feeling down - but can't stay away...

luvbug00 wrote: Well I'm back already. I feel wretched but I can't stay away. I just don't get why I can't hold onto my babies. There are no birthing problems in my family I'm the bad apple. And my kids are the ones who are paying for it. Mya even had to come early. I went into premature labor with her twice. What's Wrong with me Is this a sign I shouldn't be having kids? I don't understand.

PrairieMom replied: The fact that you are a good mother is a sign that you should be having children. Some people just have more trouble than others. I admire your strength. I don't know how I would handle the same situation.
hang in there.

MyBrownEyedBoy replied: Hun, Mya is proof positive that you are a good mommy. These things happen, there doesn't have to be a reason. I am sorry it keeps happening to you. You have such a big heart. I always know I can count on hugs from you, so here are some from me ((((HUGS))))

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: Ditto what they all said above!

amymom replied: Oh Nadia, I so understand how you feel. I have had two miscarriages. Lots of Hugs to you.

Mommy2BAK replied: I am so sorry, I know you must be upset. All I can say is don't be so hard on yourself. We love you and are here for you

Maddie&EthansMom replied: I'm so sorry, hun. You are such a great mom and like the other said, Mya is proof that you can have beautiful children. I hope God gives you a baby. Remember that He is never late and when it is time, you will have that perfect baby in your arms to cuddle and love.

A&A'smommy replied: Honey I definitly do NOT think its a sign you shouldn't have kids... I wish I could say more but I don't know what to say...I'm just really sorry it sucks that you are going through this right now!!!

redchief replied: Nadia, if miscarriages were proof of someone telling us we shouldn't have kids, we wouldn't have four wonderful children. Hang in there, and take care of yourself!

Sarah&Mackenzie replied: Nadia please don't blame yourself, there are just some things we have no control over. Mya is one of the luckiest little girls to have you as her mom!!! I wish you the best on the healing process!! We are all here for you!!

kimberley replied: honey! you are not a bad mom and this is NOT a sign!! please don't say that. these things just happen sometimes. you have to have faith that it will happen when the time is right. for now, hold onto your sweet little Mya and know we are always here for you!!

angelhair replied: I am so sorry! i know the frusteration and sadness of reoccurent miscarriages. it hurts so much you wonder if you can stand the pain. you are not a bad mommy and please remember the miscarriages was beyond your control! if God meant that as a sign to not have kids y6ou would not have your precious girl in your arms and i am sure she is wonderful!!!! miscarriages is not about what we did or did not do, but it is more to do with biological reasons. love dee

ions_momma replied: I am so sorry to hear this! Dont blame yourself for it, Mya is beautiful proof that you are a wonderful mother.