Update on 3 month scare

Char Lee wrote: Hello everyone this week has been a big scare. Like you all know I have miscarried a few times so this one is very important. Since Weds I have been cramping and spotting. Well cramps are gone but spots arent. I got scared I lost it so I took another test. Still pregnant thank god. The doctor did say if not bright red and alot of it do not worry. It is easy for them to say this. Well I will try to relax now. I also decided to not see the father this weekend just incase I would miscarry. We are still active. Anyhow have a great weekend I will update everyone on Monday with my conversation with brother regarding my pregnancy.

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I'm keeping you in my prayers. I know everything will be okay!

A&A'smommy replied: (((BIG HUGS))) Good luck with your brother and honey I'm sure your going to carry this one until your holding him/her in your arms!

amynicole21 replied: I hope you have a very uneventful weekend and that all of the scary stuff stops!

CantWait replied: I'll be thinking of you

Mom2Boyz replied: I'm sure everything will be ok prayers that the spotting stops, and the rest of your pg is uneventful

Guest replied: Well i am still here guys. Weekend was recked by snow in alberta. But that is okay I will tell him soon. Maybe after U/S. I am still leaking fluid light redish colr now. On sunday morning i will test myself again and if still there i will got to see my doctor once again. Keep me in all your prayers. Thank you

Char Lee replied:
Hey guys sorry this was me for got to log on. I am at the fathers place. I know I said I was not going but he wanted to comfort me and I guess I need to get as much as he is willing to give right now. So still no cramps (good thing). The fluid is very light but still a hint of red. I will say I am scared. The baby should be 2.5 inches big and I should notice if I miscarry. The others were very early on in pregnancy so I only niticed a blood clot. Has anyone one having these kinds of symptoms? Even if it is only cramp please advise me. It may make me feel better.

Mom2Boyz replied:
I had TONS of cramping early in my pg, then spotting around 12 weeks. And like you, I was terrified because I had a m/c 6 months earlier. I'm sure everything will be alright

kimberley replied: i did have cramping and discharge with my pg's in the first tri around when my period was due. i will keep you in prayers that everything is just fine. i am glad the father can give you some comfort. keep us updated.

jem0622 replied: Lots of P&PT for you, Char Lee. Please update us when you see your Dr. I can't believe they wouldn't see you ASAP to rule anything out. I have known women to bleed for most of their pregnancy. It isn't unusual.

Is the cramping really painful? Don't forget that your uterus is going to start stretching and you can get a tear and bleed from that so don't assume the worst without more information.

Thinking of you.

A&A'smommy replied: Hey first of all ((((BIG HUGS)))) secondly! Its okay to want/need comfort from your family you should seek to them for it and be able to recieve it! We are here for you sweetie because I know your scared and I believe that is a natural feeling! I'm sure your little one is just fine and going to be in yours arms real soon! Please keep us posted!

Char Lee replied: Thanks ldies, all of you have helped me alot this weekend. I dont have any cramps at all. This is a very good thing. On Saturday the spotting left for a lond while and again on Sunday morning I has sex with father and by the time I left his place and travelled 4 hours south of his place to my parents there was more bleeding. But I changed myself and 5-6hours late still nothing. Even this morning there is nothing. Thank God. I cant wait for the U/S. The father is trying to be supportive but I keep getting that he is scared. Now he knows I am too. It does make things easier to have other people to comfort you with other experiences. One more week to what. I did not tell anyone this weekend about it. The brother I was going to tell did not come out but we are still planning to get together for my parents anniversary before June 1. I cant wait until everyone knows, this will help just knowing everyone else knows. So a (((((BIG THANK YOU))))) to everyone. I will definitely keep you guys informed of everything and if I can figure out how to place my U/S on net I will.