This can't be healthy - We need major prayers

CantWait wrote: I'm by far not a religious person, but I consider myself faithful, right now whatever religion and faith you have, if you could spread of it our way I'd be very grateful.

I think this is our last shot. Ron and I had a discussion over lunch yesterday that he didn't want to try a third time because he is still very hurt from the last m/c, and he didn't want to feel that pain again. I had a feeling it was too late because I've been having major hot flashes and feeling nauseous when travelling the METRO in the morning. Right now besides that I feel fine, so I'm scared already.

The last couple days I've been doing heavy lifting and on the weekend had a few drinks with friends not even knowing or thinking

I just don't even know what to think or feel right now. I feel so disconnected. I can almost pinpoint when it was though especially considering the doctor said I had ovulated on days prior to my appointment and dh had been away on business a few days prior to that. I only had my d/c at the beginning of the month, so not even 4 weeks has gone by, we actually DTD only 12 days after the d/c, didn't wait the full two weeks I read we should have.

Anyway thanks for letting me ramble. Here's a couple pics of #5.

TrulyBlessed replied: I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. I will add you and your husband to my prayers. I have a lot of faith and I believe in miracles. Trust in the Lord and He will be your provider. I truly believe one day soon you will be posting pics of your precious miracle for all to see. I BELIEVE that and I will pray earnestly to see that happen.

CantWait replied: Also, all things considering, when do you think my first doctor's appointment should be.

PrairieMom replied:

youngmomofone replied:

lovemy2 replied: Maybe this one is a blessing in disguise and if I were you I would get to the MD ASAP - you obviously can GET pregnant but staying pregnant isn't happening - there are things you can do for that - I KNOW people who have had this problem and have gone on to have very healthy full term babies -

to you Marie but please please get to the MD ASAP

moped replied: I am happy for you Marie, but i do understand what you are going through.........everything happens for a reason and I truly believe this is a wonderful surprise. I don't know about the doctor, I guess utnil about 8 weeks they really can't see much anyways..........what do you think you should do?

Mommy2Isabella replied: I believe this is a HUGE blessing in disguise!! We will be praying for you guys !!

I would say get to the Dr. ASAP!!

booey2 replied: Hugs to you. I agree with everyone else. Based on your history I would get into the doctor's as soon as you can. We will add you to our prayers. Stick baby stick.

Boo&BugsMom replied: I totally believe in the power of prayer! Many prayers going up for you and the family Marie! I would also go to the doc asap considering you may be labeled as a high risk pregnancy!!! They will want to monitor you pretty closely.

punkeemunkee'smom replied: Praying for you Marie! Maybe you can find a doctor that will look at your pergesterone levels.


~~~~~~STICK BABY STICK~~~~~ vibes

momofone replied:
I agree maybe they can run some hormone tests.

boyohboyohboy replied: I will also keep you and your family in our prayers marie..
I think that the seeing the dr early and taking really good care of yourself is essential.

Calimama replied: I'm praying for you too! Try to stay positive. Oh and I agree, I'd get to the DR ASAP.

Cece00 replied: Go to the Dr NOW and request to have your hormone levels checked, specifically your progesterone.

There is also another disorder, and I am not sure of the name, but your body basically sees the fetus as a foreign object and tries to hurt it...there have been people who have normal pregnancies and then later have this with subsequent pregnancies and lose the babies.

I would get to the dr ASAP and see what sort of tests they can run to find out the issue.

youngmomofone replied: Have you been tested for blood clotting disorders? A friend of mine had 3 m/c in a roll and found out she has it, even though she had two successful pregnancies before. I also ditto the hormones test.

Danalana replied: Wow, marie, what a blessing! I'm sorry you have such mixed emotions As far as the drinks...can't do anything about that, but now you know, and I'm sure everything will be fine in that department. I have a suggestion. You know that I have had a total of 3 early losses (5 weeks for all)...the thing I did differently with Kade and this baby is that I took a baby aspirin everyday in the early weeks. it doesn't hurt anything, and you can stop at 8 or 10 weeks (whatever your doc says). The theory is that the baby aspirin helps prevent clotting, which is thought to be one of the big causes of early loss. It definitely worked for me both times. I'm praying for this little miracle!!

luvmykids replied: Lots of prayers for you guys, and I agree to get to the doc asap!

A&A'smommy replied:
this is exactly what I was going to say!!!

I will be praying for you that this baby sticks I can't imagine how hard this must be for you right now!!!!

amymom replied: I am praying and agree with all about getting to the dr soon.

Good Luck

MommyToAshley replied: I can understand your mixed feelings, but I too believe this is a blessing -- Congratulations. I am sure a few drinks so early in your PG won't hurt a thing so don't obsess about it. Most women don't even know they are PG until about 8 weeks or so. Just be sure to take good care of yourself now -- I know you will. I will keep you and the baby in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us posted.

Sending you sticky baby vibes.

msoulz replied:

mom21kid2dogs replied: Exciting and terrifying all wrapped into one little stick.

coasterqueen replied: Sending you prayers and sticky vibes.

wcs40110 replied: Go to DR now. Best of luck.

CantWait replied: So my doctor is not in (on vacation) until the 20 of May . I made an appointment for as soon as he gets back so we'll see what happens. I will be approximately 6 weeks only then.

Our Lil' Family replied: Marie!! Congrats hun, I kinda had a feeling from your other thread. I can only imagine the mixed emotions but you cannot base any pregnancy on any other...this may be the one!! Just take it easy and try not to worry too much. We're here if you need us!!

~Roo'sMama~ replied: I'll be praying for you! I know how scary it is to be pg after a miscarriage... I can't even imagine after two. If I were you since you can't get in to see your doctor right away, I'd just start taking baby aspirin now - it can't hurt and it might make a world of difference! And definitely have your progesterone levels checked when he gets back just in case!