Things are finally calming down...

MyBabeMaddie wrote: I've been soo crazy busy since I've moved into my mom's house - She gave Maddie and me her room and took the small room upstairs - We just finished my/Maddie's room yesterday and I LOVE IT! Not enough room for both of our stuff but we will make-do. I decided not to put her crib back up since she doesn't sleep in it anyways - I've been putting her in the pack and play when I can but she is mostly sleeping with me... I'm going to get her one of those toddler beds when I get some $$$ from the sperm donor (Adam)...

Anyways, It's driving my nuts that he is like a total bum/scum of the earth - He is living with his mom so she is now the b*tch and does all the cooking/cleaning for him - She lets him sleep til noon everyday cause he doesn't have a job and is just sitting around collecting unemployment - WHICH HE ISN'T GIVING ME ANY MONEY RIGHT NOW GRRRRRRRRRR--- I hate his family though... his mom is a P.O.S.... Shes a teacher and is off for the summer and doesn't want Madison over because "it inconveniences her" That woman has major problems - If having your granddaughter over for a few hours is an inconvenience then you can go to hell. (sorry this subject infuriates me) I've contacted my cousin whos an attorney to help me go about changing her last name but thats on the bottom of my list of priorities.. I'll have to post some pics of our new room....

Anyways, I've missed everyone and hopefully now that i'm unpacked and somewhat settled I'll be on more.

gr33n3y3z replied:

Why is he out of jail?

indywndy_04 replied:
I think he got out on bond, then they had a hearing. He doesn't have to stay in jail from what I understand, but I could be wrong.

I am sooo glad you are at your moms and things are settleing down for you. Heck with him and what he does...ya know, let the loser sleep 'til noon...who cares, he will always be in that position until he grows up. But, if you need to....get child support put through the courts that way they will pull it out first before he gets his unemployment money. hee hee...I have had to do this! Call DHR / Child support services in your area and they will help you get registered.

holley79 replied:
He's probably out on PTR (Pretrial Release) if it is anything like here.

I'm glad you are getting settled in with your mom.

MyBrownEyedBoy replied: Welcome back, Sarah. I'd get your cousin on the child support issue before the name change. Adam needs to be supporting his daughter. Period, end of story.

luvbug00 replied: Glad to hear your are moving forward. Now contact that attorney and take him for all he's worth!

Boo&BugsMom replied: His mom must be a really horrible teacher if that is the attitude she has towards her own grandchild. AND...let her son mooch like that? She sounds like an enabler. Perhaps it's a blessing in disguise. That way you don't have to have anything to do with his side of the family. Glad to hear you are moving on to better things and got your tail out of there.

luvmykids replied: Glad you guys are settled in, I hope you can get things moving with child support, etc.

Mommy2BAK replied: I'm glad to hear that you and Maddie are moving on with your lives. Sorry your ex has to be such a pain in your butt.

Cece00 replied: You need to set up child support before anything else. Without an order, he legally is not required to give you a penny and can not be considered a "deadbeat". You have to make the first move.

MyBabeMaddie replied:
He was in jail from June 1-7th we had a hearing that day and the judge decreased his charges from simple assault and harrassment to just harrassment and he didnt even make him go to anger management or anything...

MyBabeMaddie replied:
She is such a jerk - She puts her job before anything like last summer when I was pregnant she wouldn't tell anyone at work that she was going to be a grandma she said she could lose her job cause adam and i weren't married.

Brias3 replied: Glad to hear you're moving on. It's the best thing for you and Maddie!

Hope that pain in the wazoo leaves you alone and pays up for his child.

Keep us posted....and can't wait to see pics of your new accomodations!!

Brias3 replied:

Sounds like the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree here

How sad to feel that way about your GRANDCHILD!

CantWait replied: Talk about getting off with a slap on the wrist. Glad you're moving on and settled in.

lovemy2 replied: I am glad you are getting settled - keep taking care of yourself and that little girl - I am very proud of you.

gr33n3y3z replied:
that sucks hun I'm so sorry
Watch your back always

And sorry about the inlaw woman she doesnt deserve to be in your childs life nor does the x move on with out them and get the support as mentioned.