Went to the clinic last night

CantWait wrote: Well today was day 5 of spotting and I had had enough. I went to the clinic and was seen right away, they even called in the OB/GYN from home. It took him all of 10 minutes to get there which is Amazing for Moscow traffic .

He did an u/s, and according to that I am not 6 weeks and some days, but rather 5 weeks 1 day, which is WAY to early to tell anything . So yes, I have a little dumpling in my uterous, but that's all we can say right now. I have to cancel my appointment for Monday, cause there's no point to it, and reschedule for at least the 22 when a heart beat will be present IF all is well. He would not give me the picture because he said it was to early and I guess did not want to get my hopes up.

I'm nervous that the reason my little dumpling is measuring so small in size is because she just stopped growing .

ZandersMama replied: i hope everything is ok!

punkeemunkee'smom replied: Marie Do not give up hope! Taylor and Teagan have BOTH measured small in their first sonos. (they told me to have a D&C with Taylor because she was not a viable pregnancy based on my LMP) Niether one of them had a detectable heartbeat in the first sonos and BOTH of them had amazingly strong heartbeats by the 2nd sonos! You could have had a long cycle because of your recent move,etc... My cycles are so crazy the both of my babies have measured one week off as well. Things can still be OK and you and your baby will be in our prayers these next few weeks. I know it is impossible not to stress but try to stay as calm as you can-maybe you just have a tiny baby girl in there

CantWait replied:
Thank you so much, I've had a couple people on facebook that have had stories similar to yours and have given me hope. It's hard though, I don't want to become attached to this pregnancy, I've already started distancing myself for now, I just don't want to feel that pain, I already feel like I've been through enough this year.

Danalana replied: I was going to say what Abbie said...you might have just ovulated earlier, and the bean implanted a little later. Don't give up hope! But I do understand not wanting to become attatched. After we had 2 early losses, I told myself I would never be excited about seeing a positive test again....but as soon as we got pregnant with Kade, here I was, telling all of you. I can't wait for an update after your next ultrasound!

youngmomofone replied: I was also one week and a couple days off with my pregnancy. I didn't think it was possible, but she's here and healthy.

A&A'smommy replied: KUP!!!! I'm sorry they didn't give you the greatest news but don't give up hope yet!!

punkeemunkee'smom replied: Marie~ Did they tell you there was a yolk sac or a fetal pole? Did he image your cervix at all? Keep off your feet as much as possible and don't vaccuum or mop at all-I don't know what it is with those activities but they are very hard on your pelvic floor muscles. Drink as much water as you can and cut all caffine if you can stand it in the next few days/weeks.

luvmykids replied: I know it wasn't the news you were hoping for but at least it wasn't the worst I'm sure the agony of being unsure that things are ok is gut wrenching but I really think everything is ok, please KUP!

CantWait replied:
He did the internal u/s, my uterous and ovaries and said there was something there, but that it was just too early to tell anything.

jacobsmama replied: I was going to ask the same question as abbie. Usually you can see a sac but no fetal pole or baby yet. But within next 2 weeks your should be able to see it for sure. They had to have seen a sac to tell you that you were 5 weeks because the sac is how we measure to make sure we can tell how far you are, so that is a good sign.

Do rest and stay off your feet if you can. Be positive, we are all here for you.

CantWait replied:
It was just a little black circle

~Roo'sMama~ replied: Since you're still spotting I'd get your progesterone level checked - if it's low it could really help to get on a progesterone supplement. I hope everything is ok!

jacobsmama replied:
That was the sac! Now lets keep positive for a healthy, strong baby to form in there this week

Bamamom replied: I'll be praying for a healthy baby

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Oh sweetie please don't lose hope. I'm praying for a healthy 9 mos.

moped replied:

Hang in there girl, obviously your little bean is still there otherwise they wouldn't see anything on the U/S...hang in there and please update when you can!

lisar replied: Hang in there girl. Raygen didnt have a heartbeat on the sono that early either.

gr33n3y3z replied: Keeping you in our prayers for a healthy 9 mos for you and the baby
Dont give up keep positive

Kirstenmumof3 replied: My thoughts and prayers are with you! Wishing you a healthy, happy 9 months!

3xsthefun replied: I hope everything is ok.

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: