bad news . . .

jolene555 wrote: Since Barry can't seem to find a job, it looks like Georgia and I are going to have to move back to my hometown, and he's going to stay at his mom's. I'm so upset. We'll be an hour apart, and I'll be caring for our little girl all by myself, while taking a full time course load at school and working part time. I don't know how I'm going to make, or how we're going to make it. We might not even be together for Christmas. I've been crying for most of the evening. I'm so scared.

MommyToAshley replied: ((((((HUGS)))))) I'm so sorry. That has got to be rough, financial stress on top of being away from your DH at Christmas is a lot for anyone to take. I can't imagine being away from my DH for that long. Is there any way that can he move with you and look for work in your hometown?

I hope things turn around quickly for you.

darrylswifeskylersmom replied: Oh hunnie!! im soo sorry! *HUGS**

I will keep u in my prayers dont lose hope..!!
this may be hard but it makes u stronger!!
your in my thoughts
**HUGS***
hope things work out!

Kirstenmumof3 replied: Awwww I'm so sorry to hear this! Things will work out for both of you!

MomToMany replied: I am so sorry to hear that. What a very tough situation. That is a lot to deal with all by yourself. I can only pray that Barry finds a job soon so you can all be together again. Is there anyone in your hometown to help you out when you need it?

GavinsMommy replied: Aww I'm sorry! I don't know what to say, but I will be thinking of you guys. I hope something comes up and everything works out and hopefully you will get to spend your Christmas together.

TANNER'S MOM replied: Hey Honey, I promise that something will workout. It always does. I have had some rought Decembers..but God has always seen us thru and you will you too.

Just bring your man close to you, in heart if not in person.

Our song at my house is an old Merle Haggard song, called "If we make it thru Decemeber" everything will be alright.

And it's true. Just take it one day at a time and it will work it's self out.

DansMom replied: That sounds so rough. I'm sorry

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Jo I'm terribly sorry. Everything will be fine. Don't be afraid. I know you can make it. You will have your friends and family nearby to help. DH and I did this for 7 mos. He was 3 hours from us. He left for a job in Dallas when Maddie was 3 mos old and we were able to move here when she was 10 mos old. I worked full time, too. We made it just fine. It wasn't easy...I missed Scotty terribly, but we did it. You are in my thoughts. Hang in there.

kimberley replied: (((hugs))) hon! i am sorry things are so difficult right now. lots of P&PT coming your way. i hope something works out so Barry can be with you for the holidays at least.

jem0622 replied: I am sorry that you all are in this situation, but glad you are making decisions that sound best to help everyone make it through this tough time. Just remind yourself that it is just a temporary situation and just pray that all will resolve itself very soon.

HUGS

jolene555 replied: Oh yay hope!!!! My father is so wonderful!!! He's in HVAC (owns his own business in our hometown) and has friends in relative areas. Well, he's arranged a deal with a friend of his who owns a duplex. My dad is going to do work on the duplex as long as this guy let's us live there for 2 months rent free!!!!

This, of course, means that Barry and I will not be seperated, and we have somewhere to live while he finds a job!!! I've driven past it and it's not bad at all, and migh make a nice home for us for a couple years. Right across the street from my old grade school and church. I'm so excited!!! Better start packing . . .

jolene555 replied: . . . and I forgot to thank you all for your support. I've been so very emotional while under this stress. You don't know what it means to have people who care.

Josie83 replied: O Jo I'm so sorry. i really don't know what to say to make it better, but we're all here to support you in spirit if not in person! You can get through this . . . thinking of you xx

A&A'smommy replied: ((((BIG HUGS))))) It is going to work out sweetie!!! I will be praying that he finds a job VERY VERY soon!!!