don't know what to think...

kimberley wrote: last night i talked to Jacob, and James refused to come on the phone. he gets in weird moods like that sometimes, so i just chalked it up to him being tired or something. i just talked to Jacob again tonight and James is still refusing to talk to me . i don't get it. Jacob said he just doesn't want to talk to me but doesn't know why. could it be things they are saying to him up there? i am really trying not to let this bother me but it is hard. they will probably be home around 9-10pm tomorrow night so i won't get to talk to him until friday morning. i just feeling like i am losing grip of everything .

mckayleesmom replied: Try not to worry...he is probably reacting to things they might be saying about you......When he gets home he will know right from wrong.

Insanemomof3 replied: Oh hon, Don't worry. Hopefully he will be back to his old self when he gets home.

mammag replied: I agree with Brianne. I think it could possibly be things they are saying or the way they are acting about you wanting them to call and such. I wouldn't worry about it too much, he'll be fine once he comes home.

luvbug00 replied: I'm sorry this has been such a hard coupple days for you. It must be hard for him to deal with everything but I think he'll be fine when you get him home to you and just hold him and explain you just wanted to be sure he was safe. I think your an awsome mom and they are all lucky children!

ions_momma replied: Im so sorry that this is happening to you! Im sure it is VERY hard! Im sure when he gets home he will be back to his old self! Try not to worry about it!

booey2 replied: He could be in a mood or he may just miss you too much to want to try and talk to you. I know that when Matthew went away with his grandma to Florida in May he wouldn't talk to us on the phone, we had to beg with my neice to get him to come to the phone. He finally did talk to us but it was the day before he came home so I guess he decided it was safe to talk to us cause he would see us soon. Hang in there all will be better when he gets back to you.

mom2tripp replied: Geez what a rough couple of days this has been for you--hopefully it will all be over soon and your kids will be back in your arms. GOOD LUCK and sending lots of hugs your way

Josie83 replied: How strange? any chance your inlaws could have said something to him about you? xx

MM'sMama replied: Oh honey I am really sorry I don't really know what to say but wanted send my love and hugs you way .

jcc64 replied: I know you're struggling with this separation, Kimberly, but I wouldn't necessarily read too much into his behavior. I can recall more than one occasion where dh and I went away for a day or two and left the kids with my mom. They were having a ball, being spoiled and entertained round the clock, but my oldest refused to talk to us by phone. Never quite got to the bottom of it, maybe he was pissed at being left behind, but whatever the case, it passed as quickly as it came. Nothing anyone could ever say to your kids would erode their love for you. It could temporarily confuse them, but I assure you, kids are loyal.

coasterqueen replied: ((HUGS)) hon. YOu have so much going on in your life right now you don't need this. I hope everything is ok. and p/pts coming your way.

A&A'smommy replied: Ohhh hun I'm sorry I hope its just a weird mood!! (((((HUGS)))) Let us know how he is doing!!

MissyKay2005 replied: Hang in there Hun. I am sure everything is fine. I know my mind has a way of making me crazy when it is nothing at all.

DansMom replied:
Hopefully you can sort things out once you get to see him. I would feel hurt too---and worried. I agree that it might be temporary confusion or anger at the changes going on right now---hard to know until you get to talk to him.