When it raisn it pours.
MM'sMama wrote:  I just got off the phone wiht MIL I called her to tell her what was going on wiht Brice and everything. And she was crying and I askd what was wrong and she tells me they just found out DH's little sister is pregnant.
OMG WHAT?!?!?!?! This girl just turned 13 in June and she is 4 months pregnant???? OMG I know I have no room to speak because I was 15 about to turn 16 when I had Brice but OMG barly 13 and pregnant!!  How the H-E-double hockey sticks did that happen. Where were they when this was going on OMG.
She then goes on to tell me she wants me to tell DH. WHAT NO WAY!!!! His little sister means so much to him he loves that girl SO much. This is going to kill him and all of us. I mean whats she gonna do she can't raise a baby. I just don't even know what to say I cannot believe this. Sorry to vent on you all once again!
amymom replied: Oh my! Take care of your family!
MM'sMama replied: Thank you  I don't know how this could happen it still has not set in yet .
amynicole21 replied: Oh no  I'm so sorry to hear this.
Jamielou replied:  i will keep your family in my thoughts 
luvbug00 replied: Karah I know this is a hudge shock. One of my friends was 12 when she got pregnant and she is the wonderful mother of 3 right now (23 YO now) I called her after I read this post and she said that the best thing her family did was treat her like an adult and let her make the desisions. I donno about that advice but she's been threw it not me.. How is hubby? Prayers for your SIL.
TANNER'S MOM replied: Oh wow! I am so sorry!
Thinking of your family!
coasterqueen replied: I'm so sorry to hear this.
PrairieMom replied: How nice that she will have someone like you who has walked in those shoes to help support and guide her. How scary for her. My thougths are with you guys.
A&A'smommy replied: OMG ((((((HUGS)))))) maybe you could suggest adoption or maybe your mil can raise the baby for her? I'm sorry hun I know that is scary I was 17 and I was scared I can't amagine barely being 13
My2Beauties replied: Oh wow that is awful! I know you guys do need to be strong for her, don't push any decision such as abortion or adoption, she made a grown up decision to sleep with someone she needs to make the decision herself on the life growing inside of her. My step-daughter's mom was 14 when she had her and she did a darn good job, one of the best mothers I know. 
moped replied: OH NO - that is not good...............I hope they figure out what is best and best for baby!
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ammommy replied: What a shock. P&PT's are with you all.
3xsthefun replied: I'm so sorry
ions_momma replied: OMG! I am so sorry to hear this! I will be sure to keep your family in my prayers!
CantWait replied:
You took the words right out of my mouth. I hope that SHE can make a decision for herself and not for anyone else. Best wishes her and her baby.
MM'sMama replied: Thank you everyone
This has just been a hard anc scary thing to find out
MIL decided she needed some "time and space" away from her right now so she is with DH and I at the moment. Dh can't stand to be in the same room with her right now which I know is killing her she loves him so much. I have tried to explain to him how scared and uncertian she is right now. And remind him how scared him and I were and we were 15. So I can not even begin to imagine how she feels at 13. But i am trying hard to be as supportive as I can.
I had MIL make her a doctors appt. so we have that tomorrow and we will see how that goes. She has not told the guy and says who will NOT I ahve tried explaining to her why she needs to but I hope in time she will.
I have told her that this is her decision and we will all support her know matter what she decides. I know MIL will come around she just need to get over the shock I think. But right now she has know idea what she wants to do and won't tlak about how she is feeling.
So for now all I can do is be supportive and hope for the best. Thank you everyone for your support through everything that has been going on latly I think I would lose it without you all
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