he irks me to no end!
mummy2girls wrote: yes its aron..another vent but i have no other persont o vent to so i will use you guys as my venting board 
i talked to aron and let him know about the dayhome and how much i will save and he says...Now i dont have to give you 300 for child suppoprt but rather 250...HUH?!?! i said why is that and he says because daycare is onlyu 50 each now... ummm doesnt matter dude you will still pay 300. Just because its goes down 50 doesnt mean you can do this. He knows i need that extra 50 because of my rate of pay that went down 200 with this new job and my rent increasing 150.. he knows its tight so he goign to take away 50 from me? What he usually does is give me 300 a month and i decided what bilsl it goes to , what jenna needs to get with it and such. am i being unreasonable to still ask himt o give me 300 even though childcare is going down 50?
Then he is telling me he wants jennas middle bname changes from lynn to chase. HUH?! Dont get me wrong i love the name chase but lynn is my middle name and thats why i wanted it lynn. So he wants her name to be jenna chase *****! Why si he askign me to do this? jenna having my middle name means alot to me!
can i move away... anyone want to take in a 3 year old ad a single gal?
moped replied: He can't decide how much he pays you - the courts decided that a long time ago........................DUH, sorry.
Aron, you can't change her name - that was decided too!
Nathansmom replied: He can't change the amount he pays in support, tough luck. As far as Jenna's name, sorry, but it is the name she was given, too late to be wanting to change it now!
A&A'smommy replied: I'll take you!!!!!
 I would continue to ask for 300 and about the name change thing that is just stupid 
mummy2girls replied:
this is not through courts we decided on what he pays me together.
holley79 replied:
I'm not sure where you are but I could defiantly go through the courts. This way he can't just stop paying you all together. It's not good to just to it between the two of you. If you don't have a court order he could just stop paying you all together and that is not good.
Tell him he's lucky. My Dh pays 585.00 a month for one plus medical.
mckayleesmom replied: Did his mom drop him shortly after birth? Tell him if he likes the name Chase so much...to change his own name to Chase....idiot.
mummy2girls replied:
LOL he did LOL..well not legally he just wants his nieces and nephews to call him uncle chase...LOL
gr33n3y3z replied:
Then I guess its time to take him to the courts bc he will be paying alot more if you do sorry your going through this
JAYMESMOM replied: What a dork he is. He cannot change his daughter's name because he found a name he likes better.  . As for the money he is getting off very good my husband pays $500.00 a month for 1 plus health insurance if she wants us to.
You are more than welcome to come to my house. It is slightly crowded but full of love.
Boys r us replied: Well, maybe you should take him to court..he might end up paying more!
Kaitlin'smom replied: I will take you!!!! any time
really what a dork and maybe its tiem you took him to court you will most likey get more. And dont get me started on name changes  really I am gonna be checking flight soon and come there and kick him in the well you know what he is such a HUGE PITA
Maddie&EthansMom replied:  WHAT??? He is such a moron!!
My2Beauties replied:
Then I'd tell him watch his butt before you do take him to court - he'd probably shell out more if you did 
Also $300 is not a lot, Brian pays out $600 a month at least for Desiree now that he has this joband he doesn't go through the court system neither, they agreed to that and he doesn't think he gives her enough! Before this job he paid $100 per week plus any other expenses such as school clothes, materials, shoes, extra money if she needed ANYTHING! Tell Aron to try that on for size! He needs to be a man - sorry Shelly he just irks me!
DansMom replied: Yeah, I agree---he needs to pay official, court-ordered child support. He'll be sorry he ever argued over 50 bucks. And the middle name business---what an egocentric child he is. Ignore that. There's nothing he can do to change it. I'm guessing he's not willing to go to the city hall and pay the fee and fill out the forms for a name change on his own. He's just trying to push your buttons. What a jerk.
amymom replied: Oh Shelly, I am sorry you are going thru this. I agree with everyone else, he is getting off easy. And I know this is hard, stop telling him when you save money somewhere, just tell him when it goes up  . I know you can't tell how he is going to react, I am just kinda of joking but still how dare he! errrggg
And the name change thing... Uncle Chase it is, tell him Jenna can call him Chase instead of Dad, 
3xsthefun replied: I agree with everyone else you need to take him to court.
And WTH is with him wanting change her middle name! That is crazy!
~KARA~ replied: Id take him to court. My x is ordered to pay 135 a month! and I havent gotten ANY since March!!
redchief replied: Frankly, $300.00 a month in support sounds like a figure from the 1970's. He messes with, you "Chase" his sorry butt back before the judge. Oh yeah, her name is beautiful as it is. 
ammommy replied: You really need to get something official through the courts for Jenna's sake. $300 per month is very reasonable. The name issue sounds like another attempt to control your life. to you both. I just cleaned out the guest room, so you can come here
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