Worst fears

A&A'smommy wrote: I wasn't sure if I should ask this one but I figured its a good way to really KNOW each other plus its interesting....

Mine is Jeremiah cheating on me I trust him but I know I'm not pretty anymore (or at least not as pretty as I use to be) and I'm a LOT heavier than I use to be sometimes I just wonder if he ever looks at other prettier girls and wonders what it would be like if he could date them.... anyway I'm REALLY paranoid

kit_kats_mom replied: Mine is losing my DH, DD or new baby. DH and I have made the "telephone pole pact" meaning that if anything happened to K (or now this baby) that we would just pack it up in a car and drive as fast as we can into a telephone pole. I honestly don't think I have the chutzpah to go on without them.

DH, I could live without, for the kids sake, but I wouldn't ever want too.

I'm always worrying about them.

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Oh honey...love is not judged by appearance! I know that doesn't help your fear, but it is true. I couldn't cheat on Scotty just b/c he has gained some extra pounds and I'm sure he couldn't do that to me, either. I love him so deeply that I don't see what he looks like when I look at him...just his soul.

My greatest fear is someone trying to take my kids. I'm haunted by this. I check the windows, doors, closets, under beds, etc and get up all hours of the night to check on them.

coasterqueen replied: I used to be worried about appearance but I gave that up a long time ago, lol. My grandma always said you have to love yourself before others can love you. I haven't liked the way I look for ages so I don't know how Ryan could, but he does, lol.

My worst fears.....everything, lol. No seriously, it would be to lose my DH, Kylie or our new baby. I think that would be the worst for me.

Kirstenmumof3 replied: Jessie I know how you feel. After I had my first baby I gained so much weight. I thought my DH would leave me. It's almost out 10th anniversary and he's still with me! Don't worry Jessie, he loves you!

My biggest fear is loosing my family to a house fire. I'm so paranoid that I change the batteries on the smoke alarms.

MomToMany replied: My worst fear would be anything happening to or losing any member of my family unexpectedly.

I used to think getting cheated on was the worst thing, but it's happened, and wasn't the end of the world (although it was the end of the marriage). Yes, I think I'm fat & ugly (always have), but DH doesn't seem to care.

aspenblue1 replied: My worste fear is something happening to Isabella or DH.

momof2girls replied: mine would be something happening to my girls or dh

mummy2girls replied: Mine is losing Jenna. I would just completely lose it if i lost another child. And i fear that i will lose my dad(not sure why maby because he is gett older)

Josie83 replied:
Aimee, that is so sweet and I totaly agree. Jessica, I've seen your picture on your website and let me tell you, you have nothing to worry about lookswise, not that that's always so important! And neither have you Karen. I think I have come to terms with not being the prettiest or the most amazing and knowing that for Jason, I'll do! I think my biggest fear is something happening to take Cassie or Jason away from me . . . I don't know what i'd do without either of them. Its scary even writing it down! xx

My2Beauties replied: My biggest fear is something happening to any of my close loved ones, Hanna, Brian, my mom or dad!! I'd literally go crazy! I don't think I could live without any of these people in my life right now. That scares me even thinking about it.

Don't judge yourself and don't worry yourself to death about your DH cheating! He loves you for you!!!! Looks do not matter, it's the inside that counts and I'm sure DH loves all parts of you inside and out! I think this is a common worry among many women especially after having children and I just think that we women need to learn to love ourselves for who we are and not what we wish we were and probably never will be!

Kathy replied: My worst fears.......car accident. Something horrible happening to my kids....fire. Ugh.

loveydad replied: Fire. Something happening to my kids. Losing my girlfreind - my ex wife trying to pull all this crap getting custody of Henry again...nightmares! And that the twin's mother would ever try to come back for them.

MomToJade&Jordan replied: For me it is something happening to Jade. I'm afraid for all of my loved ones, but If something were to happen to Jade I would lose it. I hate putting her to bed at night because I worry. This worry gets me up at night to check on her. I guess because I went through so much just to have a baby that I have this fear.

jolene555 replied: hate to be a broken record here, but . . .

my absolute fear would be to lose my fiance' and my georgia at the same time (she's 8 mo old now and i still won't let him take her in the car w/o me) , but i know if that were to happen i would be along shortly after.

i think that worse than that is the thought of someone taking georgia and doing horrible things to her, and the jailtime i would be doing once i found that pos who took her.

MommyToAshley replied:
Exactly how I feel. This is exactly how I am. If you replace the word Jade with Ashley, then I could have written your post.