Ok...I'm freaking a little....

MyLuvBugs wrote: I know that we've all discussed this recently, but I've this dream twice now and I'm freaking out b/c I've had dreams come true in the past.

Basically, I've dremt that I have a miscarriage. And I'm so scared that it might come true. I've had this feeling in my heart that I shouldn't become attached to this baby, and I don't know why. I'm SOOOOO excited to be PG and I don't want to loose this baby, but I just can't shake this feeling. To add to it, these dreams are so realistic that they actually scare me into thinking that there IS something wrong with the baby.

Please tell me that I'm just being rediculous and hormonal, and that it will all be ok.

MyBrownEyedBoy replied: I had dreams like that up until I had Logan. I think they are normal, your mind is telling you not to get attached and your dreams are reflecting that. Please try not to worry.

ammommy replied: I was terrified with Alec until the day he was born healthy because of my history with pregnancies. Chalk it up to hormones and try not to stress too much about it

PrairieMom replied: I have been having scary dreams about this baby too. In the beginning mine were about miscarriges, and they would scare me so bad. you are very close to that 12 week mark. After that your chances of M/C go way down. Hang in there. Everything will be okay. It is normal to worry about the well being of your children, even those that haven't been born yet.

amymom replied:
Very true, very true.

You have alot of stress at home now and it is just coming out in your dreams. Please don't worry, everything will be ok. I am praying for you and your baby.

gr33n3y3z replied: I hear you dream what you fear
You will be fine

A&A'smommy replied: I'm sure you are going to be okay I worried the entire time I was pregnant with Alyssa until I got to my last trimester and then I felt her move all the time so thats why I didn't then. I think its pretty normal to worry, just try to not think about it and I'm sure you and your baby are going to be just fine!!!

kayla's mama replied: I'm sure your ok. I had those dreams with Kayla. I didn't have a since of peace about me until I felt her move. After that I was finally attached to the pg, prior I wasn't. Stress plays havoc on us in different ways. Try not to stress to much

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied:
ITA! I had so many dreams when PG with Wil that I was going to kill him. For this one, I've had just strange dreams, but nothing in particular about the baby so far. I think it's normal. You will be fine!! It's all hormones IMO.

MyLuvBugs replied:
It makes me feel better that you've had these same type of dreams. I know that sounds weird, but it does help. Thank you.

MyLuvBugs replied: Thank you all so much. You're probably right. The stress of DH not having a job soon, and us possibly moving is probably affecting me. And I do fear MC very much, so that's probably affecting me also. I just want to hear the heart beating and feel this kiddo move so badly. I think that will settle my mind emensely. KWIM?

akelly replied: I had my first dream like that for the first time last night, so I know how you feel! Only, in my case...it was my own fault! I watched a soap opera yesterday afternoon in which it happened to a character....can you say STUPID? What was I thinking...as soon as I knew what was happening, I should have switched over the "A Baby Story".

And yes, hearing the heartbeat will definately put your mind at ease!

Amy