final news from angelhair - miscarriage

angelhair wrote: hello the day after i had the good unexpected ultrasound I started to bleed. went to the hospital today and miscarriged. it hurt so bad because of the good news I recieved the day before. all day today I could not stop crying, I felt like I was on a emotional rollarcoaster. has anyone miscarriaged after their first child and went on to have a successful second child?

Jamison'smama replied: I am so so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Maddie&EthansMom replied: You are in my prayers.


(((HUGS))))
Aimee

MommyToAshley replied: I am soooo sorry you have gone through all of this. It must be really hard after getting your hopes up like that. <<HUGS>>

I know it doesn't make you feel any better now, but I am sure you will be able to concieve again and have a healthy baby.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!

<<HUGS>>

5littleladies replied: I'm so sorry. You are in my prayers.

<<Hugs>>

CantWait replied: I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, I'm sure in no time you'll be carrying another bundle of joy. I myself haven't gone this, but my mom has, and it is possible. Hugs

~CrazieMama~ replied: I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have not been in your situation, but I do know that you can indeed carry another baby to term and have it be healthy. I will keep you in my prayers.

momma2jenna replied: Yes! the same thing happened to me last year. I miscarried on June 28th.
I was about 8 weeks pg. My dh and I were gonna wait a few months to let my body get back to 'normal' but, it didn't happen quite that way.
Like I said, I miscarried June 28th, bled til July 4th, straight thru. Then, I got pregnant on July 14th.!!!!!!!!!!!!didn't mean to, but I did, now I have my 5 month old daughter.
My dr. said all was o.k. even though I didn't wait to get pg. again. I'm 35 years old, and this is my 1st baby.

I know exactly what you're going through, and it's almost unbearable, but I want you to look at it this way too. I was very sad when I lost that little baby, but, I was equally greatful that God took care of that lil' soul for me.
I feel like maybe there was something wrong with that lil' butterbean of mine and God decided to take it on back to heaven. I knew then that when He blessed me again, that that little sugar would be perfect,...and she is.

You are in my prayers, find the good in this as hard as it is. Everything happens for a reason. God Bless You and DH, it will be no time and all will be good for you both!
Love,
Carla

MomofTay&Sam replied: I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could be of more help. Right now I am just sending my prayers and if you need to talk I am here. God Bless You and your family.

mckayleesmom replied: So sorry about your lost....Hugs to you.....A ton more hugs to you at that. I misscarried our first baby on June 24th 2002 and found out I was 4 weeks pregnant on August 22 2002, so sometimes it happens pretty fast....Just stay hopefull,,, it will happen when its the right time. I hope you start feeling better soon.

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I am so sorry for your loss! I can not imagine what you are going through!

ediep replied: so sorry for your loss and that you have been on an emothional rollercoaster for the past few weeks.

Stay strong and you will be carrying a perfect bundle of joy very soon!!!

+Zemirah+ replied:
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I feel so bad for you Yes, Hun, I miscarried my second baby and have gone on to have five more full-term and perfectly healthy children. In total I have had 10 pregnancies and 4 losses interspersed throughout. The percentage of miscarriages is generally considered about 1 in 3 pregnancies, overall. Having a healthy full-term child, miscarrying another at some point later, and then having more children is actually fairly common. I know that doesn't ease your heartache now, but I hope that as you heal, that knowledge will help you have hope for future pregnancies.

When I miscarried at the end of April/first of May, I wrote up a few posts here, and everyone responded with onderful replies... you may find something helpful in those threads. Here are links to those threads:

http://forums.parentingclub.com/index.php?...t=ST&f=11&t=795

http://forums.parentingclub.com/index.php?...=ST&f=11&t=1215

amynicole21 replied: Oh honey, I am so sorry. After the initial heartbreak, the wonderful news, then the let down you must be so overwhelmed. Please take some time to grieve for this little beautiful soul. I am sending you hugs upon hugs, and wishing you the best.

kimberley replied: i am so sorry for your loss but don't lose hope. you will have a babe in your arms sooner than you know it.

i m/c my first child, had 2 perfect little boys, then m/c a baby mid nov last year and just gave birth to a beautiful baby girl 3 days ago who was conceived just weeks after my second loss. sometimes it just isn't the right time and there is nothing you did wrong, it just happens. we are all here for you whenever you need to talk!


Kimberley

Guest replied: I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I was happy when I heard about your ultrasound. I had two miscarriages before Jade was conceievd and then born. The last one happened on Nov 27th 2001. I conceieved Jade on Dec 11-13th 2001 and she was a healthy baby. Don't lose hope sweety. I had a doctor tell me once that 80% of pgs end in Miscarriage. He said that there were probably more that weren't reported. I still feel the loss of the two that didn't make it into the world. Just have faith and keep trying and soon you will have another baby.

MomToJade&Jordan replied: Okay that guest post was me. I guess this computer doesn't keep me logged on like the other one.

aspenblue1 replied: I am so sorry for you loss.