OHHH what to do... - again.......

JessC wrote: I am wanting to PUKE right now.
OK I am complaining again about DH and I really need to get this off my chest, cause I feel like I need to express it to you guys. This all happened about 2 weeks ago but wasnt gonna share it till later.

I know what your thinking... AGAIN? - But I need someone to talk to.
Chris went camping with his family. I was spose to go but had to work. His girl cousin brought one of her friends. WELL ... he SLEPT in the SAMMMME tent as the girl, his cousin and him. ( I think that is messed up! )
WELL they had taken like 4 rolls of film with this girl in the pic, his hands were all over her. - Let me just say, I did not know she went until i was going through the pictures with his brother jeremy. THEN he said well ill have to explain that to you. CHRIS was drunk with her, jeremy (chris's brother) claims he heard the tent moving all night.
MY trust level, has gone from 10 to -1. I had built up all that trust from him cheating on me before and then its like all went down again. Im so sorry guys, about complaining about him again. I really have nobody to talk to. I am very depressed lately and I seriously want to end it but dont know how. I cant handle it...

Thanks for listening.

aspenblue1 replied: I am sorry you are going through this. I would be very upset about that situation also.

gr33n3y3z replied: It seems you need to have a serious talk with your hubby
I hope everything turns out for the best either way.

moped replied: Oh Jess............I am so sorry, that is a bit messed up and it really bites!

You can PM me anytime you like, I am a really good listener. I am sure you have a million things running in your head right now........................HUGS

amymom replied: Jess, I am sorry this is happening. Please take care of yourself FIRST!!

Take care

mckayleesmom replied: Jess....you are so beautiful...inside and out...you deserve better..you really do. Nobody can tell you what to do...that is your decision, but he has already proven himself untrustworthy once and now he has proven that he puts himself in bad situations without thinking. You deserve someone you trust completely. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone that you are constantly going to wonder what hes up to? Personally,,I would leave him, but Im not you...Do I believe that a cheater can redeem himself.....yes...sometimes...But those men usually make sure they keep away from temptation and do everything to make it up to their SO ....he doesn't sound like he thinks before he does anything and thats not good....First he makes you feel bad about your weight (which is laughable..your not fat in the least)....then this. I say...hand him off to the evil stepsisters and find yourself Prince Charming.

akbutterfly83 replied: I agree with Brianne..... you are a great person... and deserve the best... hope it all works out for you.... you are in my T&P......

If you need anyone to talk to..... I'm here.....

jacobsmama replied: I also agree that you deserve better just from getting to know you by your posts!!! You can message me anytime if you need someone to listen. I don't think that you should have to stand there and be disrespected that way. IF he had any respect for you he would never treat you that way or do anything to make you think other wise. I'm sorry for you. Hugs..

Jaime replied: Im sorry about your situation, i think noone ever deserves that, hope things get better

Jamielou replied: Im sorry this is happening. I personally would have to kill him.

It is real hard to get that trust back and what was his explanation of what happened?

You are very pretty and i didnt see the post about the weight issues but from the pictures youve posted you dont look fat in any way.

I hope everything works out for you.

Maddie&EthansMom replied:
Yeah, What Bri said! Go find a man! Someone worthy of your love cause this cat is NOT it.

I'm sorry you are dealing with this.

mammag replied:


I'm so sorry Jess. It seems he is always bringing on some more pain for you. Don't settle for this. He doesn't deserve to clean your toilet let alone have your love. You are so young and beautiful and have your whole life ahead of you. Especially since you are wanting to have a baby....is this someone who would make a good father to your babies?

We are here whenever you need us!!!

TANNER'S MOM replied: I will give the same advice my Granny gave me Jess~

And that is very simpley.. Honey you know the truth... What you do about it is what will make you the person you are..

STRONG, or door mat! Don't let him walk on you! You are too young for this!

A&A'smommy replied: (((((BIG HUGS))))) I'm SO sorry Jess!! I think you need to rethink your relationship with him. He sounds a LOT like my ex like a big JERK! ((((HUGS))) Jess your really do deserve better!! If you need to talk to anyone I'm here I have msn and yahoo messenger!

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: Jess, I really hope things work out for YOU!!! I hope you can find someone that treats you the way you deserve to be treated!! Good Luck!!

NummyMommy replied:
I couldn't have said it better.....so I didn't

3xsthefun replied: Jess,

I'm so sorry you are going through this again. I don't have much to add except I agree with Brianne.

luvbug00 replied:


I agree 100% my P&PT are with you.

JessC replied: Thank you everyone, its just soooooooo hard when we are going on to 5 years being together. (Almost)

Im gonna figure out something, I dont know what yet though.

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: