The good and bad of reunion sites

luvmykids wrote: The good side is you can find old friends and catch up with people ...

The bad side is crazy boys you never liked and who drove you crazy can find and *try* to catch up with you ...one in particular has done just that and can't he forget my name already? Isn't 16 years long enough to get over being whacko? Would you honestly try to get in touch with someone who made it clear that you scared them?

I know I might sound mean but good Lord this is a guy who's mere name in my inbox can still give me the heebie jeebies.

ilovemybaby replied: Ewww I hope he isn't stalking you. I would get a restraining order LOL

luvmykids replied: He was always harmless, just creeped me out, kwim?

Edward's Mommy replied:
I never had guys like that, but some of the guys I've liked thought I was like that when I wasn't! They used to think I stalked them and I didn't even know what classes they had!

ilovemybaby replied: Yeah. There was a guy in highschool that kept asking me out and I didn't like him. He was just not my type. But he kept bugging me so much that I gave in and said yes.

Sadly, he died from cancer about 1 1/2 years ago and apparently he told his dad when he was in hospital that he wished he could have seen me and said goodbye. I know he wasn't over me. That was pretty freaky. He visited me at work when I was pregnant not long before my bday and said he wanted to take me out to dinner. And he knew I was engaged to Paul. That was the last time I saw him. Then I got an email from one of my friends telling me that he died. He was only 26.

Not saying you should get in contact with him... just had to mention that because I was talking about him and don't want to disrespect the dead KWIM?

luvmykids replied:
Gotcha.

Similar with this guy, he didn't even go to my school but we ended up at the same college and he was still asking and I said yes, thinking I'd just be a horrible date and he'd stop and that was the waaaaay wrong thing to do! Since then he's found me at 3 employers and when we lived in another town I bumped into him a few times and friends are always telling me that he's the one who filled them in on me! Where he gets his info I still don't know but it never fails, he always asks if I'm still married and if I remember our "fun times" I guess his idea of having fun is having a girl slam a dorm door in your face and yell "I CANT STAND THAT GUY".

luvbug00 replied: I tried classmates and man i didn't see one person on that thing that I could acsess without paying $19.95 KWIM? so Now on myspace people are appering from nowhere. it's wierd.. I hope you dude stops freking you out though I can't stand people like that especially when you try to be nice and they keep pushing..

ilovemybaby replied: LOL I totally know what you mean. I called the cops on this guy for harassment (he was pressuring me to have sex and I said no and he didn't want to listen) and told them that he had drugs (because that is what he told me) at his house and they ransacked his house. Then he was all pissed off with me because I told them and they made a huge mess.

And he still didn't get the message.

MommyToAshley replied: That is creepy. Does he know you are married? Maybe your DH should say something to him.

luvmykids replied:
He knows, and asked about DH. I'm not going to answer and hopefully he'll just go away. This guy pops up every few years for some reason, last time it was right before the twins so maybe it will be another 4 years before I hear from him again.

Brias3 replied: Yuck! Talk about the guy who can't take a straight answer! Is there a way to block him from contacting you on the site? Maybe then he'd get the picture a bit?

luvmykids replied:
I'm just going to take myself off, if I can. I've gotten in touch with all the people I wanted to. It sounds stupid but I was looking for old friends and never realized there may be people looking for me!

C&K*s Mommie replied: I hope you can accompish getting off that website, and away from creepies like that.