. My brother is 29 and has 4 kids (THAT WE KNOW OF) and he takes care of none of them unless its convenient for them.

Also...I say they are the only ones that we know of because before my brother got back with his ex wife...he dated a girl on my sisters block for a while and she claimed she was pregnant....but my mom never heard back from her...Last we knew she was having an abortion. This was one of the 4 or 5 woman that Timmy has called mom. Timmys mom and my brother also had a little girl prior to Timmy but she died at birth.

luvmykids replied: WOW! Your mom must be beside herself. Sorry to say, you're right, he needs to leave Timmy alone and get himself fixed. I don't usually like that term for it but in this case it sounds about right.

mckayleesmom replied:
She is....my sister said that she had to take sleeping pills last night because she really thought that he had gone through with killing himself when she got the call at work. My sister said she is losing it, but trying to keep it together for Timmy.

redchief replied: My prayers go out to Timmy. They go out to your mom too, who I'm certain doesn't need all of this. I know you don't hold out much hope, but I also pray that your brother grows the h@## up and starts accepting responsibility... first to himself and his financial duties. I really don't think he should be in Timmy's life... at least not as he is now. Sorry you've got all of that to deal with, too Brianne. As if your own family wasn't enough work!

Brias3 replied: Wow, my heart aches for that poor little boy. I understand how emotional this is for you too I bet! Best wishes forwarded to your mom too at this time.

MM'sMama replied: Oh poor little guy. Lots of P&PTs coming his and your way. I hope things turn around for this little guy and soon.

holley79 replied: Bri there are always plenty of spare prayers. Poor Timmy.

amymom replied: Prayers for Timmy and your whole family.

amynicole21 replied: Oh God. That just makes me ill. Poor Timmy.