Sad News...will be MIA.

mummy2girls wrote: Not sure for how long or if im able to come back that much anymore. I am so depressed right now. My financial situation is so bad right now. I am not sure what the heck happened but Jenna is down to her last 2 pull ups, she needs milk really badly, and my car needs to be gassed up and im behind 300 bucks in my cable/internet bill. My power i owe 100 and myphone...who the heck knows. I am sitting here with 20 bucks to my name and i dont get paid for another 12 days:(

I am so scared right now. And i got some bad news at work. And pretty much my raise i got goes back down and i get 200 less a month come september. Long ugly story with that. but to make it short...I got my job through a agnecy that i have been with for so long. and the family is who decided to give me the 200 dollar raise i got a few months back. but that job ends in september and i will be placed with a new family. so the agency can only pay me what i was getting before my raise. Because it was the family who decided to give me the raise it doesnt mean ill get the same amount with my next position:(

I am sorry guys....

TLCDAD and MommytoAshley if you want you may want to replace me with different moderators in the forums im in now. because im not sure when or if i can come back. I sometimes log on at work but who knows if i can that much. and you may need someone who is more online to be mods I understand. I wont be mad if i am replaced.

I right now just need to get my life in order and figure out what the heck im gojng to do financially!

Plus I have to deal with Jennas dad who is so much of an butt! I cant deal with how he is treating me emotionally! Remember back when i said he got me a dvd camera for christmas.. Well he did but he turned around today and said its not mine its his sisters. So my present was taken away. I asked what he meant by its not mine and he said it never really was mine. But because he was suppose to get me a gift because he picked my name out of a hat he didnt want me to feel bad to be giftless. Oh well!

Ill miss you all!

mammag replied: That is sad. I hope you can get things worked out soon....I've been there and it really sucks. You will be in my prayers. We will all miss you and your sweet Jenna stories.

Boys r us replied: Oh Shelly, I'm so sorry that you're going through all of this! Stay strong and YOU WILL MAKE IT THROUGH THIS! I know it seems like a lot of bombshells dropped on you right now, but September is a good ways off and you have plenty of time to get your finances straight and start saving before that extra $200 gets taken back. Is there any way that the family you're with can request to keep you? I would think that would go a long ways with the agency in their decision.

momof2girls replied: I am sorry! I hope things get better for you
You are a very strong person, you will get through this!!!
You will be missed!!

coasterqueen replied: Oh Shelley I'm so sorry you are going through this. My pt's will be with you that everything gets straigtened out fast and you can come back soon.

MomToMany replied: Oh NO!!! I'm so sorry your situation is so awful right now. We will surely miss you Shelly!! I hope you can get it all straightened out real soon, so you can come back!!!

Kirstenmumof3 replied: OH Shelly, I'm so sorry all this is happening to you! Try not to worry about your finances until september when you need too. Try to just concentrate on getting caught up on your bills until then. I know you had a lot of hopes for these up coming months, try not to get discouraged, things will get better! I know that's hard to hear right now, but I promise you, things will get better! This is just a setback! We're all here for you and we will miss you like crazy! So keep posting when you can!

MommyToAshley replied: Oh Shelly, sweetie, I am so sorry things are so rough for you right now. It will get better, hang in there!

I will miss you, but take the time you need to get things worked out. There will always be a mod spot for you here.

You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

booey2 replied: Bigs hugs, prayers and positive thoughts coming your way. I am soo sorry that this is all happening to right now. You will definitely be missed. Take care and check in when you can. I know this is much, but I always believed that in my faith the higher power never gives us what we can not handle. So you too will get thru this.

ediep replied: Oh, that rally stinks! I am so sorry that you have to deal with this. I'm sure you will get it straightened out. Like everyone said, September is a long way off, try not to focus on the $200 now.

Sending P&PT!!!

TANNER'S MOM replied: Oh Honey I am so sorry. I remember being where you are. A single parent and sole provider. It is hard. I am sorry you are having these worries. I will be thinking of you and Jenna.

Thoughts, prayers and lots of love coming your way!

Mel

Kaitlin'smom replied: oh shelly I am so sorry I wish I could do something that would help

I will miss you and jenna so much, please if there is anything I can do e-mail me.

Come back when you can, you will be missed

Mommy2BAK replied: Oh SHelly, that is just awful. I hope you can get things figured out. Please come back soon!

jcc64 replied: I'm very sorry things are so rough for you right now, Shelley. I know it's hard not to get depressed when your finances are such a mess, but try to remember- your little girl is healthy, you're healthy, and in the end, that's what's most important. Another opportunity may be right around the corner for you- in the meantime, we'll be thinking about you here.

DansMom replied: I'm sorry things are so rough. Aron's behavior is unbelievable. I hope things turn around for you soon.

5littleladies replied: I'm so sorry things are so tough right now Shelly. Stay strong and don't give up. September is quite a ways away and I'm sure you can come up with something before then. Good luck and come back soon!

jem0622 replied: I am sorry that you are having a tough time. I'd encourage you to file for assistance because you are really trying on your own and having a tough time still. You could do away with cable and get a pay as you go phone. This too shall pass. You have lots of time to find new work. You have your health and your healthy beautiful daughter. Everything will work itself out. Don't get sucked down by the tough spots but percervere (sp) and challenge yourself to make it through. You can do this!

HUGS

A&A'smommy replied: OH Shelly I am SO sorry things are rough for you right now, I KNOW how scared you are!! I hope that things will pick up for you (((BIG HUGS))) also if you want to keep in touch I will give you my email address and we can exchange snail mail addresses. I will miss you SO much but please do what you have to do! ((BIGGER HUGS)))

aspenblue1 replied: Shelly I am so sorry all this is happening. Come back when you can we will miss you.

party-of-six replied: HUGS

Lollie replied: Oh Shelly,Im so sorry for what you are going through right now and I cant imagine how you must be feeling with all these problems!!

I will be praying that things make a positive change for you soon!!

~HUGS~

~Roo'sMama~ replied: I'm sorry you're going through a hard time right now! I hope it all settles down and you can come back soon!

My2Beauties replied: I am really sorry to hear you are having a tough time financially right now!!! ITA with the others, September is far off and hopefully you can get things straightened out by then, we'll miss you but take the time you need to get things straightened out! Love ya lots!

kimberley replied: (((Shelly))) i am so sorry for all you are going through. lots of P&PT coming your way. offer still stands to come to toronto.

mom89 replied: I'm so sorry your going through this
I hope theres a lite at the end of the tunnel. Hang in there!!

akbutterfly83 replied: I'm so sorry you are going threw this... but it will get better..... everyone is right, September is a ways away.....

Try pay off what you can... and even cut off what you can do with out..... I know it's hard... I was going threw something like this with my sister.... My dad was really sick in the hospitel, and my step-mom wouldn't touch my sister...... so for the first two years I raised her, payed for everything.... and all the other kids stuff too... I was the oldest and was going to school part time, cause I had to work..... I was only 14 then..... with 4 sisters and 2 brothers..... it was hard....

But try cut out what you don't need.... like for me and my husbend we don't have cable.... we just watch movies on dvd or vhs..... it's cheeper in the long run.... even though we don't get much selection..... but saves us money.... that we can spend on our son......

I hope everything get's better for you, and come back when you can.......

We all will miss you..... you are in all our t&p.........

chloe&tysmommy replied: I am so sorry you are going through such a rough time right now...but give it time and things will start looking up for you!!! We will miss you but we will be here when you come back!!!

Hang in there!!!

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Oh hun! Keep your chin up, k? You will make it through this. I've been there and it is rough, but we all make it through.

3boys4me replied: I am so sorry things are so tough right now. I hope everything picks up soon.

3_call_me_mama replied: Hugs to you shelley and Jenna. I'll miss you and especially your cute Jenna stories... she's a cutie and a ham! Hope to see you back real soon..... take care of yourself adn email me or pm if you just need an ear.

loveydad replied: I'm so sorry you're going through this tough time Shelly!

kileyjae replied: I am so sorry you are going through this.

Been there...done that. Robbing Peter to pay Paul..except that Peter is too poor to rob!

I had to leave a job I absolutely loved, but low-paying, for a so-so job but paid almost triple to what I was making.

It does get better....ten years ago I was *this close* to being homeless with a 2 year old, now I own (paid off in cash) a mobile home (ok..not a house...but, NO mortgage!) and have a computer and electricity every month.

I hope things get better for you...sending prayers.