Okay.. I need advice.. I am freaking out

TANNER'S MOM wrote: Well my boss was nice enough to announce a fast wedding..lol He sent me an email today that said I will be getting married next Friday.. EVENING wedding.
Semi Formal.. He is wearing a suit.. not tux but she is wearing a formal gown.

We live in rural Arkansas.. so I don't want to look like a fashion model.

But I don't have a nice dress to wear. I don't really wear dresses much.. I got discouraged today because I couldn't find what I wanted. I am so large chested that when I buy a dress that will zip over my boobs.. then it looks like a tent that falls.. you know. SO, I don't think a dress is the way to go.

I went resale shopping.. and I found this suit for $3.50 lol And it is short sleeved.. and almost light blue.. I know that usually says spring.. but do you think with the right acc. I can make this work for a semi formal evening wedding.

I want to maybe get a silver cami for under.. when I say silver I don't mean GRANDMA silver.. I mean the pretty metalics that are almost pastel this season.. and shoes to match.. I am thinking if I find a nice scarf to run down my lapel that will had to the formal side of it.. and of course some nice fake jewerly..lol

Think I can pull this off and look nice or not. I would love not to even go.. but since it is my boss.. and I work in close contact with him and I do want further employment and nice raises..lol

TANNER'S MOM replied: This one is kinda blurry but a 7 year old took it..lol

amymom replied: i like it. and the price is right
Seriously the way you describe the accesories it sounds great. I think it will look wonderful. Have a good time and take pictures.

aspenblue1 replied: Sounds great have a wonderful time

My3LilMonkeys replied: I think it sounds just perfect w/the silver camisole and a nice scarf.

Have a great time!

moped replied: OK...........................I would for sure go with a dark cami under it because of the time of year and a subtle fake jewleery piece..................and dark (black) pointed tall shoes to go with the cami!!!!

But you are looking fabulous - sooooo great Mel....I smiled when I saw your pic - that suit must only be a size 10!!!!!

LOVE YOU

I consider myself a bit of a clothing whore and my 2 freinds I am drinking with agree...............

OR.............you could go with a nice long black skirt with those tall pointy shoes and a nice shirt in your favorite color too...................LOL.......sorry I am babbling

TANNER'S MOM replied: Jen.. you are cracking me up..lol

I love the black underneath.. but I thought it took away from the suit.. but if you think it would work.. believe me I would try it.. Black is my color.. it makes my big boobies look smaller.. I would love black..lolol

And I thank you for the size 10 comment.. it is actually a 12.. the pants fit nice.. but I can't actually button the jacket.. it has to stay open..lol
The last time I went and bougth pants they were a 17/18 so I am thrilled..lolol

Thanks Jen..

And Cheers to the girls...much love !

Hillbilly Housewife replied: I thin it looks right with a dark cami.

And you look great!

coasterqueen replied: DARN GIRL! That outfit actually looks too loose on you! I like it though and think it would work beautifully.

There's NO WAY you can weigh more than me. You are looking so skinny! Ok, now I feel very very fat. Not that I want you to be fat-ter than me.

TANNER'S MOM replied:
Karen... I am a ton larger than you..

When I saw you in that tunic and broomstick skirt I was soo jealous of you.. You looked about as wide as thumble.. and I was so jealous..lol

You have a nice waist and I noticed it..lolol

Oh and your face is so much thinner than mine..

I am wide though.. and heavier chested than you. The doctor actually told me .. they can weigh 30lbs.. can you believe that..lol I almost died. lolol

Karen.. I would like us to be the same.. you know you can have a body like Sandra Bullock and I will be Julia Roberts...lol

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: I would go with the silver idea and maybe find a scarf (or pashmina which would be a bit thicker for winter) with some black in it. But personally, I don't care for black with such a soft color. I really like your idea!! Like snowflake colors. White can actually work in the winter too if you find the right white and textures. Add some fake bling bling!! Pretty!

The pants are pretty baggy on you Mel!! So yes, I think you can fit into a 10! You look great!

Maddie&EthansMom replied: DANG!!!! You are looking HOT, Mel!!!

I love that suit on you! I think it works perfectly. I will want a pic when you are all dressed up at the wedding!

btw-I really believe that about the boobs weighing so much.

coasterqueen replied:
You are too too kind Mel.

And I do believe boobs weigh a lot and even more when nursing.