i am so sad right now

mummy2girls wrote: im not sure why im sad about it because its not me who said it....My sister finally decided to call me last night and tell me that she is bleeding really heavily and badly and fells crampy. So i told her to get to the doctors because it could be something serious. Well she called me and she said she went to the er because the pain and bleeding was severe. And they did run tests and such and they said she is miscarring. Then proceeded to follow by saying YESSSSSSSSS. I said huh? and she said in a really nasty voice...Well Its not like i wanted the kid!!!! Im like OMG how can you say that. No responce. I feel very sad. She is so inconcederate. you dont have to celebrate because you lost a baby. I know she doesnt want the baby but geez. You could of said it in a nicer way and in a better tone of attitude.

why am i feeling like i lost a baby? wierd. She already has a 5 year old little girl from a previous marriage and she doesnt even spend time with her. this girl is so disobeidient and the only attention she gets from my sis is negative attention. She thinks being bad the only way her mom will pay attention to her. How sad. Anyways. I just had to get this off my chest. So sad.

amynicole21 replied: That's so terrible In situations like these, though, I think that maybe things happen for a reason - the baby wasn't wanted. Before you said she had a daughter, I thought "oh, she must just never know the joys of having a child." It makes it even worse, though.

~CrazieMama~ replied: That is awful!!!!!! I would have a hard time talking to her if I were you. But that is just me.

mummy2girls replied: i think she is just not the mother type. She got preggo at age 19 and had her at age 20. She wasnt ready to be a mom. She always wanted to go out and spend time with her friends. That is why her last marriage failed.

this is the same girl that had a miscarriage at 15 then an abortion at 16 another miscarriage at 17 and then her dd at 20 and now another miscarriage...UGH.

She even talked her friend into an abortion also. I talked to her because she wanted my side of how it is like to be preg while single and having to raise her on my own. And i explained to her everything and said its worth it. And she decided to keep the baby but then a week later my sis told me she convinced her she couldnt do it on her own and to have an abortion. And she had an abortion.

Why is she so hurtful? i am so upset. But im trying not to have her get to me and im trying to just move on with my loife without her negativeaty and be my own boss of my own life. Its hard but im trying. I just get hurt by her attitude and what she does.

Kirstenmumof3 replied: OMG how awful! I can't believe how heartless she is! I think of all these couples wanting babies so bad, that can't even get pregnant and she is celebrating lossing her baby! That is just awful! I'm so sorry you are going through this! Sending lots and lots of your way. Try to avoid her for a while, it will only upset you more!

mummy2girls replied: im trying to avoid her. im not answering my phone for a while. im sure jenna can sense my saddness and i got ot try to move on with out my sis. As much as it hurts me but what else can i do. anyways...thnaks guys...

mckayleesmom replied: You sister sounds like she is really cold hearted. I don't think I would want anyone negative like that in my life. Actually I think I probably would have punched my sister if she said something like that. If you feel like that fine,,,but don't tell people....Big hugs to you..

CantWait replied: That's so sad, how could someone be so cruel. I really feel sorry for her little girl too, what a shame

A&A'smommy replied: Im so sorry!!! Your sister sounds like she isnt the mother type and i feel very bad for the little girl and you! You will be better if you do stay away from her for a little while that is a pretty deep hurt. I hope you start to feel better soon!!! <<<<HUGS>>>>

Maddie&EthansMom replied: That breaks my heart. I am sad for her. She just has no idea what she is missing out on. (((HUGS))) to you b/c I'm sure it really is painful to hear someone (especially your sister) admit something so crude and evil. God was watching out for that little one.

coasterqueen replied: That is just horrible. I feel sorry for your neice

MomToJade&Jordan replied: That saddens me as well. I know first hand what it's like to miscarry a child. I didn't go through that not once, but twice and each time ripped a part of my heart out with it. I think I would have been just as shocked as you were if someone had said that to me. I understand that she didn't want the kid, but she could have used a little more tact.

Jamison'smama replied: so sad, hugs to you!

MommyToAshley replied: That's really sad. I will never understand people like that, it is just so hard for me to comprehend.

<<Hugs>> to you.

Mommieto2Girls replied: That is just awful. I second that someone was watching out for the baby.