What do your kids say to you - when they are mad at you??

mckayleesmom wrote: Russells new thing as of yesterday is "I don't like you anymore mommy" and "you hurt my feelings".


Mckaylee....boy....she can let you have it. I usually end up putting her in her room and she just flips out yelling all of the following....and I usually put her in her room when she won't stop following me around saying these things....she has guts.

"I hate you...You make me so frustrated....You make me so ANGREEEEE (I capitalize that because that is usually what she screams the loudest)....You are not my parents anymore.....Im running away....I don't love you anymore.....Im never going trick or treating with you again.....Im not buying you any presents.....I was going to buy you something, but not anymore.....

Then she tops it off by singing a song (think opera) about what she did wrong and how she got into trouble......Usually this is the point where me and dh are laughing in the other room.

Then she will come out and dare to ask you for a snack or candy or if she can watch cartoons .....I usually tell her "nope...sorry, I don't give out stuff to little girls that hate me".....

grandma replied: Holy crap, how old is she? YOU'RE in trouble...lol

grandma replied: Nevermind, I see she's four, going on 20....

punkeemunkee'smom replied: FIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIINNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!

seems to be her word of choice lately. If she ever tells me she doesn't want to talk to me again she usually ends up crying and telling me how sorry she is for saying that!

Kaitlin'smom replied: That I hurt her feelings.

She told me once she did not like me anymore and we got into a BIG discussion about that and how she can better express her feeling with out hurting others, me I personally wont tollerate hearing thoes kinds of statments out of her mouth.

mckayleesmom replied:
Once I tell her that I don't give things to little girls that hate me....she says "I was just joking"...in this snotty little teenager tone....So I reply "its only a joke when someone else is laughing and they aren't...so go back to your room".....

mckayleesmom replied:
I do tell her its not nice to say those things and ask her how she would like it if someone said them to her........She will usually straighten up for a while, but once you really tick her off again...look out.

Kaitlin'smom replied:
She is going to be an interesting teenager...............

mckayleesmom replied:
Ya...Im not looking forward to that.

Kaitlin'smom replied:
you know I will give you hope though, my niece (the older of the 2, just turned 12) she was similar to your daughter in the way she talked back to people all the time, now as far as I know she did not do nearly all the things yours did but she was a bit mischeiovous, and now she is soooo different a very tough but good hearted kid, we thought for sure she woudl be heck on wheels. Maybe you will be lucky and she getting it all out now and will be a decent teen.

Calimama replied:
No kidding. My cousins whose 5 talks to my aunt like that, but she's trying to nip it in the bud now because she figures it's only going to get worse.

mckayleesmom replied:
I guess Im lucky though that this is a once in a blue moon outburst.....She has pretty good manners....not perfect....but she does pretty good most of the time. And she isn't into EVERYTHING anymore...So I will take it....She is a Yes Maam kid. I really drilled it into her this year....I got sick of her questioning everything I said to her or told her to do....so I told her that "yes maam or Yes sir (to her dad) was the correct response. She still tries to argue or question what I tell her to do and I ask her "what was the correct response to what I said"? and she says "yes Maam"...and drops it.........So things are looking up.

lovemy2 replied: Olivia told me ONCE I hate you....and I repeat ONLY ONCE......She doesn't say too much now - just cries

A&A'smommy replied: Alyssa just gives me the evil eye

sparkys2boys replied:
same as my boys. It didn't go over to well and has never been said to me again

TheOaf66 replied: well just the other night I told Tanner he couldn't play playstation because it was bed time soon and he threw a fit and told me "you're no fun anymore"

he has told me Mommy is the boss (which she is) so he would ask her.

I tell you when he doesn't get his way he is quite miserable

luvmykids replied:
ROFL

All mine say "FIIIIIIIIIINNNNNNNNNNUUUUUUUUUHHHHHHHH"

Another favorite is "YOU are ALWAYS so MEAN to ME"

Macie's new thing when she's in trouble is "Mommy you got me in trouble"

Mommy2BAK replied: this is a funny topic. Blakely is only 3 so she doesn't have the wording quite right yet but she will say "Well fine then, you just don't like me anymore" I usually can't help but crack up because I'm not sure if she is thinking that by saying that it's going to hurt my feelings or if she means that she doesn't like me anymore. One time DH told her to go stand in the corner and as she walked off she turned back and mumbled "stupid daddy" that was the last time she said that. I was definately holding back laughter but dh didn't think it was funny at all.

amynicole21 replied: I've gotten, "you're not coming to my birthday party!" from Sophia. Mostly, I get "you're not nice!"

lisar replied:
I am right there with ya. Thats what Lexi does.

mckayleesmom replied:
LOL...Don't you just love how they use things against you that wouldn't happen without you doing it anyways.

holley79 replied: "I no like you mama"

That's was Annika last night for some stinking reason. It's the first time she's done it and I'm sure not the last.

ZandersMama replied: Zander says (loudly ) "DONT DO THAT TO ME MOOOOOOOOOM"

every single time lately that i tell him to do something, like be nice to his brother.

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: Wil says "mommy, you not happy?" or "mommy, I'm sad" or "mommy, you say sorry to me". That's about it so far! Wesley still only says a few words, so I'm lucky there.

My2Beauties replied: "STOP BEING MEAN TO ME MOMMA"
"I don't lub (notice the spelling) you anymore" Then she'll apologize later once I make her feel bad for saying that to her mommy. When she says that I'll say well, I guess we'll have to find you some parents that you love and find mommy a little girl who loves her back....she usually feels pretty bad after that.
Sometimes she just shrieks at me

lovemy2 replied: Yeah - and Dylan's new thing since he doesn't say a whole lot yet - is to stick his chest out at me - as if he is pretty tough or something - I tell him "you don't scare me" and then he just deflates and walks away

Calimama replied:
AWW that's so cute.


Miabella says. " I so mad" under her breath.

bawoodsmall replied: Emily's favorite is your not going to be my best friend anymore and your not the big boss daddy is...your the little boss. Aiden just throws a fit or says no no!

MoonMama replied: He grawls at me. Or glares at me which is actually really cute. Or says "you no, no, no".

My3LilMonkeys replied: I guess I'm lucky mine really don't say or do anything - we get tears sometimes, but they don't usually get mad.

austins mom replied: Austin tells me he wishes he was never born.

Just tell them thats ok that you still love them.

Brias3 replied: Mason's lines go back and forth between "This makes me SO SAD" and "This makes me SO MAD" with this super serious look and scowl on. It's actually quite funny

One time, I got a "You are really making my heart hurt!" from Aliyah....always the drama queen

jcc64 replied: Honestly, and this sounds like such BS, but things never really get that bad between Corey and me. She's a real rule follower, and lives in fear of my disapproval, poor thing. I discipline her with a very light touch b/c otherwise, she just crumbles.
My 15 yo ds- when he's mad, he just seethes silently, non-verbally letting me know he thinks I'm the biggest jacka$$ on the planet.
My 12 yo is very combative and will go the mat with me, he often seems unaware of the line between adult and child until I remind him. Basically, though, he's a very affable kid who rarely gets upset about anything.

DVFlyer replied: Chloe says, "FINE!" but it comes out like:

Ffffffffffffffffine. It's the funniest thing in the world.

stella6979 replied: Avery rarely gets timeouts cause once we "warn her" she pretty much gets it, but if I do something that she doesn't like she now says "you want time out Mommy"? and she'll even put her hands on her hips while saying it. It cracks me up!!!

Celestrina replied: After saying "NO" and sees that I am not backing down, he'll blow in my face like he's blowing out a candle.

kit_kats_mom replied:
That sounds a lot like Katheirne. I have yet to hear any real sass from her... thank goodness. It's just not acceptable in our house. She's welcome to tell us how she feels but we've made a strong distinction between not liking the behavior and not liking the person and saying what you really mean. I have heard "mom, I think you need to to to time out, you aren't being very nice" once or twice, and I totally deserved it.

Lauren is a completely different animal but so far, she's nothing but a pouter. She will cross her arms like shes giving herself a big hug, stick that lower lip out as far as it will go, stick her chin into her chest and then look up with a scowl and say "Harumph". It's really hard to not laugh at her.

~Roo'sMama~ replied: Andrew says "Don't argue with me Mommy!" So far he hasn't heard the words "I hate you" from anyone - I'll be so sad the day he says that to me if he ever does. Maybe I'll be lucky and he never will. I never would have DARED to tell my parents that. I can only think of one instance when I even said it to my sister - and I was pretty shocked and ashamed at myself too.

MyBabeMaddie replied: Madison will just scream "NO, MOVE" - She's big on the nonverbals right now - Hitting, throwing herself on the floor... I can't wait for the screaming