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Silence... - Was that a pin drop I just heard????


Boys r us wrote: Not joking and it's driving me up the FREAKING WALL!!!!!

Okay..I'll start from the beginning!

Friday was one of my best friend's birthday. She lives with one of my other best friend's and they had planned this whole huge party. We've known about it for 2 months now. Rick thinks very highly of both of these girls and has no problems with either of them, he thinks their great!
Well, Friday rolls around, I took the day off b/c I had so much to do to help get ready for this party. so I'm baking all day and running errands. I finished most of it around 2 and said to Rick..who mind you ISN'T WORKING and hasn't for THREE WEEKS b/c he wanted TIME OFF BETWEEN JOBS! So I had a POUNDING MIGRAINE and I said to him, Rick, I'm going to take some meds and take a 30 minute nap to sleep this thing off so I can enjoy myself tonight. Indicating...watch THE KID!
Well, I get in the bed and before I can even shut my eyes..he and braedon are in the bed with me and Brae is bouncing on my head!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was so P*SSED! All I wanted was 30 minutes sleep and he couldn't do that for me???

To top it off, I looked over at him and he was DEAD ASLEEP! I guess all of the playing on the stock market online for the last 3 weeks has really worn him out mad.gif

Finally, I just got up b/c Braedon wasn't going to sleep, so that meant I wasn't. I got ready for the party, took a shower did my makeup and hair..all of that..HE WAS STILL SLEEPING!

Earlier in the week, we'd made arrangements for MIL to watch Braedon all night and I was going to drop him off at her house, which is right down the street from where the party was and then since MIL had to be at work at 9am, I was going to spend the night at my friend's and pick him up at 8am saturday morning. Rick was going to meet me at the party and then go back home friday night b/c he was going to get up early and do some stuff sat.
So anyhow, he finally got out of the bed and I was getting Brae dressed and his clothes packed for MIL's house. I told Rick, "I need you to drop braedon off at your mom's on YOUR way to the party tonight, I don't have time, I still have to go pick up Hillary's present before I go over there" and he said "NO" That's it, just, No, nothing more.
WTF?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

I was so furious at this point that I wanted to slap him, but I just said, OOOOKAY! and nothing more, I didn't want to argue, my head hurt so bad that I couldn't even think straight, much less muster up the strength for a fight! So I got Braedon ready and packed up the car with all of the food and stuff for the party and left..Rick didn't tell me or braedon goodbye!
What a jerk!

So then after I'd been driving for about 20 minutes, he called me and said, "I'm not coming tonight" I was like WHAT???? and he said.."after the way you've been treating me" WHAT ????

He said after he got up from his nap I was talking to him in a hateful tone and had a pissed off look on my face! LOL
Uhh yeah!

So I said, "It's HILLARY'S BIRTHDAY PARTY"..and he replied, "It's just a birthday party"

So, I said..okie dokie..let it go and went on about my night..I only had to answer the question,"where's Rick at?" about 40 times from different people.

So I was pissed, but I must say, I had an awesome time at the party biggrin.gif
The next day, I didn't have much to say to him, plus he wasn't home all day, he was with my brother, so that helped..then my family came over to watch football playoffs..so we didn't have to speak at all. Sunday, my parents called and asked us if we wanted to go to breakfast with them, so we went and again..there was so much chatter among everyone as a whole that Rick and I didn't have to speak, when we got home from breakfast, he said.."we're supposed to be at my moms at 1pm for my Dad's birthday party" i didn't really respond...then when he was done getting ready I was laying on the bed and he said, "what are you doing? we've got to go" I said.."Oh I'm not going, IT'S JUST A BIRTHDAY PARTY!"

Ha...how do ya like THAT?? Jerkface!

So he WAS LIVID and he took the kids and went to the party without me! Ha ha ha
When he came home he wouldn't speak..I was fine, over it all..all I wanted was a little revenge and I got it!
I tried to "make up with him" when we got in bed sunday night and he basically told me to keep my hands to myself and leave him alone! SOOoooooo...yeah..well, it's wednesday morning and we still haven't spoken!
I'm not about to try to make up again..it's all in his court, I tried to make it better, he declined..so it's up to him! I swallowed my pride once in order to get this behind us, I WON'T do it again!






TANNER'S MOM replied: Well, I see your point. I would've been angry too. But since this has been going on for so many days, it might be time to call it quits and meet in the middle.

I hope you make up and have something wonderful to post on the other board!

Kaitlin'smom replied: ohmy.gif oh boy eeekkkk sheesh I can think of anything else to say right now

A&A'smommy replied: wow Nichole that isn't good! I would DEFINITLY try to make up with him or at least have a talk about it. (((HUGS))) I hope you guys fix your problem wink.gif

ediep replied: yikes!!!

Good Luck!!!

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Oh boy! I've been there! I hope you guys are able to communicate about this. I'm sorry you are having an argument. I think maybe there is just a lot of un-needed stress in both of your lives and it came to a head. Rick sounds JUST like Scotty. He always tries to put it off on me. And all that crap about "I dont' like the way you were treating me" He says that ALL The time. rolleyes.gif

You'll get past this. grouphug.gif

kimberley replied: yikes! hope things settle down and that he makes up with you. grouphug.gif

Kirstenmumof3 replied: grouphug.gif I'm sorry you and your DH are having problems. I don't know what to say. I hope that eventually things will get resolved! grouphug.gif

Boys r us replied: Well, last night I guess he got tired of the silence, himself!

He said, "you can't stay pissed at me forever..." and I just looked at him like WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? and said, "Correct me if I'm wrong, but I TRIED to make up with you on sunday night and you wanted no part of it..so the ball has been in your court!"

Anyhow, he said he was sorry for being such a jerk and then well..yeah..and it was GOOD! Almost worth fighting for..lol

MomToMany replied: thumb.gif rolling_smile.gif LOL, glad you guys made up! I hate the tension of all that.

coasterqueen replied: biggrin.gif Glad you two made up.

A&A'smommy replied: I'm glad ya'll made up!! thumb.gif thumb.gif

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Oh good! wub.gif I was so sad for you. I knew you would make up eventually.


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