Where did they go??? - What happened to your first love????

luvbug00 wrote: I have been dreamiong ALOT about the men I loved a long time ago..( there were 2) And they are comming back into my life indirectly...( I dream about them ALOT!!!)


First there was Alberto... Ohhh He was my first love and I'm still not over him!! remember the guy who cheated on me after we were engaged? well that's Alberts older brother. Anyway Albert and I met in the 7th grade and we were always together and we ran away together but didn't make it far...cops But we were soo In love. We never did anything. NOTHING. But he treated me like gold and I don't remember why we split. Uhh I miss him!! Anyway he is now in cali and got married and had a son last year. it stinks...

Then there was Kieth... Ohhh soo Hot. He was our next door neighbor and my first he was my brothers best friend and we had a little insident after our frolic... The End ... or so I thought apperently found out recently he still wanted to be with me and stuff even though his parents objected ( because I'm not jewish, they wanted to keep the religon in the family...understandable though.) Uh now he's getting married to a COW !!! MOOOO!!

Yeah I'm bitter....

kimberley replied: lol you're funny!

i signed up for classmates.com long time ago and often wonder about my first crush. he never signed up tho. i heard thru the grapevine that he was doing electrician work, but had really gone downhill with drugs. it is all rumor but shocking. this was the guy who was good in school, on the football team, sweet, didn't drink or smoke. i crushed on him from grade nine until i had my first child at 24yo . we dated briefly in our twenties but his ex came back. bitter here too lol. actually i am not. if that is really how he turned out, then i am way better off.

i wouldn't trade my DH for the world. he isn't perfect but he is all mine and i love him dearly.

funny.. a guy from high school called me a few times in the past year . what a trip! didn't talk to him for about 13yrs and he phones out of the blue. he was on his second baby and in a miserable marriage. DH was not impressed and honestly, neither was i.

redchief replied: I had g/f's before my DW and I met. But she is truly my first and only love.

mckayleesmom replied: 1...Chris....Don't care

2. Jeff...engaged to him and dated 4 years.....He still talks bad about me...but that just means he knows he screwed up and can't hack it.....last I heard he was engaged to some gross girl...If he got hit by a car tomorow...I would throw a party

3. Jim....still talk to him online sometimes...He is married now and has a little boy that was born a couple weeks after Russell....We really should have never dated...should have stayed friends.

moped replied: Gosh - I had a few b/f's......the first two that ring a bell are:

Doug - high school thing, stayed freinds and I think he lives on a ski hill or near one and recently had twins I heard........nice guy

Mike, was Doug's best freind, dated, no big things ever happened and I see him if I go home at Christmas and we love catching up.

Don't have an issue with anyone from my past - all good guys...................not very exciting here

amymom replied:
Awwwwwwwww

luvbug00 replied:

I know For many of you hubbys are the 1 and only and that's utterly romatic but I know there are a coupple more of you with those tween crushes of long agoo.
Come onnnn.....

amymom replied: Ok, Well, many of my bf and I remained friends (easier to do when sex is not involved), so here goes:
Bill: was a good friend and he died 15 yrs after we broke up, he had a wife, daughter and boyfriend ... go figure.
John: was a good friend and he is still single, I haven't heard from him in about 10 yrs. (I've been married 20 yrs)
Jim: moved south (invited me along--I declined) he married a woman with two kids, had four of their own and he became very wealthy (what did I do wrong??? I've always wanted alot of money and alot of kids )
Bob: I broke his heart, but he got married the year after I did, had his daughter the week before I had my son and he is my older brothers best friend. go figure!
Jimmy: I have no idea. He disappeared and I have no knowledge of where or what he is doing.
My true love lives with me (but is in the dog house right now..... another story for another time. )

Thanks for the walk down memory lane.

3xsthefun replied: Actually, I have no idea what happened to my 2 ex boyfriends or my crushes. I do sometimes dream about them. I do wonder what happened to them sometimes.

I know seen my one ex James, few months after I had Kaitlynn. He had a girlfriend and was working somewhere and going to school I think. I haven't heard anything from him since then.

My other ex Andrew, I have no idea where he is now. Last I heard he was still living around here. But not sure what he is doing or anything.

Neither of my ex's were mean or anything. They were both good guys and I was the dumb one that broke up with them.

I did have one other crush on a guy for awhile. I'm glad I never got with him. I heard he got hooked on drugs. And he has already gotten two DUI's.

My other crush (for 4 years), I don't know what happened to him either. I lost contact with him after highschool.

5littleladies replied: Well I got married right out of high school to the one true love of my life but before him there was one guy that I thought I was going to marry and he is now married and has a little girl and lives in WI. I still chat with him online occassionally and email him once in awhile.

3_call_me_mama replied: My highschool sweetheart (we dated from 8th grade until after graduation) is livign abotu 15 minutes from me, married to soem B@%@#& and they have 2 children. One is like 5 and one is a few month old. (Yes I'm bitter about her ) I truly thought he was THE ONE when I was datign him. We had all these plans adn went through everythign (including the death of his mom) together. And he was my first EVERYTHING. But there's still a spot in my heart for him. Doesn['t change a BIT how incredibly much I love DH but its not somethign that will ever go away I think. Other boyfriends... 1 is in Iraq, we are still close adn I pray daily for his safe return. Another just returned form Iraq adn is married with a couple kids near here. Another is married to some girl he cheated on me with Another (whom I should have jsut stayed friend s with) is still a good friend adn I chat weekly or so online with. He is married and lives abotu 30 mintues form me. DH is friends with all the ones I'm still friends with. oh adn 1 is now a Dr. He was in residency when we dated, and now is a surgeon... boy did I screw that one up:) LOL J/K i hated the rotatiign schedule, the long nights and teh DA*N pager going off at the most inopperatune times

But as others have said Dh is far more than I could have ever asked for and truly the one for me

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: I dated a lot in college and have no contact with any of the guys...I fell in love once other than with DH and I have no idea where that BF is either. I do think about him at times, but I just know in my heart that we weren't meant for each other. DH is truly the best guy I've ever been with. I admit that I sometimes think "what if", but I know none of those men could ever come close to DH. It was just a different time, different place, different person. I've moved on!

coasterqueen replied: Well since I thought I had to have many boyfriends at once long ago there are too many to keep track of. BUT there are a few that I've thought of.

There's Darren. I know he's married, think he has a kid. Lives in another state. I was suprised he got married because I know how badly I hurt him and he hated women for quite awhile after me.

Bob - I could care a flying NOT. I actually think he lives in my city but thank goodness I haven't run in to him in a LONG time. VERY long time.

Ahhhhh and the 30 year old I dated when I was 16...hubba....hubba - Brian. Not sure what he's doing. I know where to find him if I want to. I pass his parents house all the time and wonder of what might have been. I screwed him over too so I'm sure he doesn't care 2 cents about me.

SIGh.

punkeemunkee'smom replied: I was 17 when Dh and I started dating so my love life before him was a few movies and pizza dates! I ran into a guy I dated a couple times the other day with his wife and their little boy,she is preggo again,too cute! They seemed very happy! Had one "serious" boyfriend before Dh who cheated ALOT! We were dating for about 7 months and then I finally realized what he was doing and dropped him.It was such a relief when we broke up that I realized that wasn't love! He was good looking and in college and I wanted to be cool! Bill is my only true love! He is my only lot of things! Sorry-I am kinda boring!

A&A'smommy replied: My first one is married to a girl I use to dance with and the other is well I don't care where he is he was abusive

Maddie&EthansMom replied: My high school sweetheart (Daniel...who just celebrated a birthday) is in Colorado with his wife and their daughter. The last time I saw him was 6 years ago. At that time we had remained in touch...he had gone off to college to pursue a ministry degree. He went to the same college as my friend, Liz...they still keep in touch. Liz is friends with his wife, too. Every now and then Liz will give me updates on how they are doing, but I haven't heard in awhile. I'm afraid to ask.

No matter what I do, I will never have closure from that relationship. I loved Daniel, but I never could have loved him the way he loved me. He had a HUGE crush on me for 2 years (he was younger). He did the most romantic things for me and just showered me with poetry and was the perfect boyfriend all the time. Everyone knew how crazy he was for me...we just weren't meant to be together and I don't understand that. I know that sounds silly, but I met Scotty and he is my everything. He might adore me the way Daniel does, but he doesn't show it the same. With Daniel it was just written all over him and it was so innocent and sweet. *sigh* Really Daniel and I were probably better off as friends. We had great times together. I cherish him and the memories I have with him. I just somehow think we would still be great friends today had we not dated.

I can't and won't talk to him, though. He will never be over me. I know he won't. His wife knows about me and Scotty knows about him. Like I said, I talked to him 6 years ago (I was married) and we kept in touch. But everytime I talked to him he just had this longing in his voice and he would tell me how much he loved me. I didn't need that in my life. My marriage was not at a good place then. I also got letters from him. I finally had to let go. Liz says he talked about me for a long time...especially after he met his wife. I know he is happy. He would never marry if he wasn't sure. This is why I"m afraid to ask about him. A part of me worries that he never asked about me and a part of me worries that he did, kwim? I'd just rather not know and leave things the way they are. I do hear from his family every year at Christmas. They send a card, but don't say much...I do the same. Just a basic letter with a picture of my kids. They are great people and they, too adored me. (unlike my in-laws)

I used to have dreams (nightmares) that I actually married Daniel. I would wake up crying and just be so sad b/c I can remember in my dream leaving Scotty behind and being so miserable without him. In a way that makes me feel so much better. It is reassurance that I chose the perfect man for me.


Well, that was therapeutic.

MyLuvBugs replied: Oh girl!! I've been dreaming about the men from my past too. A lot lately! I think about what my life would be like if I'd had sex with that guy or if I'd only been brave enough to kiss that guy. But then I look at my husband... and I watch him with our daughter.. and I realize that he's the man I was ment to be with my whole life.

But a romp in the hay with the other guys would have been nice before hand. lol

jcc64 replied: I've been with him since we first met wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy back in high school. (23 yrs!)