Updating on Zavier - and all of us

ZandersMama wrote: Zavier is doing really well. I had him to the pediatrician friday, and everything looks really good, except he has bilateral inagurl hernia (sp?) Anyway, he has to get it operated on once he is about 10 pounds. Other then that he is great. His weight is up to 5 lbs 4 oz. Zander seems to be adjusting okay, it's hard on him having a new baby home and daddy gone. As soon as he gets up in the morning he says " mama, wheres dada?" Breaks my heart. He has been good about coming by after work to see the kids though. Anyway, I havent been around here much, mostly just lurking when i'm pumping, but I wanted to let everyone know we are okay.

sparkys2boys replied: Well, I am glad that things are starting to get better, hope to see you around more when you all get settled.

1lilpeanut2love replied: Glad all is going well with everything! Hope to see ya around more!

gr33n3y3z replied: Its nice to see you
I'm glad Zavier is doing much better and it sounds like your doing well also
I'm sorry to hear Zander is going through a bad time
Stuff like that is always hard on children

amynicole21 replied: Glad everything seems to be going well, and I hope Zander adjusts quickly.

JadensMama05 replied: I absolutely love that you named your boys Zavier and Zander!! I tried so hard to name my son Xavier but his daddy just wouldn't go for it. Awesome names!!!

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Calimama replied: I'm happy things are looking up for you!

CantWait replied: Glad to hear that things are going mostly.

MotherForever2043 replied: Glad things are starting to get better for you. It would break my heart to have my kids waking up and ask for their daddy.

punkeemunkee'smom replied: I have thought about you and the boys several times! Thanks for the update! I am sorry it is hard on Zander right now I know that you will see him through this hard time! Prayers for Zavier's upcoming surgery! I am so glad he is doing well besides that! How are you?

ZandersMama replied:
I'm actually doing ok. I hate being here alone with the boys, but its better then being together and unhappy. I have a great friend who helps me out when she is not working, and my dad has been wonderful.

As much as it all sucks, there is a huge weight off my shoulders knowing that I dont have to worry about what stunt he is going to pull next. What he does now is his problem, not mine.

I worry alot about what the future holds for Zavier, there is still so much that could go wrong, and we wont know for years how he could be affected from being so premature. But, he beat the odds so far so hopefull he keeps beating them.

lisar replied: I am glad to hear you and the kids are doing good.

holley79 replied: Glad Zavier is doing well. That is wonderful news.