Sorry.... I need to Vent... - How stupid can people be.....?
akbutterfly83 wrote: Well last week a guy in dh squad got caught smoking weed, and is now getting kicked our, then this weekend.... 2 others got DUI's goining home from the supper bowl partys....
Well because of their stupidity, the whole squad has to work late all week.... and been having harsh pt/gym.... and they have to show up on Sat. @ 5am, in their Blues, to get yelled @ as a group, from the big dog.....
Then to top it all off, the changed dh shift, from 8am-4pm too, 9pm-9am.... until he get's out.... so me and Mason have to sleep alone.... and around our apartment complex, there have been a few robberys.... so I don't like that idea....
Thanks for listening everyone...
moped replied: Oh YUKKY - i am sorry to hear that - I know how you feel about being alone at night - try not to think about it!
Kaitlin'smom replied: man why do some peole have to ruin things for everyone. how rude. Sorry your having to deal with this, its terribel you get a few bad apples and they get everyone in trouble 
kimberley replied: oh no! how awful a few dumb guys have to ruin things for everyone  . sorry that happened. is there security where you live? is there someone you can talk to that might change DH's shift back so you and the baby aren't alone or have someone keep watch? i am sure everything will be alright 
akbutterfly83 replied: They just hierd a securtity gard.... so I hope that helps....
No there isn't anyone we can talk to.....he has to keep the new shift until he get's out.... April 15th.... but me and baby are leaving next month.... across the US... from Va to Alaska......
So I was hoping we have more time to spend with him.... well just have too see how this works.....
Plus him working nights is gunna take out of my computer time on here in the Day.... I'll get morrnings for a few hours while he's sleeping.... then again around dinner, then after he goes to work... late @ night..... so I'll get about 3 maybe 4 hours total to chat with you guys.....
~Roo'sMama~ replied: Oh no that's awful!  I'm sorry you're dh has to suffer from their stupidity!
I know what you mean about the working nights thing... dh and I used to both work nights and when we switched to days he got to switch a few weeks before I did and it was awful. I hope you can still squeeze in some time with your dh before you leave for Alaska!
akbutterfly83 replied: Thanks everyone for listening to my vent.....
A&A'smommy replied: UGH I'm sorry!!! I know stupid guys like that, that joined the military I thought it would straighten them out I was wrong!
akbutterfly83 replied: well as you know... dh was suposto start nights last night....
well we went on base to get something to eat before my dr apointment yesterday.... and ran in too dh's co-worker.... and he said dh was suposto be in to work today...  and that he wasn't suposto start nights until wednsday..... so that was news to us..... and that he was gunna get tuesday (today) off..... so he called his boss and asked.... well his boss said I will call you back..... so when we got done with my apointment his boss called back.... no he wasn't getting today off and was told to come in today and that he would start nights on wednsday....
So he went in today......
Well when he came home for lunch he told me that now they arn't switching him to nights.....
WTH????? what a run around....... 
mckayleesmom replied: I was going to respond to your post the other day and tell you not to worry about it cause they always pull that stuff in the military..Someone gets in trouble and some big wig tries to throw his wieght around and change rules to prove he has power,,but most of the time it never gets very far and they always change back. They do this at dh's office every other week.
A&A'smommy replied: They need to make up their minds!!! I HATE nights my dh worked a 3-11 shift starting a week after we got married until 5 (wow) months ago and now he works normal hours. Anyway every so often he would work the 11-7 shift and that was even worse!!! I hope they get everything straigtened out!!!
akbutterfly83 replied: GRRRRR
DH came home from work last night and told me now they wanna start him on nights again, starting next week.....
this is getting me frustrated..... u wish they would make up their minds.....
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