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What a horrible week! - My Pregnancy is not going well..........


Littlejojames wrote: God Dont know where to start........

Well as most of you know me and craig have been TTC since March 2004. We found out last week we finally did it.

Monday night i had a bleed, which wasnt much but work sent me to Birmingham (2 hours away) tuesday day. Was spotting part of the day so after i finished there i got the train home and me and Craig went to A&E at the local hospital. They asked me how far gone was i, i didnt have a clue so they took blood (this was at 7.30pm) at 11.30pm they moved me from A&E to the Clinical decision unit. 0200am they came back with my results and said that im about 14 1/2 weeks and my hormones are a million time what they should be for an early pregnancy. What a shock so they moved me to the Maternity unit till 0415 when they told me to go home and come back for 0900 for a scan.

0900 came i went for my scan and got told that im only 5+ weeks pregnant and that why my hormones are high is because i might be 14 1/2 weeks pregnant but my egg might have stoppped growing. I just bursted out into tears and got told i had to wait for a doctor. Craig would not let go of me as i cried.

I got to the doctor and she told me that everything is ok and that im just under 6 weeks pregnant and that i have to go back in 2 weeks for another scan and not to worry as everything seems ok.

My head is so messed up and i dont know what to believe at the minute.
Got a midwife check up on tuesday at 14.10pm and then im back for my scan on the 8th September.

Hope that all is well with my baby and that it will be with us in April xxxxxxxx

ediep replied: oh no!! How confusing!!! You poor thing!! (((((hugs x a million)))))

you are in my thoughts and prayers. Good Luck, try to relax ( I know, yea right) but it is the best thing you can do for youself and your baby

Kirstenmumof3 replied: grouphug.gif I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of this! Try not to worry! Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers! grouphug.gif

amynicole21 replied: Oh, how scary for you! I'm keeping you in my thoughts, please keep us posted. grouphug.gif

coasterqueen replied: ((HUGS)) I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I'm having *issues* too with this pregnancy and it has my nerves shot every second of the day. sad.gif

I will keep you and your baby in my prayers. grouphug.gif

angelhair replied: I am so sorry you had to go through this! I was told early one that this one was a miscarriage, but then the doctor found a heartbeat. that was four weeks ago and at the last ultrasound I saw the baby move. I was so scared I asked if it was a miscarriage and she said defenetely not!!! I tell you this becasue doctors can defenetely be wrong, as I am sure was the case with the first doctor who said you egg stopped growing. I would believe the second doctor. I think you are going to be fine. especially in the fact that the number of weeks estimated in pregnancy was consistent in both the first and second doctors opinion. were here if you need us!

A&A'smommy replied: omg I'm so sorry you are having to go through all this right now! I hope that your next app goes MUCH better!! ((((BIG HUGS))))

Littlejojames replied: Thank you all so much for your support.

I'm hoping that everything will be ok now. xxxxxx

My morning sickness has stopped but im getting really bad aches in my back. is the morning sickness going this early normal?? god cant you tell its my 1st pregnancy??!!! haha

MommyToAshley replied: Oh no, how confusing and scarey all of this must be! grouphug.gif Try to stay positive, and get some rest.... I know it is hard, but it is the best thing for you and your baby.

As for the morning sickness, it is different in all people. Some people have it their entire PG, some not at all, and some just a few weeks. You really can't tell anything by m/s.

I will keep you and your baby in my thoughts and prayers, please keep us posted.

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GreenLotus replied: Oh you poor dear, I will keep you in my prayers! You must be so startled and confused right now.. I know I would be. Just try to stay calm as you can and find that inner peace. smile.gif

Keep us updated! Best wishes!!

Niki

Littlejojames replied: God i really need to VENT......................

Yet more disaster in my life

Craig went out to watch the football on saturday. Had a few drinks with his mates the at 11pm came home.

On his way home 8 lads of the housing estate near us got Craig on the ground and jumped on his head back and legs. Coz craig had had a drink he was defenceless. They pinched his gold chain.

When Craig got in you could not see his face for blood. We spend the rest of the weekend in hospital.

Now Craig has the perfect imprint of a shoe on the left hand side of his face, his rib cage and his bum.

turns out the lads who done this did it to someone else on Friday night.

To top it off me and craig were walking the dog last night and they were trying to get someone else. The lads are only 16 years old at the most. And they let on to Craig last night they dont remember doing a thing to him as they were all drunk.

Craig and his mates are not people who take things like that good and have all sworn revenge, plus his family are boxers (fighters) and his mates are well know boxers over in england.

Cant wait till someone bigger and harder gets hold of them and shows them what its like to be on the recieving end. Its all fine going to the police but they only get a slapped wrist. Sorry but they do the system over here is so messed up and there are killers walking the streets and they all end up with only a fine and community service. mad.gif mad.gif mad.gif

A&A'smommy replied:
OMG that is awful I can't believe that!!! Poor Craig, those kids need some punishment from home some REAL punishment, AND disipline from their parents!

Guest replied: OMG, How horrible! When it rains it pours! Hopefuly those thugs will get whats coming to them! What goes around come around, those boys better remember that! Somewhere along the line if their lives it will come back to them!!

I hope Craig heals up quickly! Take care!

Niki

kimberley replied: my goodness! how awful. i hope Craig is better and you are feeling alright. p&pt coming your way!

mama3x replied: Geez some people have nothing better to do than to make the world horrible for others...

I am truly disgusted with those guys but am really glad Craig is all right. I know at times it seems "when it rains it pours" (BTDT) but hang on, you have us in addition to Craig for support and help.

Take care of yourself and give Craig +++ thoughts from us.

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Littlejojames replied: Thanks all for your support.

Got my Scan today 7 weeks and 5 day pregnant and its really taking its toll.

My boobs are killing me and my nipples are really sore blush.gif sorry to be so blunt. Morning sickness is getting worse normally i can deal with it but yesterday i had my head down the loo in work (thats the first time i have been sick with it)

When i told my midwife about the above she said that its a good sign as my hormones are working??????

As long as my bump (or not as yet) is healthy thats all that matters.

cutiepie replied: Hi! Im glad to hear its going better for you.Sorry for the m/s. But thats a good sign that everything is going good. Hang in there. smile.gif


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