Test was another BFN - No April's Fool joke unfortunatly.

megsmommie wrote: Well ladies, today was finally the day I could test. And it was negative like it always is. So, after a brash decision, I have chosen to give up. I am tired now, depressed, jealous of those who have conceived, and in denial.
I think I will stick around here just in case I have a change of heart, or it magically happens, but as for me TTC, I give up.
Off to wallow in my own self pity for a while. Lol- Have a good day, check in with ya'll later.

Boys r us replied: Oh honey, I'm so sorry!! I know how hard it is to want a baby so bad and not have it happen right away.
I don't know how long you've been trying..but if a baby is what you want then don't give up!!!

aspenblue1 replied: I am so sorry.

2tikes_tootired replied: Ohh! I'm so sorry

Lily replied: I'm really sorry this is happening to you. It's heartbreaking I know. One of my bestfriends tried and tried and it wasn't until she gave up completely that it finally happened. But she's still having a hard time because of many past miscarriages. We're praying everyday for her and the little baby. I will pray for you that God will let it happen.

kimberley replied: i am so sorry

coasterqueen replied: Aww sweetie, I am so sorry.

I, too, had a friend who tried and tried for years, tried every method..well she decided to just give up and guess what happened? She got pg! So maybe just have fun with your husband and forgot about charting, etc, for awhile and who knows

5littleladies replied: I am soo sorry!! I agree with Karen, stop trying and just relax. Sometimes the stress of trying in itself can prevent it from happening. I hope it happens for you soon.

A&A'smommy replied: Maybe if you don't try you will conceive I have heard of lots of ladies that try and try and don't get pg, but then as soon as they stop bam they are pregnant. I'm sorry it didn't say what you wanted it to say ((((BIG HUGS))))

jem0622 replied: Ahem...um your siggy says you shouldn't be testing until April 4. Today is April 1. SO don't throw in the towel. ITA with the posts that when you aren't TTC is when it happens. Very true. And so many ladies on my multiple loss board successfully conceived when they had their guard down and weren't being so fanatical. It just happened when it was time.

MommyToAshley replied: ((((HUGS))) I am sorry, but hang in there. It will happen when you least expect it. I agree that all the stress of ttc could be your problem. Sending lots of baby dust your way!!!

Elle replied: Oh, honey, I'm really sorry
I agree with those who said that stress can prevent you from getting pregnant. Maybe if you don't think about it and continue to have fun with your DH you'll have a surprise! Positive thoughts going your way!

CantWait replied: I'm so sorry it didn't work out for ya. Maybe if ya just relax and have fun it'll come. I bet you in no time when you're least expecting it

beckamouse replied: i agree with the whole stress playing a key role in it. besides, "creating a child" should be fun. not to sound crude but thats what got me "doing it" in the first place. thats what got me my little miracle. by just having fun with my dh. so just....kick back relax and have fun. *hugs*