Well Isnt Married Life a Roller Coaster

TANNER'S MOM wrote: Ok I am soo freaking mad at Randy I could choke him and then choke him some more!

Yesterday evening..6:30 he calls and says I am bringing company home for supper.. I was like ok.. Thank Gosh I was making spaghetti b/c there is always lots left over..but we know it still makes us mad...lol No warning

Well the person he brings is his cousin who is 22 and just broke up w/ his girlfriend..

What DH didn't say was that they met at the LIQUOR STORE.. each bought a case of beer..WTH how is my DH.. 32 not 22 hello

So, we have supper and visit//thats fine. They drink beer and talk. Dh never leaves his chair.. so I think well he has company.. his family. I bathe Tanner.. do the dishes get everything ready for the morning.. they are man talking..

I look and it's 10:30 I am dead on my feet.. I finally say HUn I am going to bed..it's 10:30

He says ok.. I thinking HINT HINT HINT

Tanner says Momma I am tired....but whining I want dad to put me to bed.. Ya right..

So I go to bed.. mind you that DH has to get up at 4 in the am for work..

So for some reason they go out to the porch swing...BY MY BED ROOM WINDOW>.

I didn't wanna be the nag wife..but the more I laid there the madder I got...

Finally at 1AM he comes to bed ..1 in the freaking morning..

And then he has the NERVE TO TRY AND TOUCH ME>. oh no he didn't
I was soo mad..

We had a big fight..

and to be honest..at 4 this morning when was worshipping the porcelin God ..saying I ain't has young as I once was.. I was laying the smiling.....

I know that is mean..but I was mad...

He hasn't called me today either... I hope he is SICK SICK SICK

coasterqueen replied: Has your husband met my husband? You describe my DH to a T, but my DH is this way more times than not. Although he drinks enough that I'm not sure even if he drank a boat of hard liquor that he'd be visiting the porcelain god.

I know exactly how you feel hon.

TANNER'S MOM replied:
Oh Man! I hope no one else has to go thru this..

Randy has spurts w/ his drinking... Summer is worse than anytime though.

He thinks whatever effort he puts out in the heat deserves a beer...

Mowign the yard.. beer in hand..

Feeding animals..beer in hand..

Why?? Because you know how hard he works.. He works 12 hr days in this heat and he is the MAN so he deserves it!

coasterqueen replied: LOL Mel! My DH can't even go to the bathroom without taking his drink with him. I'll look at him and say "what you afraid you'll be in there too long and die of thirst?" And this is just when he goes to take a pee. He takes his drink everywhere with him like someone is gonna drink it behind his back. Uh, I don't think so...no jack daniels for me.

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: My DH was there once, but now he stopped drinking all together. Sometimes I wish he would at least grab a beer with me every once in awhile. I miss getting tipsy together sometimes. How come they don't know how to set limits?? It's either no drinks or the whole twelve pack! I bet your DH was just trying to play it cool with his young cousin. Guys (sorry men) seem to always want to live their glory days over again. Your DH definitely had it bite him in the ass this morning...tee hee!

TANNER'S MOM replied:
The glory days for sure..

I head the same ole rodeo stories and hunting stories over and over..

Of course his cousin thinks he is cool...being the bull rider who almost died..

Thank God Tanner is giving him new rodeo stories too tell..

Mine don't seem near as fun... well one time at OK CITY I rounded barrel # 2 and my horse fell.. BORING I am told..lololol

moped replied: Oh Tom stays up late with freinds, I just go to bed and WHATEVER.........

Josie83 replied: I'm sorry Mel! That must have been frustrating for you

It drives me mad when they think they can do whatever they want then come pawing at you - Jason gets a left hook (well not realy, but you know ) xx

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Scotty doesn't drink and he has no friends. He just WORKS ALL THE TIME!! Like Rae said, it is all or nothing. We are VERY boring around here.

A&A'smommy replied: I feel for you guys dh would sleep on the couch all the time or I would be at my mommas if he started drinking but I don't think he will because his dad was an alcoholic and the few times he did have friends over to drink I was got REALLY REALLY mad at him! ((((((HUGS)))))

JAYMESMOM replied: Jim does that from time to time. I just go to bed and shut my door and window. We have central air so I can do that. When he comes to bed he gets knocked if he tries anything. I get up with the kids the next morning and then we all go wake dad up. I make sure he gets no rest and I take a nap. Paybacks are the best.

I always laugh when he is sick and has a headache. I am like you play you pay.

luvbug00 replied: Brad and I are opposite on this I'm the one who will stay up and jump on the porclin express in the morning. he will not go to bed until he' knows I'm safe next to him. I think it's babyish. I hate it!!

TANNER'S MOM replied:
It's that I really wanted him there...

We have 4 kids and I wanted to SLEEP

I wanted off my porch crushing stupid beer cans..lololol

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied:
Aimee? Do we have the same DH?? All I can say is the grass is always greener...I often wish my DH would drink and would go out with some friends!!! He's gone from 30 to 50 overnight and although it may sound immature of me, it gets boring! But that's another story...

How's he feeling now Mel? Did you tell him you were angry or did he get the clue when you pushed him off? Hope he's back to his romantic self...