personal question - don't have to answer

mckayleesmom wrote: Just a personal question...nobody has to answer if they don't want to. Just wondering how often you and your dh or dw do the deed? Im starting to think my husband is the horniest man I have ever known. He thinks that going without for 2 days is spousal abuse..lol... Just wondering if anyone else can relate....My husband is the definition of the guy that has a one track mind.

Jamison'smama replied: To answer your question subtly---not as often as he would like We co-sleep so it always has to involve being creative and I am not always in the creative mood--well if I would organize the guest room that would be less of a problem but for now....I am working on it though--he is pretty patient

aspenblue1 replied: We go about a couple times a week... My husband is the same way all day every day!!!!

CantWait replied: LOL not enough here, but with being pregnant and him gone it's no wonder. My dh used to be like that, he'd always be on top on me, not literally.....he use to say that I should be so lucky that he found me so yummy When he wasn't always touching, pinching, smacking my butt or grabing unmentionables after awhile, I have to say I agreed.

Suck it up while you can

Maddie&EthansMom replied: Good question! Well, DH would do it every night and that still wouldn't be enough!! I seem to want sex more while I am pg...so we try to do it atleast a couple of times a week. It really just depends. Some weeks it is more, some weeks it is less. DD sleeps in our room most of the time so I can relate to the "we have to be creative" quote.

mckayleesmom replied: I have to admit we were equally active before Mckaylee and its not that I wouldn't like to resume the way it use to be,,but staying home all day and being puked on all day kind of puts me out of the mood...lol....My dh thinks there should be nookie all the time...If he had it his way,,there wood be morning nookie, afternoon nookie and night nookie...lol

DansMom replied:
We probably BD once or twice a week these days. DH would love a little something every single day , but that's not realistic! As co-sleepers we also have to be creative, and working full time makes me exhausted by the time dinner, bath, playtime, books and nursing is done . I think it's important to make the time and keep the connection, so I try to save some energy for DH every now and then!

paradisemommy replied: lol - i asked the exact same question to my sister (ya know sisterly talks) she told me "at least once a day" - i just about died and she's been married for 15 years. her "active" husband likes doing the deed every morning and sometimes the night before too. she tells everyone that she looks at it as a time to exercise her butt cheeks - while he is busy doing his thing, she's concentrating on squeezing her cheeks together for exercise

MomToMany replied: We're about once a month here .

Kirstenmumof3 replied: Well my DH and I haven't really been intimate in years! Poor guy! When we were trying to get pregnant it only took 2 weeks and boy did he ever feel ripped off! Lately because of the depression I haven't even really wanted him touching me! I am getting my hormones checked and DH is hoping this improves things!

Heather replied: Well, now that we are trying to get preg...we do it a few times a week...as you will see if you click on my chart. Before this though, it was a rare thing. After, I had Ali it took 5 months for me to even want to do it. It still hurts sometimes. I had a bad tear so...

amynicole21 replied: Wow - DH would love to be married to some of you guys!! I would say once every 2 months for us. And even then it's pity sex on my part... I'm just not interested these days...

coasterqueen replied: Wow, I'm with Amy on this one! My DH would LOVE to be married to you ladies!!!!!! Let's see here, I know we did once last month for sure. We co-sleep and every time we've tried Kylie wakes up at the wrong time, if you know what I mean.

I am just too darn tired to have the energy to do that as well these days. Just not as interested as I should. I'm "praying" Kylie will start sleeping more than 1.5 hours at a time at night so we all can get some sleep and so DH and I can have "our time" back.

mckayleesmom replied:
lol...We are the same way pretty much,,,maybe skipping 1 day... And the morning thing is hillarious...if I tell him no in the morning he will whine " when was the last time we did it in the morning". lol...Every time that commercial comes on for that purple pill ,,,the one kind of like viagra for women...he looks at me and says hes going to sprinkle them in my food..lol..He already gets it once a day ..we might skip a day... He even sometimes gets quikies sometimes when he comes home for lunch. I think he gets more sex then most married men. I tell him that all the time...lol

mummy2girls replied: My SO pees me off because if i dont do the deed he gets so mad and he has a bad attitude and makes it out to be my fault and i feel terrible all the time!

mckayleesmom replied: My rule is attitude = cold shower.....he knows better then to be pissy about it.

Schnoogly replied: Wow I feel a little better knowing there are others that don't do it that often. About once a month-6 weeks since Iain was born. Iain won't sleep in our bed unless I'm right there next to him so that kinda limits things.

Plus I haven't been in the mood (except for a couple of times) since I was about 8 weeks PG.

supermom replied: We usually go two-three times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less, depending on my mood or if it's that "time of month" - but we would do it every night, two or three times, if it was up to DH !!

MomToJade&Jordan replied: The funny thing about DH and I is I'm the one who wants to do it all the time. If it were up to me we would be having it a lot. He is the one who works so he can get pretty tired and so sometimes he doesn't want to. I guess I would say 2-3 times a week is an average for us. He really likes it when the baby takes her naps, it's a perfect time for a little fun.

Hillbilly Housewife replied:

I WISH I'd get it half as often as you ladies....


USUALLY, it's about once every 10 or 12 days. LATELY, it's been 5 or 6 weeks at a time. I could EASILY go for at LEAST 3 times a week...

*sigh*

And it's DH who doesn't really want to, not me. I've never had any small pink or purple friends before... but now I have more than I care to share... heh heh

maliksmommy replied: You guys DH's sure do get a lot more action than my DH. I am right there with Amy, I could go quite a while without it and still be fine. It usually happens so DH will get out of his mood that he gets in when he hasn't had any for a while.

coasterqueen replied: Okay, maybe some of us need to "swap", lol. Some of our DH's want to do it all the time and some of ours don't. Some of us ladies don't want to do it all the time and some of us do. So maybe if we all swapped we would all get what we want . LOL.



Just kidding