On strike! - vent

MoonMama wrote: I am officially on strike! Every morning I get up and actually cook DH breakfast. Something I never got to do when I was working since I had to be to work by 7 am, and the drive was 30-40 minutes. He loved it and was so happy and appreciative at first. But for the last week or so all he does is whine about it. Its not right, I don't like this (uh since when?), the toast to too done or not done enough, etc. you name is he's whined about it. This morning was the straw that broke the camels back! He was eating his breakfast (toast, beacon, eggs with cheese and hash browns), I was thinking wow how nice thank god he's not whining about something. NOPE! He sat there and watched me make apple juice then asked by to make orange! And he definitely saw me making the apple! ORANGE!!!!! WHAT IN THE FRIGGIN HECK?!?!? What is he 4 now? That was un-called for. No, will you please make orange, or honey before you make up the apple would you mind making orange instead! "I want orange juice will you make that?" NO NO NO! I wont make you d&%n orange make it youself! And while your at it make your own breakfast too. Sorry I am so mad at DH right now. this was just the one that sent me over the edge.

coasterqueen replied: I wish I had something to say to make you feel better. IMO your DH should feel VERY lucky that he has someone to make it for him. I only make the kids breakfast when needed and 3/4 the time DH is done getting ready be4 me and so he does it. On the weekends, IF I want breakfast Dh cooks it for me. I rarely ever offer to make breakfast for him.

mckayleesmom replied: Ah heck no...You seriously fresh squeeze him juice? Your crazy girl . Tomorow...I would sleep in. If he asks you if you are making his breakfast...just say "no, Im pretty sure you can handle it since I don't do it the way you like anyways. This works better for both of us since you do everything so perfectly". And then go back to .




HA HA....My husband always jokes and tells me that he is going to start making him breakfast. I only cook breakfast on the weekends. I just laughed at him and told him that he should have put that on my wife application before we got married because it isn't in my job description...

MoonMama replied:
No, I open the can and mix it. But I have to defrost it too! Kidding. I no easy to do. But I think it was more the fact he's been such an a&^ that it made me so mad.

C&K*s Mommie replied: Have you told him that you feel unappreciated by his complaints and whines?

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mom2my2cuties replied: Please tell me you threw the juice at him???

Sorry he's being a jerk about it - I get up and prepare my guys lunch about half of the time - and occasionally breakfast - but with a 2 year old in the house it isn't often. He should be extremely thankful he has you!

TheOaf66 replied: I am just wondering why do you make him breakfast? I am pretty sure he could handle that task himself but that is just me?

MoonMama replied:
Just to be a nice since Braed isn't here yet and I'm a SAHM already. And really I love doing it for him and I don't mind at all usually.

Nicole...I have, and he totally does NOT get it threw his head at all.

Tish I so should have!

holley79 replied: Man you are the bomb. If I had someone to make me breakfast like that every morning I would weigh a ton. But I would also be very appreciative. Don't make him breakfast for a while and see what happens then. Top it off with sleeping in.

TANNER'S MOM replied: Well my family feels thrilled to get anything besides ceral even on the weekends. When my Dh gets anykind of breakfast made for him he really appreciates it. Sunday morning..everyone wanted pancakes so I made them.. but Dh wanted some eggs.. and said he would make them b/c it was different then what I was cooking. I said 3 eggs no big deal and I cooked them..he bragged all day on those 3 eggs I made him..lol
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In the morning .. hand him a gallon of milk and some cornflakes..tell him you are tired and sleep in.

When you dont do it all the time.. he will appreciate it more girl!

mom2my2cuties replied:
I would have

CantWait replied: When I make bacon and eggs during the week, it's special. Your dh should be so lucky....Sorry he's being an a**. Talk to him, and hopefully he smartens up.

MoonMama replied: